So I've recently found out I'm pregnant from this guy I've recently started daiting. My birth control failed. My mistakes aside, I'm not sure what I plan to do with the pregnancy but I think the father deserves to know.
Thing is I'm not sure how to tell him. He mentioned wanting a child and did say on our first date he would want to keep it and be a father but that was a bit ago. His plans have changed. He's planning to go into the Marines in a year so I doubt a child is something he'd even want right now.
I think when I tell him, I want to invite him to meet up with me so we can discuss everything in person. Know where each other stands and what's the ultimate decision. However, I've read things that say to just terminate the pregnancy without telling the guy. To me personally this is wrong as he should be told before anything goes ahead.
I'm frightened at the moment and no one else knows. I'm not sure what to do. Before the comments come in, I know it's my fault but that not the point here.
Thing is I'm not sure how to tell him. He mentioned wanting a child and did say on our first date he would want to keep it and be a father but that was a bit ago. His plans have changed. He's planning to go into the Marines in a year so I doubt a child is something he'd even want right now.
I think when I tell him, I want to invite him to meet up with me so we can discuss everything in person. Know where each other stands and what's the ultimate decision. However, I've read things that say to just terminate the pregnancy without telling the guy. To me personally this is wrong as he should be told before anything goes ahead.
I'm frightened at the moment and no one else knows. I'm not sure what to do. Before the comments come in, I know it's my fault but that not the point here.
