Can you earn trust back after cheating?

[jentime]

I was caught cheating a few different times. And we are still together trying to work things out but I'm not sure it will ever work. Can you ever truly earn back trust?

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+1 y

I was thinking of doing us both a favor and moving on.

[Anonymous]

No, cheaters are worthless. Cheaters demonstrate by behavior that they are incapable of loving anyone but them selves. That they care more about what's between their legs than being loyal fo the person they love. I've been cheated on twice by two different women, the first one I walked in on, they were escorted out of my home at gun point naked. The second, had a video of it played for all of her friends and family at what was supposed to be our engagement party. Both are now single moms now with children by multiple different dads. They earned their fate. Cheaters are nothing but dirt to me.

[Opinion Owner]

My advice to your significant other, leave. Don't look back, you're better than that.

[Luopio27]

Trust is next to impossible to earn back.
You could give him guilt free days, as many as you cheated on him, to even the odds.


Even with guilt free passed, ots no guarantee he even wants them. The fact that he has not left you, says somethig.


What I can't figure out is why did you cheat in the first place?


I mean it is hard to believe a cheater loves if he/she is willing to shatter their hearts, minds, souls and spirits into bits and peaces beyond repair.

[Alexuselder]

Yes you need to prove that you won’t cheat again but it’s still going to be a really long time before that person that you cheated on trust you like before

[Danielle93]

It'll never be the same so it's very unlikely to earn trust back.

[Danielle93]

After reading your update yes, leave him and move on. He deserves better than you.

[God_of_Thunder]

Wow; I'd dump someone the FIRST time they cheated. Your guy is a fucking idiot for sticking around this long.

[HighValue]

Once trust is broken it can never be regained. No matter what you do he will never feel exactle the same as he did before.

[Jaycee_Genocide]

No I'd you have to cheat move on relationships aren't for you or find someone polyamous

[Hanrej]

Maybe, but not if you promise you'll stay faithful. He needs to understand and accept that you need it. Instead you should base your relationship on whatever the two of you do togeather.

[Wise4myage]

Maybe once, but that's it. He's a fool if he stays.

[Indifferent_Sister]

I don't think it might work not completely ever, since it happened not once but Several times. It's a miracle he's still willing to work it out.

[SnakeBoop]

wow, your partner is an idiot to stay.

[Shamalien]

More than once? Jesus... I think it’s over

[lycanthrope3]

You may need an open relationship

[Kelly6]

yes you can.

[In_Trance]

are you really 41?

[Abdulwahh]

Well it will be hard