Is it possible the men on here who hate on women are generally just bad partners who pick bad partners?

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Celtero · Accepted Answer

Real rich coming from you... someone who has figured out all that bullshit earlier than 99% of everyone else. As if you have a spark of nuance to add. As if you have any clue what it's like on the other side.

I can't remember the last time I was optimistic about romance. When I was 11 maybe? You know, before the girls started making up rumors about me being some pervert. My whole life it's been a shitshow, being around women just makes me depressed but I am forced to want them anyway because biology. But it's apparently all my fault because I'm just a piece of shit. Never mind that women's personalities are either grossly boring or contain actively repulsive values... Never mind that there's an impossible-to-distinguish line between overly aggressive and creepy to too passive and wimpy, and that during this you're supposed to make everything happen otherwise nothing happens because it's too much to ask for a woman to ask the man out or text them first. Never mind that the majority of women are physically unattractive or promiscuous. But yeah, everything is actually real great, I am the real problem here, I need to just wife-up one of these hoes and everything will be better. It's not like I was born into a life that could've been designed by god to make me unhappy... I just need to look up and love all wymyn.

JCtoyota · Accepted Answer

That's likely true. The problem with these guys is that they only view women through the lense of relationships and romance. And if theirs went south or they can't find another one, then therefore all women are scum. But you know, women make great friends. They make great co-workers. They're great confidants. They're great advisors with shit that men know nothing about. You don't have to be involved in a romantic situation with women to appreciate their value. I think women are awesome. Not just aesthetically, but all around.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

Yes. It’s interesting how many guys come here claiming to be victims, but when anyone’s dares to disagree with them, they lose their temper. Do they not realize how much they tell in themselves by the way they interact with others on here? Do they really expect me to buy their stories about an ex who was supposedly horrible and how he was perfect yet in the same sentence call me every name in book, then stalk and harass me because they don’t like what I say?

Rachelspiks · Accepted Answer

Yes, that's usually the case. They come across as being very bitter and resentful, and when pushed to explain why they are this way, will usually tell a story about how some woman in their past betrayed them, but strangely enough will never admit to the possibility that they may have been partially to blame for what went wrong as well. They are completely lacking in basic self-awareness.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

It’s easy to hate than reflect, regardless of gender but in this case, yea. Men who had difficulty dating women will hold on to their anger and pain instead of trying to heal so they can truly enjoy happiness.

I’ve been hurt just like them but I knew I would carry this pain into my next relationship without actually acknowledging my pain. It creates bigger problems and emotional problems until something drastically bad happens. I’m all about accountability but if you don’t actually peace what they preach then you will never truly experience happiness.

Turrorrr · Answer

it is not by default. many men hate women due to their own frustrations and if they would found right partner before it is to late, they can still be really decent people.

frustration develops mostly for sexual reasons. some men get frustrated because of their inexpirience, and impatience. if they don't get what they want, they turn to anger.

you really have to accept that this won't help you and if you want to get a true valuable girl, you have to be the best you, actively look for and be very patient. it might take 10 years. who knows. it might never happen. but you should never turn pessimist and to anger. this is for inexpirienced

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

It’s actually something I was not aware of until I joined GaG.

never seen so many butt hurt guys blaming everyone but themselves.

the usual rapey question going on about ‘how it’s unfair they are single’…. yeah I mean creepy rapey questions and they wonder lol.

i wonder if you were to add the following, how many would tick all the boxes…

country
political party
religious

jasco · Answer

Yea that's what usually happens. People who hate other people usually hate something in themselves or were raised that way. Of course for some haters their are reasons that could be used to justify that said hate. Is it ok to hate? No but will people do it? For sure.

LogicBomber · Answer

No.
I generally hate most women because they live up to the bullshit entitled asshole children mindset that seems to be the standard... and then become awful desperate trash after they hit their expiry. Having endless interactions with an endless number of females in life and seeing them in the media and online proves the standard. But stating basic truths doesn’t mean “ALL”

I cherish my wife and my daughter and they exist outside that standard.

Those same women believe that pointing out basic truths in female actions mean “all” and therefore “mIsOgNy” durrr

It’s proof of the narcism and hive mind.

Itsmeeeee77 · Answer

I don’t have any hatred towards women in general. But I have had all bad women in my life be it my ex wife or any other girl. I always give 100% towards my relationship but always receive drama. I was recently played by a girl who dumped me twice to make her feel good and yes I am angry on her but that’s what she chose to do. And yes I kind of believe as you sow so you reap. Bad relationships show us where we need to make us better. But overall some girls are cheaters and manipulators. Men do manipulate but they are simple and straightforward when it comes to love and having a family of his own.

Hanrej · Answer

I find it odd that people in general are so biased in their belief that women can't do anything wrong.
If the situation was reversed, not a single one would doubt a woman having had a bad relationship with an abusive man, no one would then post threads like this questioning the integrity of said individuals.

However, if a man have had very real experiances, is bold enough to share them in an effort to find comfort or warn others of the possible fate one can have for dating (wrong) women then emediatly he is ridiculed. I wonder if this is a social mechanism by women to fault others rather than admit they can do wrong, thus ensuring other men will be stupid enough to enter into relationships without any sort of hesitancy.

t-8900 · Answer

I dont hate women, just had lots of bad experiences with them. I know good women exist, I see them all the time. I know many are loving mothers and/or wives/gfs. But I've never really experienced that. Maybe there's just something wrong with me. I often wonder that. My criteria isn't even high for women so I can date a broad spectrum but its just hard for me I guess. Roll of the dice? Who knows.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

That's a bold statement to generalize anyone who may be bitter or "hate" women like you claim. While I am not ruling out men that can be like that, usually there is something that leads to that behavior.

Inexperience, having to learn what we value in ourselves and want in a partner, being burned by women. There are a myriad of reasons to why a man can hate women, but it does not all revolve around them being bad partners.

Lliam · Answer

I think that's true in many cases. They have a negative opinion toward women. When women they date figure that out, they dump the guy. And that reinforces the idiots negative opinion of women.
"Poor me. Bitches are such bitches." (see what I did there?)

CharlesScene · Answer

I think they are probably just keyboard warriors, they get to hide behind a username, say what they want, and not worry about anything because no one knows who they are. They are probably single for there own faults, on this site looking for answer that will help them, but judge others for asking the question that may help them.

exitseven · Answer

I don;t know what goes on in people's heads. Most people treat you decently if you treat them the same way. I try to be polite to everyone regardless of whether thay agree with me or not. I have been blocked by some anyway and some people IRL have treated me badly. I think that yes, they could be the product of their experiences.

humanearth · Answer

Man I been screwed over by woman lots of times. I still don't hate women. Just because some are bitches, don't make every female a bitch

jshm2 · Answer

Nah. the usual suspects are just incels and socially inept. The sort you read about over at r/niceguys

But it's the r/nicegirls that I get a good kick out of. These are girls who do the same behaviours instead.

user1516 · Answer

They’re BAD and I mean BAAAAAAADDDDD partners. All the men I’ve come across on here are literally manipulating/gaslighting mfs who think chauvinism and misogyny are “Okay”.

B4852 · Answer

I think there is a mixture of that and that some are telling the truth.

There is certainly a lot of men and women who do not appreciate each other. Which is why I think it's time to start talking about what men and women like and find great about each other.

Lift up the good qualities about each other.

KAT247 · Answer

For there to be bad partners means there’s a bad experience, so they vent about women in similar ways that women vent about men. Women can most definitely be at fault too.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I agree with you, it's a round circle that continues going around, when these men on here meet real women they end up with one just like themselves that is how it all begins and most time ends badly with divorced, sad if kids are involved

kenz000 · Answer

Makes sense. If you are unhappy in your relationship then it’s likely that you will find it easier to see all the flaws of males or females. Doesn’t mean it’s right for anyone.

MrCommodore · Answer

No idea, probably guys who got hurt badly in the past or something. I doubt many men really hate women, it's usually their own insecurities that drive this.

RealMarek · Answer

Some might be bad partners who picked bad partners. Others might have been good partners who picked bad partners then became bitter or cynical. Bitterness and cynicism makes a person a bad partner. It’s a trap to avoid.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Yes, you’re correct. They’re Bad people in general. Narcissists who think the world revolves around them.

Mangospacho · Answer

No way. First thing I do when my wife and I have an argument is go and complain about her on GaG and then insist all women are to blame. 😂

melanieeeB · Answer

Yeah definitely. Also people who have either no experience at all and therefore hate women in general

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap, and a fair amount otherwise are incels who berate and wish harm on women because they have shit luck with women.

loveslongnails · Answer

It's more than possible, it's likely. But don't the men who hate women just stop dating or looking for partners, and spend their time talking about how bad all women are?

Wiredone · Answer

People are really strange. One minute they are nice to you, then they block you. I'm nice to everyone. I don't even argue if we disagree on a topic

deane88 · Answer

I think it is more that men are only bad because they do not know how to treat people, let alone women. As a result, they do not know what they are looking for in a woman and therefore, these men pick the wrong type of women. Just my opinion.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

They pick sluts and then complain they get cheated on but you can also see them berarating me on here when i say a girls sexual history matters and they say it doesn't... ok go and get cheated on again dumbasses all of them. 😂

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

That sounds like a fair question to ask, and I would have to say yes!

Angeldrawers · Answer

No. Women are general equally shitty people as men are.

Fireguy17 · Answer

possibly, but I'll bet it goes back to how they were raised, how their mother was treated in the home, but Dr. Phil I'm not.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

... and genderwise vice versa... yeah possible. I run into a lot of woe is me stuff here lately.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

Of course it's possible. It's also possible it's just them.

Rob17792 · Answer

no they're just immature mgtow redpill incel jerkoffs

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

For the most part yes. Tell me who you hang out with and I will tell you who you are.

Neilbud · Answer

Yeah, I've seen this from both girls and guys in real life as well.

grega239 · Answer

Its also possible they were hurt by one or more women in his past. Animosity doesn't manifest for no reason

Andres77 · Answer

Quite possible... yup. That actually makes sense.

Pillarofhell · Answer

Who cares. Every woman hates on men and no one cares, but playing on that, that's the easiest way to intrigue them

Hangry06 · Answer

You attract what you are So yes

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Yes, but I think abusive mothers are the more likely cause of it.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

9 out 10 times yes. Scumbags generally attract other scumbags, otherwise they wouldn't be together.

dustybiker · Answer

I’d say the same for both genders.

coolcactus · Answer

I’m gonna guess you made a lot of men mad

Crepe_tart · Answer

Absolutely, and that's sad

hahahmm · Answer

Define "hate on women" for me.

NathanDavis · Answer

it is the reality... and they are in denial

slatyb · Answer

It's not possible. It's certain.

Jouth · Answer

No. That's the women on here who hate on men.

JohnGarcia · Answer

Yes, and same goes for women too.

WowwGirl · Answer

They are incels man. It's not understandable

Diodoro · Answer

Impossimpable

andy530 · Answer

If they hate on all women… maybe.

Jerre · Answer

Yes, it is very likely.

dolemite89 · Answer

yes marcy that has to be it ur so smart

Iron_Man · Answer

Yeah probably

roy_ricky09 · Answer

I second @Celtero

Soleil8000 · Answer

Very likely

Kkoalalita · Answer

Probably

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