I was seeing a man that I work with for 2+ years. He’s the boss and so we kept it a secret. He hired a new girl awhile back and now they’ve formed this strong friendship to which has bothered me for sometime but he always told me that they share the same culture and to not worry. Well it’s hard because in the past I caught him kissing a colleague on the cheek and he said it was just innocent. We fought over that for a long time. This happened 2 years ago when we initially were dating and I worked through the hurt and trusted him. At that time it felt like he was fighting for me. Recently he’s been so cozy with this woman though and even share food and sit with each other. It’s become uncomfortable and I shared my feelings and he fought with me on it and basically doesn’t care about how I feel. Continues to be cozy with her. He won’t sit next to me but he’ll sit with her. And today I had to sit in the other office. She saved a seat for just them two in a room alone. I got upset and he basically broke up with me. Doesn’t care about how I feel and decided to ignore me and have a good time in the office next door. Laughing and all. I have also heard rumors about them at work and he told me they’re not true in the past. I’m just hurting and feel like he choose her over me. I did so much for him and I feel so broken.
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You will probably disagree or have a reason why you can’t, but I think the best step to take is finding a new job so you can create some space between you and him. Either that or find ways to distract yourself in order to move on. This situation was a bad idea from the start because if it has to be secret then he cannot publicly abide by your wishes without messing up relationships with other coworkers or creating suspicions in the workplace. Him and this woman have become close, and he can’t just brush her off on your behalf or distance himself from other female colleagues. You had to consider that when you dove into this and now here you are.
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