Do you think you are/would be a good boyfriend/girlfriend? Why or why not?

Question

Ez-Bri-Z · Accepted Answer

As long as I don't get depressed I'd be a fantastic girlfriend for anyone who likes humor and deep conversations. If that doesn't work, I always have cooking and video games to fall back on.

swettannie · Accepted Answer

i do think yeah

jennifer_bloom · Answer

It depends who I’m with cause I’m nice to people who are nice to me.

ARWINGx1 · Answer

I'd say that I feel like... I don't know. maybe a "strong 50/50"
By which I mean that I'm guessing that I have pretty good qualities that CAN make me attractive.

However, although few, the cons that I do have, may be equally big.
For one, and the biggest, I will not tolerate ANY form of control. Period.
And I might have some trust issues. Typically "suspecting" that the other isn't telling the whole truth, or being confident that there's 0 consequences to IF they'd turn out to be lying, or not holding their promise.

Anonymous · Answer

No, not because I wouldn't be good to another person. I say no because when I'm in a relationship I'm not good to myself. I often put myself, my feelings, life and sometimes interests to the side. I find myself giving all of me to everyone in my life even if that leaves me with nothing. I'm slowly learning boundaries, individualism, and learning to love myself and put my needs before others. Not just in romantic relationships either. I know that relationships haven't been good for me for this reason so I've become very withdrawn and alone. I'm trying to learn healthy balance and I'm trying to attract to people who are willing to go to similar lengths for me. I don't want to lose myself anymore.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I sure do!
Because I treat her with respect and love, I'm honest and very loyal, if I CAN do something to help her with a problem she has, I WILL!! I'm not plastic and am NOT interested in her ONLY because of what she has and how much of it I can get from her!! And, when we fuck, I make SURE she cums, too!!

Anonymous · Answer

I have previous relationships where my boyfriends have been very happy with me. But back in my head, I've always thought I'm not good enough or something like that.
And some of the several reasons I broke it off with a guy was because I felt like I just didn't have any more to give at that point. Like I was completely empty, I was emotionally exhausted etc.

I'm not perfect at all. But I do think for the right person, I'm a pretty decent girlfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly no. I'm a compulsive liar and cheater. It's really hard for me and I've looked for help. But it's just like a mental blockage for me. I've cheated on every boyfriend I've ever had. And I probably will continue into the future. I usually try to then break it off before they find out.

Tinab24 · Answer

Sadly No.
People who are in drelationship /ating someone they tends to adjust things with each other to make each other happy.
I am girl with tremendous anger issues and usually it's hard for me to adjust with new people or in new environment. I like to do things in my way and sometimes people may get hurt because of this. And when it comes to giving opinion I'm straight forward and practical. Non of my previous relationships lasted longer than month or two so I guess I wasn't good girlfriend or never will I. 😀

JBlade · Answer

I don't know, probably not because most women want/require more attention than I'd be willing to give at the moment. They'd want to spend a lot more time together than I'd want to and be emotionally intimate, I can't provide that though.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I have been great in the past, I have also not been so great.

Things change, times change and people change. We learn and grow from our experiences, for better or worse.

I do think though I am really good, the best because I try to learn and grow together. I'm not one of those people that says, here is how things are going to be. I want to learn, adapt and grow together.

Kyle-Jackson78 · Answer

I believe i would, I always spoiled my ex boyfriend and loved cuddling with him, he always took me on dates and took me hunting, He broke up with me because for some reason he drifted away, I made him homemade food and covered him in kisses daily, I dont know what it is but something made him not want to date me so maybe i am a bad boyfriend, I dont really know, I am clingly and i kind of did follow him around like a puppy, Maybe im bad because im too clingly.

Neosporin · Answer

I can be rather judgmental which I don’t think a girlfriend or anyone would like. Disregarding that though I think I’d make a good boyfriend. Good enough for most women.

Anonymous · Answer

I know I am/would be a good girlfriend. I don’t say it to be cocky but it’s true.. My exes know it too but they couldn’t handle commitment 🤷‍♀️

Cubus · Answer

I think I would be a good boyfriend. Some people tell me I'm sympathetic and understanding, I believe it comes in handy.

Somegirl678 · Answer

yeah i do because im very into relationships, i want to fall in love one day and i like to spoil people i care about

Twalli · Answer

I think I am probably the best I could be. My girlfriend says I'm the best she's had. She's both the best and worst I've had, but when she's the only one that happens

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Well I'm open minded guy, caring, kind, don't judge, listener, educated, secret keeper, teaseful etc. But still It would depend on what my would be girlfriend wants /looking for in a guy.

Anonymous · Answer

I think I would have 20 years ago. Now I know to much about women to fully trust them anymore. And I'm not a good liar so I can't pretend otherwise.

emperor90 · Answer

I would be a good boyfriend cause i am kind loyal and funny and respectful

shyguy5781 · Answer

I think we all have opinions that only our partners, past or present can answer. I'd hope yes, but had to learn and make the mistakes I did

Mwmtobfed · Answer

YES! Because I’ll do ALMOST ANYTHING for/to her. To please/amuse her!

Phoenix98 · Answer

I do my best to ensure I am.

scooogy · Answer

I might not be a good girlfriend 👀

TsAubreyKate · Answer

I know I wouldn’t I’m to distant and aloof

jahaims · Answer

Yes because I am

Anonymous · Answer

I’m single for life

Do you think you are/would be a good boyfriend/girlfriend? Why or why not?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Do you think you are/would be a good boyfriend/girlfriend? Why or why not?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.