Am I immature for ignoring my girlfriends daughter?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriends daughter fell asleep in our bed.
My girlfriend asked me to carry her daughter to her bedroom…

i said I didn’t want to.

she told me it was fine, she trusted me , and her daughter would love a father figure.
She had ADHD & abandonment issues..

I still refused..
I told her I’d rather not..

Yes immature

Not immature

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[Honesttguy]

You came off from frame oh no its big deal and stress. Rather its better to come from place of relaxed no biggie, no worries i got this. If she wakes up tell her relax is all good, chill sleep. Always direct things towards relaxation and calmness its more powerfull frame for men to have.

[boggboss]

Not sure if immature is the word but u was being a ass for sure

[Asker]

It’s not like that
I didn’t want the little girl waking up, seeing me, and freaking out

Thinking I’m trying to harm her

[Asker]

Or saying I did something

[boggboss]

That would not have been her first thoughts especially if your the partner of her mum but whatever u say I guess

[boggboss]

But her mum asked you to move her your not just touching her u moving her to her bed mate how are u ivertginking this if your going to be like that why even date a women with a kid