Are you still hung up on your ex boyfriend/girlfriend?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am kinda conflicted. I definitely miss the good memories and everything we have been through, but he wasn’t a great person. I still have love for him because he has seen me at my best and my worst. I love that we were once so close and inseparable, but I couldn’t go back to him after all he did. It would be foolish of me. Sometimes I find it hard to delete the pictures of us or the pictures he has taken of me because it feels like I am deleting all those memories.
I do wish that he would change and be better so we could make things work, but I don’t see that happening so I am trying to move on. I wish to date others but I hold back sometimes because it makes me feel like a bad person. So, I don’t know. Kinda need advice lol or people’s opinions on what I should do.

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Accepted Answer

Nah. I've never been hung up on either of them lol. I was friends with one of them for awhile until he confessed that he still had feelings and opened up Pandoras box. He's married now tho and we don't really talk anymore. The other one I haven't spoken to or even seen in years. And I don't want to.

MandyandScott · Accepted Answer

Yes I am, but fortunately it’s just the opposite., we were far too immature and young for marriage , we found each other again 20 years later. Now older and wiser I am taking a one week trip out of Cali to get to her in Oregon. It sounds like we may never leave the room. Shit I look forward to naked S-S days inside but wish to be out in public without a care in the world and just giving everyone a show of what it’s like to be secure in yourself. Naked days at home are great, but outside say camping and feeling the air all over is speechless. Bring back public nudity. It may change someone’s outlook on life

TruthBringer · Accepted Answer

No. It is a while ago since I was. Took me a long time to get over her. Glad to say that is in the past. Although I do think back from time to time to reflect on how far I've come and how much I've changed. There is no pain anymore. I've moved on. And being with someone 100x better as well as staying busy and looking forward to the future, I have no reason to even waste a single feeling on my ex.

I say ex, but I have more than one. I'm talking about my first ex which was the most significant. The other one means nothing to me.

MWM_ManWomanMyth · Answer

here we go strappin', we up Never forget all the memories Sittin', I sip out my cup Thinkin' I should be a better me Truly I'm blessed from the start So much to say in these melodies, oh Stare at the sky, the moon singin' sweet Oh my God, such a sweet moment Angels, they say I'm not ever weak, such a lonely moment Heaven knows I might never sleep, trouble in my soul Hey, I've been prayin', life can be drainin', oh Hey, we were late, tryna keep haulin' on I'm ashamed, hated what I will see And nobody knows, so I go

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Nope. It takes time to finally reach that point where you don't care or wish to put energy into the thoughts of your ex and why things turned out the way they did.

It happened for a reason and the most that can be done from that point is to take what you learned and apply it for down the road.

Anonymous · Answer

dude just stop lol
the words of Christ are true your words are invalid

Ecclesiastes 7:28

while I was still searching
but not finding—
I found one upright man among a thousand,
but not one upright woman among them all.

ain't no point in dating

unusuak · Answer

Absolutely i am. She my boo and i meant every word i said to her. Also there's really nothing else to do in central arkansas. Definetly not another her

stevenaramos · Answer

I was hung up on my ex from the next state over, even though knowing she broke up with me secretly after ghosting me back in 2011, i did try to regain contact with her and then realized she got herself pregnant and had kids , she even sent her friends to me in person to check up on me and that gave me the sign don't attempt to regain contact with her even though mines and hers relationship lasted a half year, it took me 7-10yrs to get over her and i even stopped getting on xboxlive all together via the place where both of us met and would originally form our relationship , all i can say i have learned a lot from that experience

ItsMeElliana · Answer

well, i was, and he was too, and well we communicated and now we're back and this time. ima try my best to make this work and hopefully he puts in the same effort

ArrowheadSW · Answer

No, I've moved on, so not hung up in the sense that I'd want them back. However there are a couple of former girlfriends who I still feel annoyed with when I think of the crap they pulled.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Most of the time not really, but there are a few times I think about it and get a bit sad. I'd say I'm doing pretty good overall and it's only been almost three and a half months.

NathanDavis · Answer

nope, never been... they were all by mutual agreement, and we even gave ourselves the time, a couple of months to sort of... gradually "dephase" the situation... lol

lilyanony1 · Answer

Just lost all my confidence with them. So it's not really about the but more about missing the part of me that died from being with him for too long.

Daniela1982 · Answer

No, they got hung up on my fence post for deserting me, the cads. It also scares the bill collectors away.

exitseven · Answer

No, I still think about her once in a while but /i am glad to be rid of her.

ZaneGoicovich · Answer

A little bit, yes I know I’m young. I wasn’t the best boyfriend 🙁👎

loveslongnails · Answer

Absolutely not! My last ex went over to the "dark side", moved to Texas, married a redneck and put on weight. C ya !!!

Dontaaaa · Answer

Guilt and regret still lingers, but that's about it.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Well I don't want them back but I still have the battle scars and the trauma.

Wiredone · Answer

It's been so long I don't even think about her. I'm happy with my wife

melanieeeB · Answer

Yeah, but to my own defense it is really fresh

beebella · Answer

I don't have an ex boyfriend/girlfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

Affected yes. Hung up no. Live and learn man. Live and learn.

rapfan107 · Answer

Im aware ill never meet someone like her but no but life goes on

Joshua0213 · Answer

Nah she cheated, fuck that bitch😂

lovedejj_xo · Answer

I blocked him I feel better.

questionsasked100 · Answer

Just hurt. He cheated on me. Blocked him and healing now.

clampfan101 · Answer

To a good extent, but I’m still ready to move on.

Still_life · Answer

35 years now and counting…still talking to him 😚

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Not currently

heytherestranger · Answer

Lol no

EaterPeter · Answer

Kind of

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Lol nah

Anonymous · Answer

"Time heals". At the least time softens the pain.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes unfortunately years later

collie22 · Answer

i'm still mad

Slim57 · Answer

Nope

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