I had a fight with this girl and now I’m ignoring her, am I being immature?

[Anonymous]

She was playing games and being hard to get so I called her out which she then got me in trouble with the supervisor at work. I was really mad with her that she got me in trouble and wouldn’t talk to me why she was playing with me so I ignored her. Am I being immature or in the wrong for ignoring her now even if she is trying to reach out to me still? I feel like I can’t trust her anymore

[Anonymous]

why do guys say a girl is "playing" hard to get. maybe she is actually hard to get. she could be busy. she could be oblivious that you even like her. she could be going through something. she's not a mind reader. How would she know you want her to talk to her if you're not talking to her. then its pretty ironic how she IS reaching out and you're still not talking to her.!! grrr

[Opinion Owner]

to answer your question its sort of immature. but its bad communication coming from both ways. I think you should give her the benefit of the doubt this just one time and sort this shit out

[Asker]

It just feels like she’s changed suddenly, hard to talk to when I try and it’s weird. When I try she acts uninterested or seems like she’s busy then I leave it and the next day I notice she is trying to make me jealous and get me to notice her or try get my attention. Then again I go up to her and try to talk to her and she blows me off again. It feels like she is fine talking to everyone except me. I feel like I am trying to communicate with her but she doesn’t want to communicate with me just mess with me. I do feel like I’ve acted wrong but I can’t help it she’s broken my trust getting me in trouble, it’s hurt me. I do think I should let it go but how can I trust her now

[Opinion Owner]

so this whole situation.. dude. she likes you.
don't put your whole trust in someone or something right away. give it time.
she's acting this way because she's nervous as shit. lol

[Asker]

Wtf she actually likes me? Have I just acted like a complete idiot over nothing then 🤦🏻‍♂️

[Opinion Owner]

I think she likes you...
wait did you do something bad when you guys were talking between the time she started ignoring you?
I remember you said you called her out.. she's embarressed and probably pissed. but there's not much context here so its hard to really break everything down.

[Asker]

I don’t think I did anything bad. I asked her if I did anything wrong when she started ignoring me the first time and she said no and went red in the face. So I just assumed it was nothing then she started doing all these things so that’s when I called her out

[Opinion Owner]

when you asked her that. she may have felt like she started to tell you had feelings for her. not sure if that turned her off or on. again there's not much context.

[Asker]

So she could tell I had feelings for her? Why act this way though and get upset after if she was never interested

[Opinion Owner]

something honestly could of happened to her or she couldn't process anything so the only emotion she had was anger. or did you ever reject her?

[Asker]

What do you mean happened to her? Is she angry with me is that why she’s acting this way? I actually may have said something that she took the wrong way but I didn't reject her

[Opinion Owner]

what i meant was maybe something in her personal life happened to her. but i think what you said to her may have hurt her feelings... what did you say?

[Asker]

Well we were teasing each other and I said she was boring but it was a joke. I was waiting for her to laugh or say something back then she looked shocked and then I said I was joking then she didn’t say anything back and it was awkward I didn’t expect her to take it serious

[Opinion Owner]

Oof... yeah I'd take offense to that aswell... now she's trying to SHOW you how not boring she is.. but with other people. I think you should have apologized

[Asker]

So that’s what the problem is I offended her and she is trying to get back at me. But why get me in trouble and then after try to reach out to me again?

[Opinion Owner]

she feels bad about it. maybe

[Hangry06]

No. Give her the silent treatment.( It's immature tho)

[Asker]

I am giving her the silent treatment so I guess I am being immature then. But I’ve tried to communicate with her and she’s not communicating with me so what am I supposed to do other then ignore her now