True or False: You've had at least one thought of being with someone else while with your current or past partners.

[Still-alive]

I'm not asking if you've ever acted on it or anything just somewhere in your mind while you were with someone you thought of being with someone else even if it might of been a brief thought.

True i have had at least one thought about being with someone else while with a current or past partner

No i honestly have NEVEr had any single thoughts about being with someone else while with a current or past partner

I've never been in a relationship before and want to see results

[Harleigh90]

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[Still-alive]

hehe ;)

[t-8900]

Past partners, yes some. Current? Nope, not at all.

Reason wasn't sexual in nature it was more about compatibility and second guessing the people I was with. Always make sure you are with someone who would never ask you or worse demand you to compromise your beliefs in life.

[Diodoro]

What classifies a thought? Remembering a past relationship?

Having the thought presented to you by somebody else and you automatically imagine it because you can't stop yourself?

Like where is the line?

[Still-alive]

just... you desired them in some way either in a big or small way.

[Diodoro]

Gotcha.

False

[Cherry234]

I've never had a boyfriend so this doesn't apply to me.

[Still-alive]

wow really? figured you would have one at least too

[Cherry234]

Yeah people don’t expect that.

[Still-alive]

Well if you had lived closer to me. just saying ;)

[DonkeyDan]

@Cherry234
No way, how has a beautiful young woman like you never had a boyfriend? You must be beating them off with a stick!

[Cherry234]

@DonkeyDan Lol I just haven't found anyone yet that I like enough and who also feels the same about me.

[DonkeyDan]

Hope you find someone soon.

[Cherry234]

@DonkeyDan I hope so too.

[InventorofWarp]

@cherry234I relate to this.

[Cherry234]

@InventorofWarp I think there are a lot of people in the same boat as us.

[InventorofWarp]

@Cherry234 It never seems like it. And it just makes me feel like so much less and so scared 'cause who will see who I was at 15 or 16 or 21 or 24? Who will look at me and think, "he was probably just as amazing as he is now as when he was a boy and he's still a cute kid"?
Frightening. Just the idea that someone will never really see you.
Almost as terrifying as someone actually seeing you.

[TransAm85]

I made out w/a neighbor like 5 years ago, but that was just out of spite I guess. When I first met my husband, I liked his '01 Yukon Denali and the sex. After 11 years, he's still got the Denali, but bought a new Sierra. The sex is still awesome, just not as much. You'll know when you found the one you're going to be with til the end.

[KarinMcDonald]

I truly believe that attraction is a chemistry that happens between people. You have no control over when it happens. I've been attracted to a few people during my marriage. My husband is secure in our relationship, so it doesn't bother him when this happens.

[Rachelle_256]

Im honestly currently thinking it right now and maybe more now then have before because we fought/ still are last night and he told me to stop acting like I'm in charge of him and think I'm better then him. Also told me that if he wanted my opinion, he would ask for it , he's still so pissed he can't even talk to me and its worse since we are long distance, and he could be playing me and sleeping with someone and i wouldn't even know it

[jshm2]

Of course you will.

If you're driving, cooking, working, eating, out with the lads, at meetings... the list is endless who you would rather be with at that point.

Being with a partner does not mean that partner is the absolute best at everything and anything.

[SinceYouAsked]

Anyone who voted for B is lying. Certainly any guy. Of course we think about it. We just don't act on it.
And some do. Recent statistics show that 22% of men have committed adultery at least once, while the number is 14% for women. Also, 2 to 3% of all children are the result of infidelity and these children are unknowingly raised by men who are not their fathers.

[OnKoing]

Well that pins it! Over 70% and for those not sure, please read the question again: It says "thought" so thinking about someone else counts girls n guys. Be honest with yourself, but this doesn't mean telling your partner her name is Doris, when in fact she's a Karen

[beebella]

I've never been in a relationship before and want to see results

[Still-alive]

really? wow thought you'd been in at least one.

[beebella]

Not a real one. 😂

[DonkeyDan]

@beebella
How have the most attractive women on here never had a relationship? Hope you find your Mr right soon ♥️

[Inthecraphole]

So you never had your first love or a boyfriend before, at all?

[beebella]

@Inthecraphole Nope.

[Inthecraphole]

I am wanting a woman like you so bad, you have no idea. I want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

[Belgie]

I think it's true for everyone. There's nothing wrong with thoughts, but the ones lying about it clearly think there is.

[Still-alive]

Do you think they tend to be the more controlling types in relationships?

[Belgie]

Insecure people can try to be controlling. But the amount of control they have, is entirely up to the partner. Do they accept a controlling partner or not?

[DonkeyDan]

I've honestly never had any thoughts of being with someone else while with someone serious. When I get into a serious relationship I give all of myself romantically to that relationship.

[NathanDavis]

never, no... always been quite selective, and I only need one soul at a time, no more

unless you want to count Katy Perry, then yes... I have

[OnKoing]

Yeah, Katy causes a definitive positive, so you did 😋
(even if the woman rates herself as a 10/10! She either has a good sense of humor , or she's laughable)

[NathanDavis]

@OnKoing she's got humor, she's the giggle at a funeral and knows everybody's disapproval...
I should've worshiped her sooner, if the heavens ever did speak... she's the last true mouthpiece

Every Sunday's getting more bleak, it's a fresh poison each week... "We were born sick", you heard them say it, our church offers no absolutes, She said... "Worship in the bedroom" the only heaven I'll be sent to is when I'm alone with you...

[OnKoing]

👍😋 fair answer. Prefer Pink personally 😉

[NathanDavis]

@OnKoing I like some of her music as well... she does have a great voice

[s10sleeper]

I’ve not had those thoughts, but one thing that has turned me on has been the thought that while I’m with her, there’s all these other guys wishing they were

[Kaneki05]

Of course. It only show commitment if you do because if you don't like any others anyway then you've never actually been tested to see if you would cheat or keep true to them.

[Luopio27]

People do watch porn, even in marriage. Not all but many enough. Doing so, they dream if sex with othet people.

[Still-alive]

Is that wrong in your opinion?

[menina]

I've never be in a relationship so I can't say I have thought about this.

By the way, I love that movie!

[Un-stop-p-able]

I'm sure I have I'm not sure but I'm not perfect nobody is. When people make you upset you wish you were somewhere else it's human nature.

[De_La_BakedBeans]

Past partners, definitely, but not with my current partner...
At least, none that I remember. I've had a pretty wholesome seven years.

[De_La_BakedBeans]

And the years to come are going to just as wholesome, if not, more.

[TacosRAwesome]

With my current I do get the occasional "I wouldn't mind getting a piece of that" but with exes it went a bit deeper than just physical.

[GhostMochi]

When I was with my ex boyfriend, but he was abusive and controlling. Plus I was a high schooler, so..

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No, I honestly have NEVEr had any single thoughts about being with someone else while with a current or past partner

[DaveToo]

I'm just monogamous. I know, it rhymes with monotonous. Oh well. That's how it is with me.

[DaveToo]

I always thought that it would be too damn confusing to have more than one main squeeze.

[purplepoppy]

Anyone who says they haven't is bullshiting

[marish01]

I know many women who find the idea if sex with another man repulsive. Sorry but not all women are sluts.

[marish01]

Of sex*

[Still-alive]

@marish01 just a fleeting thought doesn't make them a slut...

[weysally]

@marish01 and not all women that like sex are sluts, we may have a much higher sex drive than others, or like me, not so much as to please my husband but to go along with his sexual thing, he is a voyeur, so with how he is and how I am makes our life style good for us

[jamesgoldman]

No when I was with them in person but at other times sure

[Unicorn_lover_2002]

Yes a few times it came to my head but I wouldn't act on it

[CuriousMufuxka]

A. More than one in fact. I'm sure all of my ex's did as well.

[Joshua0213]

My past partner yeah cause she wasn't that attractive tbh. But not my current partner

[Ez-Bri-Z]

I mean... I'm poly so yeah?

[Koneko911]

Yes... which is why I stopped dating my ex

[Gwenhwyfar]

Probably

[Wiredone]

I've thought about it but that's as far as it went

[Msputiton]

🥴🥴🥴

[PeterSmith1983]

Ofcourse everybody has

[Guardian45]

As a human being with frailties, yup.

[emperor90]

Never been in a relationship

[valentina4eva]

true

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah I have.

[snackthatsmilesback]

Well yeah, briefly.

[Slim57]

False

[Still-alive]

Hmmm if you say so

[Slim57]

I do just as @DonkeyDan says

[ChiTown33]

Not applicable.

[Tstrbrainer]

Your last option was very considerate

[jahaims]

False

[rowso]

Yes, duh

[whosnumber1]

yup.