did you contribute any money to help purchase any of the losing tickets? If not why would you think that you are entitled to any of the money that he won? If you each put in money every time you/he bought tickets, then by all means he should share, but to constantly ridicule someone when they aren't winning only to now expect a share of the winnings, sorry you are out of luck. You can't have it both ways.
He's being a dick, no doubt. I think you should take it as a sign. The money was more important to him than you and your debt, and he seems to be telling you that he's already going his own way and taking his money with him. Sorry. I think this is doomed.
Honestly it kind of sounds like you are a tad bit money hungry... you guys are dating not married so unless it is coming out of joint money then it is his to do what he wants... so yeah I see why he was mad you just assumed you were gunna get some of the winnings... you should probably just be thankful he still ended up giving you some to be real honest
Why is he not being fair? You have thousands of dollars in debt if you're so good at handling money that you give out advice that he didn't ask for then find a way to settle it. Why do you feel entitled to his money? Is it your birthday? Christmas is over.
You're totally unreasonable. Dude never stopped trying until he became successful, and then like a vulture you jump in at the finish line talking about "what are WE going to do with this money?". Please, cut it off. Your debt is your responsibility, so handle it. Have you actually been more patient and helped him out, maybe you would've received a cut, but you weren't and that's how it's going to be.
Lmao thats funny as shit. I mean he couldve at least given you $1k-5k but you’re not married so i can't even be surprised by his marriage. Do you still really want to be with someone who pushes you aside in general? This isn't even about the money but something greater like priorities. Im shocked you haven't broken up and moved out
@cookiecrusher i didn't say she was entitled. Im just saying that although she didn't deserve part of it, he also seems petty and his priorities dont seem straight. I wouldn't stay with him
Maybe it's because they've only been dating for 3 years and not even married. Or because she was unsupportive and now treats him as a walking wallet for her own issues.
@cookiecrusher i am a woman and still do not feel that she as a woman deserved any of it. But its still the way theyre both going about being petty. Her from the get go and him in return. They are putting money above love and that is toxic. So yes, we dont understand why you’re being defensive. Like Tia said, they have been dating 3 years and are living together and still not even engaged. The relationship is likely doomed regardless so im not worried about it. Just chill
@cookiecrusher i think 9 years is fine if we have been dating since HS. But in college, plus? I wouldn't dare. Like someone said, if you love someone, you know by year two or three if you want to marry them or not. So glad it worked for you and the wifey but nit everyone wants to wait around that long. The asker may not ever want to marry and thats fine. But if you're not my spouse, dont expect any of my lotto money
I would tell you, "hey honey, what do you plan to do with your money and don't even think about having to spend it on me, it's yours 100%."
I understand the guy too, it's stressful to be the one with the money, people come out of the woodworks as your best pals, all your relatives you never knew etc etc, or just the constant stress of it happening.
Most women like a guy who makes more money and guys know that, and always try to find one (the keeper) who really doesn't, so asking that in this moment, not a very good idea😅
How hard is just to say, "what, you won? How much again? That's fucking awesome, i'm happy for you."
@cookiecrusher yes she shouldve congratulated him and not asked him for any, and im sure he wouldve offered her something anyways and he still may. Thats why i said im not digging too deep into this. So no need to get defensive. Bur i just feel that he's not obligated to give her anything since theyre not married but i also feel he should want to give her something since they are 3 years in. They just both need to apologize to eachother first for being petty
She didn't even give him 5 minutes to see what he wants to buy her so we will never know🤣
It's the cuttroat approach attitude of most women here that is the dissapointing part. Like we were talking about some random scum not the love of their life.
But anyway yeah, i think i covered all i wanted to say in this matter😗
He is completely fair. It's his money he decides where all of it goes. You have no claim on anything of it. If you are a good girlfriend you would benefit from it. Because I doubt he manage to spend it all without involving you or buying something you can use at his place. But forget that it will cover any of your debts. You need to pay them off on your own.
It is his money and he is free to do with it what he wants. If he does not want to give you any, he is free to do so. The same would very much apply to any money you won. You would be under no obligation to give him any. That is where the entire issue starts and stops.
I agree that it's a major waste of money and he totally got lucky. The odds are horrible with the lottery. The odds are way better at a casino, but the odds there are still against you.
However it's his money. He owes you absolutely nothing. You are the one being unfair, not him. To be honest, even the fact that you even think you are owed something looks pretty bad. Any girl I've been with would never even consider such a thing.
Three years? Where is this relationship going? It doesn't sound like you ever agreed to combine your incomes, so it's not your money. You aren't married, so it's not half yours either.
From his reaction it doesn't sound like he thinks of it as a partnership. You might want to reconsider your future with him.
It’s his money. Even if you marry him in a community property state, as long as he keeps that money in a separate account from ones with income made during the marriage, it can still be his even if you divorce him. Guess you shouldn’t have given him grief over playing the lottery.
About him wanting to give you another chance, you need to ask yourself if you want to be with him. If so, you need to decide whether you were right or wrong about how you handled the money issue. If you were wrong, you should apologize. If you think you were right be honest and say you expect a cut of his earnings from now on. He needs to know how you think about money he makes either way.
I think he's right. You always told him its a waste of time and you kept being unsupportive. But when he wins something you run to him to get the money like some ant comes for sugar. Do you really think he would give it to you? You don't deserve it. You are the one being really unfair and being selfish by claiming his money. Huge red flag to be honest.
Update: Do you really just ask in order to only listen to the reactions you like? I see ZERO comments about you being right. Please grow up, you don't deserve that money... You are being selfish and completely out of your mind.
Well you're only his girlfriend you're not married to him or engaged and if you dog them and weren't supportive of him playing the lotto he really doesn't owe you anything I mean if I was in a relationship and I won and she was all about trying to get money or asking me to buy this or buy that I would probably dump her anyway because all she's after is the fucking money anyway
JOE AND JESS THWAITE WON OVER £184 MILLION IN MAY 10TH 2022. My name is Jess Thwaite, my husband Joe is a communications sales engineer and i run the business side of a hairdressing salon along with her sister, My late Dad played the lottery and always dreamt of winning but failed. Today the story is different because We won £184 million with the help of a spell caster called Lord Bubuza. I contacted Lord Bubuza after reading numerous comments about his lottery spell. He said a spell will be cast for me and his gods Will reveal the lottery winning number to him. I doubted him but NO PROTECTION IS RISKY TO WIN THE LOTTERY so I gave it a try. I provided his requirement to cast the spell and after casting, he gave me some Digit numbers and said play without fear. Behold the Numbers were among the lucky winners numbers on May 10th 2022. Join me and appreciate him email: Lordbubuzamiraclework @ hotmail. com OR text: +1 505 569 0396
You're still right about the lottery being a sham on average.
As for whether you're entitled to his winnings, how much money did you risk on the tickets? Do you have an arrangement in the relationship where he is "the breadwinner"?, or that you cover each others costs?
Well, it totally is HIS money and he doesn't have to share it with you...
But to be honest, if you're together for 3 years and living together and he knows you have debts and yet he's not willing to help you out then in my opinion you'd do better looking for a new boyfriend. That's just not how a partner acts, let alone a man.
(but wait a couple of days before you make any rash decisions, he might be joking)
because fact of the matter is, men like to date poor women with financial problems. Financially stable women scare men off. So thats why you always see guys dating girls with money problems. then guys complain about why women only like rich men or why women always want money so badly?
because you like to surround yourself around BROKE women.
Actually wealthy men tend to date wealthy women. Poor men tend to date poor women. Or men who earn medicine salaries dating women who make less than them
But regardless , people still tend to marry someone close to their own social class.
If you’re rich , there is a good chance all your friends are rich. Typically your girlfriend or wife will also be rich
Nope, wealthy men date the most beautiful women. Who are often young and trophy wives, stay at home moms etc.
Men don't care about womens money. Only looks, femininity, sex, her purity, submissiveness, someone they can trust, and someone who they can chill with.
Most guys don't care about your education, income or income or income potential, or that women typically don't have a car etc.
@cookiecrusher well, when you are planning a future together then their problems are also your problems. If you don't like that then don't date a woman who has debts. Nowhere does it say she's not trying to pay them off, but he has this extra cash and after 3 years together I think it should be safe to assume they're planning to stay together, have a family etc... it actually goes both ways, both men and women should support their partner in that situation if they can. Like if they suddenly get so much extra money. If a man is not willing then in my opinion what's an indication he's not seriously thinking about us together so I'm just wasting my time.
Sienna. First off, why to feel it's okay for you to spend and make poor financial decisions, and then throw it on your partner?
You, as a loving partner should try to better your spouses life, trying to make them happy, not drown them with your own issues.
Secondly. He should invest that money. Paying off some low monthly pay loan with a huge part of your investing portfolio is just retarded, and will result in loss over a million in 20-30 years.
Allowing the two of you to retire earlier and leaving your kids set.
He should teach you how to make better decisions and how to make your own money. So when he dies, get sick or loses his money, you and the kids would be fine and not on the streets like would right now.
And he is also free to waste it if he so pleases. He made it he spends it.
Be happy for your partner enjoying his life for a moment instead of feeling butt hurt and entitled, especially after nagging him for years😗
That’s only what you see in Hollywood Ans movies. But that’s not true. I come from New York City , this city is filled with rich people. I can tell you that rich folks tend to marry other rich folks. Rich guys have hookups and flings with models at bars but it rarely ever end up in marriage.
Rich marry the rich. Poor marry the poor. The bullshit you see in movies is not real.
I'm from Europe by the way. What you described is a corporate wife.
A good decent respectable wife you show and take in to your work related events.
At some level they expect you to be married and not walk in there with a young model plaything. At some level of income, depending on the location. But that's only in the corporate world, just rich guys marry who the hell they want.
Also, do the math, there aren't even close to the amount of rich women to rich men.
And most men don't care for that, not all want models (too much ego to deal with) but will date and marry down all the time.
@cookiecrusher so men demanding young and submissive women who wants kids and to takes care of the house is perfectly fine but women demanding a partner with financial stability is golddigging? lol ok..
The ones that you are describing are trophy wives where old guys who are still single in their 40s try to use their “money” to look for a wife. He needs her to look hot so he can parade her around to boost his image. Often times many of these aren’t even wives but are just girlfriends. Most of them don’t even ever marry
The reality is most rich corporate guys are typically Married with kids by the time they hit 40 to the woman they have dated since they were 30. Most of these wives aren’t housewives but are educated career women themselves. None of these women are bimbos without an education.
Don’t listen to this guy. He doesn’t have any real exposure to any rich people. The only rich people he’s exposed to is the ones he sees on tv. I live in a city filled with high achieving corporate folks And a city filled with millionaires.
I can assure you that most of these men aren't married to models but are married to very intelligent, college educated women.
You are the one talking about bimbos and throphy wives.
I did say they marry good decent presentable women. Does that mean throphy wives?
Men in general don't care if women have money, nothing changes about then with when men get richer.
Keep dreaming. Some like to pick women who have their money because it is less likely that she will be a gold digger or a social climber.
Most of these guys still sleep around on the side, with young women.
Nice statistic, have any more of those stored in your butt.
Every major city in the world is a filled with millionaires. Even my parents live in a tiny town, has about 17 millionaires that i know of. Town population about 10k people.
And on paper i'm a multi millionaire too, though, not going to cash that out yet too.
Might be your states thing but here in Europe we see a lot more younger women married to rich dudes, riding around in fancy cars and etc.
As a side note new york is an overpriced shit show, what keeps you there?
If you really take a close look at most wives of these rich men, they aren’t models or super gorgeous women but very educated intelligent and often successful women
This is not what it’s like in most of the world. Just take a look at the wives of most presidents and politicians around the world , are they models or gorgeous? They aren’t!!
Frequently many poor people never met any rich people other than the celebrities they see on tv.
@shaysh87 Rich people marry within their circle, doubt an average dude who doesn't have much going on with his life and spams a whole thread would know about such things.
If he were going out and wasting it all on himself then maybe I'd have some sympathy, but he's being sensible and investing it for the long term, only spending a small amount. So out of the £5k he's spending, he's given you almost half seems pretty generous, and you don't seem very grateful
He's holding you accountable for mocking him. You're acting like an entitled brat. Nothing is "ours" unless we're married. The fact that he ended up giving you what he did and you're still not appreciative is very telling on what type of woman you are. You're not entitled to your bfs money. Wake up lol
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did you contribute any money to help purchase any of the losing tickets?
If not why would you think that you are entitled to any of the money that he won?
If you each put in money every time you/he bought tickets, then by all means he should share, but to constantly ridicule someone when they aren't winning only to now expect a share of the winnings, sorry you are out of luck.
You can't have it both ways.
He's being a dick, no doubt. I think you should take it as a sign. The money was more important to him than you and your debt, and he seems to be telling you that he's already going his own way and taking his money with him. Sorry. I think this is doomed.
Honestly it kind of sounds like you are a tad bit money hungry... you guys are dating not married so unless it is coming out of joint money then it is his to do what he wants... so yeah I see why he was mad you just assumed you were gunna get some of the winnings... you should probably just be thankful he still ended up giving you some to be real honest
Why is he not being fair? You have thousands of dollars in debt if you're so good at handling money that you give out advice that he didn't ask for then find a way to settle it. Why do you feel entitled to his money? Is it your birthday? Christmas is over.
I'm sorry, but he's right.
I don't believe in playing the lottery either. So I agree with you. He got lucky. He should call it quits while he's ahead.
However, his stance on the issue of sharing with you is 100% philosophically and morally sound.
You're totally unreasonable. Dude never stopped trying until he became successful, and then like a vulture you jump in at the finish line talking about "what are WE going to do with this money?". Please, cut it off. Your debt is your responsibility, so handle it. Have you actually been more patient and helped him out, maybe you would've received a cut, but you weren't and that's how it's going to be.
UPDATE: You totally got what you deserved at the end. I'm happy that he broke up with you, good for him. Should've listened when you had the chance.
Lmao thats funny as shit. I mean he couldve at least given you $1k-5k but you’re not married so i can't even be surprised by his marriage. Do you still really want to be with someone who pushes you aside in general? This isn't even about the money but something greater like priorities. Im shocked you haven't broken up and moved out
Come on. She nagged her for years. And then some, after he won.
Why can't you be happy thag the person you love gets to buy whatever they dreamed of for so long?
This money has nothing to do with her, she and as it seems most women her feel entitled as heck.
@cookiecrusher i didn't say she was entitled. Im just saying that although she didn't deserve part of it, he also seems petty and his priorities dont seem straight. I wouldn't stay with him
So quiting is the answer, instead of first working on the relationship?
Breaking up, has been a pretty popular answer. Then people think why relationships don't last
@cookiecrusher maybe it’s because they’ve been together three years and he’s treating her like he’s known her for five minutes
Maybe it's because they've only been dating for 3 years and not even married.
Or because she was unsupportive and now treats him as a walking wallet for her own issues.
@cookiecrusher the point is, theyre both toxic for eachother and need to dead that shit. Why are you so damn defensive… we can all have a stance
Why am i defensive? Because as a guy who has money, i get that i have to hide my wealth from women i deal with, in order to see the real them.
Nothing toxic about his behaviour. And we have to take into account not hearing his side of the story.
All from her side, knowing full well that some things were sugarcoated and others enhanced.
@cookiecrusher i am a woman and still do not feel that she as a woman deserved any of it. But its still the way theyre both going about being petty. Her from the get go and him in return. They are putting money above love and that is toxic. So yes, we dont understand why you’re being defensive. Like Tia said, they have been dating 3 years and are living together and still not even engaged. The relationship is likely doomed regardless so im not worried about it. Just chill
It's only doomed if they want it doomed.
"Still not even engaded" my and his wife dated 9 years before marriage, and i know many other who went past the 5 year mark with no issue.
So you know why throw everything under the bus with a very little info to go on?
I am chill, i just won't accept platant "dump this guy" for bad/no reason ideas.😗
@cookiecrusher i think 9 years is fine if we have been dating since HS. But in college, plus? I wouldn't dare. Like someone said, if you love someone, you know by year two or three if you want to marry them or not. So glad it worked for you and the wifey but nit everyone wants to wait around that long. The asker may not ever want to marry and thats fine. But if you're not my spouse, dont expect any of my lotto money
Even we would be married and you win.
I would tell you, "hey honey, what do you plan to do with your money and don't even think about having to spend it on me, it's yours 100%."
I understand the guy too, it's stressful to be the one with the money, people come out of the woodworks as your best pals, all your relatives you never knew etc etc, or just the constant stress of it happening.
Most women like a guy who makes more money and guys know that, and always try to find one (the keeper) who really doesn't, so asking that in this moment, not a very good idea😅
How hard is just to say, "what, you won? How much again? That's fucking awesome, i'm happy for you."
@cookiecrusher yes she shouldve congratulated him and not asked him for any, and im sure he wouldve offered her something anyways and he still may. Thats why i said im not digging too deep into this. So no need to get defensive. Bur i just feel that he's not obligated to give her anything since theyre not married but i also feel he should want to give her something since they are 3 years in. They just both need to apologize to eachother first for being petty
She didn't even give him 5 minutes to see what he wants to buy her so we will never know🤣
It's the cuttroat approach attitude of most women here that is the dissapointing part.
Like we were talking about some random scum not the love of their life.
But anyway yeah, i think i covered all i wanted to say in this matter😗
He is completely fair. It's his money he decides where all of it goes. You have no claim on anything of it. If you are a good girlfriend you would benefit from it. Because I doubt he manage to spend it all without involving you or buying something you can use at his place. But forget that it will cover any of your debts. You need to pay them off on your own.
It is his money and he is free to do with it what he wants. If he does not want to give you any, he is free to do so. The same would very much apply to any money you won. You would be under no obligation to give him any. That is where the entire issue starts and stops.
I agree that it's a major waste of money and he totally got lucky. The odds are horrible with the lottery. The odds are way better at a casino, but the odds there are still against you.
However it's his money. He owes you absolutely nothing. You are the one being unfair, not him. To be honest, even the fact that you even think you are owed something looks pretty bad. Any girl I've been with would never even consider such a thing.
Three years? Where is this relationship going? It doesn't sound like you ever agreed to combine your incomes, so it's not your money. You aren't married, so it's not half yours either.
From his reaction it doesn't sound like he thinks of it as a partnership. You might want to reconsider your future with him.
It’s his money. Even if you marry him in a community property state, as long as he keeps that money in a separate account from ones with income made during the marriage, it can still be his even if you divorce him. Guess you shouldn’t have given him grief over playing the lottery.
About him wanting to give you another chance, you need to ask yourself if you want to be with him. If so, you need to decide whether you were right or wrong about how you handled the money issue. If you were wrong, you should apologize. If you think you were right be honest and say you expect a cut of his earnings from now on. He needs to know how you think about money he makes either way.
I think he's right. You always told him its a waste of time and you kept being unsupportive. But when he wins something you run to him to get the money like some ant comes for sugar. Do you really think he would give it to you? You don't deserve it.
You are the one being really unfair and being selfish by claiming his money. Huge red flag to be honest.
Update: Do you really just ask in order to only listen to the reactions you like? I see ZERO comments about you being right. Please grow up, you don't deserve that money... You are being selfish and completely out of your mind.
Well you're only his girlfriend you're not married to him or engaged and if you dog them and weren't supportive of him playing the lotto he really doesn't owe you anything I mean if I was in a relationship and I won and she was all about trying to get money or asking me to buy this or buy that I would probably dump her anyway because all she's after is the fucking money anyway
JOE AND JESS THWAITE WON OVER £184 MILLION IN MAY 10TH 2022. My name is Jess Thwaite, my husband Joe is a communications sales engineer and i run the business side of a hairdressing salon along with her sister, My late Dad played the lottery and always dreamt of winning but failed. Today the story is different because We won £184 million with the help of a spell caster called Lord Bubuza. I contacted Lord Bubuza after reading numerous comments about his lottery spell. He said a spell will be cast for me and his gods Will reveal the lottery winning number to him. I doubted him but NO PROTECTION IS RISKY TO WIN THE LOTTERY so I gave it a try. I provided his requirement to cast the spell and after casting, he gave me some Digit numbers and said play without fear. Behold the Numbers were among the lucky winners numbers on May 10th 2022. Join me and appreciate him email: Lordbubuzamiraclework @ hotmail. com OR text: +1 505 569 0396
You're still right about the lottery being a sham on average.
As for whether you're entitled to his winnings, how much money did you risk on the tickets? Do you have an arrangement in the relationship where he is "the breadwinner"?, or that you cover each others costs?
Welp, you took the advice you wanted to hear. Good for him, hope he's happy, and hope you're proud of yourself..
Well, it totally is HIS money and he doesn't have to share it with you...
But to be honest, if you're together for 3 years and living together and he knows you have debts and yet he's not willing to help you out then in my opinion you'd do better looking for a new boyfriend. That's just not how a partner acts, let alone a man.
(but wait a couple of days before you make any rash decisions, he might be joking)
What the hell?😅
Why do women always want money so badly?
Fix your own damn problems, why bring it on your spouse? You took the loan, you aren't starving and need a handout to survive.
What about his plans, maybe has dreamed of nice car or maybe he used his brains and wants to invest, which is way better than paying of loans.
I swear women with these types of mentalities are the worse.
Men are nothing but walking wallets to you
@cookiecrusher
because fact of the matter is, men like to date poor women with financial problems. Financially stable women scare men off. So thats why you always see guys dating girls with money problems. then guys complain about why women only like rich men or why women always want money so badly?
because you like to surround yourself around BROKE women.
No, because men have always dated down, across, up and women only date up.
Aside the ones selling their ass, how many rich women are there? Not enaugh to go around.
That's why you mostly see poor women with more wealthy men.
@cookiecrusher
Actually wealthy men tend to date wealthy women. Poor men tend to date poor women. Or men who earn medicine salaries dating women who make less than them
But regardless , people still tend to marry someone close to their own social class.
If you’re rich , there is a good chance all your friends are rich. Typically your girlfriend or wife will also be rich
“ Or men who earn mediocre*** salaries dating women who make less than them “
Nope, wealthy men date the most beautiful women. Who are often young and trophy wives, stay at home moms etc.
Men don't care about womens money. Only looks, femininity, sex, her purity, submissiveness, someone they can trust, and someone who they can chill with.
Most guys don't care about your education, income or income or income potential, or that women typically don't have a car etc.
@cookiecrusher well, when you are planning a future together then their problems are also your problems. If you don't like that then don't date a woman who has debts. Nowhere does it say she's not trying to pay them off, but he has this extra cash and after 3 years together I think it should be safe to assume they're planning to stay together, have a family etc... it actually goes both ways, both men and women should support their partner in that situation if they can. Like if they suddenly get so much extra money. If a man is not willing then in my opinion what's an indication he's not seriously thinking about us together so I'm just wasting my time.
Sienna.
First off, why to feel it's okay for you to spend and make poor financial decisions, and then throw it on your partner?
You, as a loving partner should try to better your spouses life, trying to make them happy, not drown them with your own issues.
Secondly. He should invest that money. Paying off some low monthly pay loan with a huge part of your investing portfolio is just retarded, and will result in loss over a million in 20-30 years.
Allowing the two of you to retire earlier and leaving your kids set.
He should teach you how to make better decisions and how to make your own money. So when he dies, get sick or loses his money, you and the kids would be fine and not on the streets like would right now.
And he is also free to waste it if he so pleases. He made it he spends it.
Be happy for your partner enjoying his life for a moment instead of feeling butt hurt and entitled, especially after nagging him for years😗
@cookiecrusher
That’s only what you see in Hollywood Ans movies. But that’s not true. I come from New York City , this city is filled with rich people. I can tell you that rich folks tend to marry other rich folks. Rich guys have hookups and flings with models at bars but it rarely ever end up in marriage.
Rich marry the rich. Poor marry the poor. The bullshit you see in movies is not real.
I live near Wall Street. I would know
@cookiecrusher
By the way, most rich guys don’t have trophy wives. It sounds like the only exposure you have to rich people is the tv
I don't know mam, i'm rich and don't have a tv😅
I'm from Europe by the way. What you described is a corporate wife.
A good decent respectable wife you show and take in to your work related events.
At some level they expect you to be married and not walk in there with a young model plaything. At some level of income, depending on the location. But that's only in the corporate world, just rich guys marry who the hell they want.
Also, do the math, there aren't even close to the amount of rich women to rich men.
And most men don't care for that, not all want models (too much ego to deal with) but will date and marry down all the time.
@cookiecrusher so men demanding young and submissive women who wants kids and to takes care of the house is perfectly fine but women demanding a partner with financial stability is golddigging? lol ok..
Are we talking about wanting a financial stability from a partner here or being entitled to his money?
I don't know if you learned that yet, but there is a difference.
@cookiecrusher
The ones that you are describing are trophy wives where old guys who are still single in their 40s try to use their “money” to look for a wife. He needs her to look hot so he can parade her around to boost his image. Often times many of these aren’t even wives but are just girlfriends. Most of them don’t even ever marry
The reality is most rich corporate guys are typically Married with kids by the time they hit 40 to the woman they have dated since they were 30. Most of these wives aren’t housewives but are educated career women themselves. None of these women are bimbos without an education.
@poof_22
Don’t listen to this guy. He doesn’t have any real exposure to any rich people. The only rich people he’s exposed to is the ones he sees on tv. I live in a city filled with high achieving corporate folks And a city filled with millionaires.
I can assure you that most of these men aren't married to models but are married to very intelligent, college educated women.
Take a look at the most famous millionaires in the US: warren buffet , mark cuban, Robert herjavec , Elon musk.
Look at All the wives of high power politicians.
98% of them do not have a trophy wife.
Yes as college degree counts as highly educated😅
You are the one talking about bimbos and throphy wives.
I did say they marry good decent presentable women. Does that mean throphy wives?
Men in general don't care if women have money, nothing changes about then with when men get richer.
Keep dreaming.
Some like to pick women who have their money because it is less likely that she will be a gold digger or a social climber.
Most of these guys still sleep around on the side, with young women.
Nice statistic, have any more of those stored in your butt.
Every major city in the world is a filled with millionaires. Even my parents live in a tiny town, has about 17 millionaires that i know of. Town population about 10k people.
And on paper i'm a multi millionaire too, though, not going to cash that out yet too.
Might be your states thing but here in Europe we see a lot more younger women married to rich dudes, riding around in fancy cars and etc.
As a side note new york is an overpriced shit show, what keeps you there?
@cookiecrusher
If you really take a close look at most wives of these rich men, they aren’t models or super gorgeous women but very educated intelligent and often successful women
Most don't work as model sure, but they are great looking.
Often get successful after meeting their man and going to business schools. Parking expensive cars in handycap places etc
That is what is popular in most of Europe.
@cookiecrusher
This is not what it’s like in most of the world. Just take a look at the wives of most presidents and politicians around the world , are they models or gorgeous? They aren’t!!
Frequently many poor people never met any rich people other than the celebrities they see on tv.
"Take a look at the wives of most presidents and politicians"
"Other than celebrities they see on tv"
"Can't, make this shit up" KS 😗
These guys are old 50-80 while most of their wives are 30-60.
Most of it is just for public image. And they were obviously nicer when younger
Most have young side pieces, the politicians. You hear it in the news every month.
Anyway you are free to believe what you want
@cookiecrusher
Continue watching keeping up with the kardashians. Because Hollywood is the only exposure you get
@cookiecrusher
plus if a man is looking for a trophy wife , he would go for a girl 18-30 , not 30-60.
@shaysh87 Rich people marry within their circle, doubt an average dude who doesn't have much going on with his life and spams a whole thread would know about such things.
Oh i dunno, i do have some free time, don't have to go to work on Monday, unlike you, tick tock mf🤣
Plus entitled women like you really gets our blood boiling. It's actually a bit fun to call you out on your BS
If he were going out and wasting it all on himself then maybe I'd have some sympathy, but he's being sensible and investing it for the long term, only spending a small amount. So out of the £5k he's spending, he's given you almost half seems pretty generous, and you don't seem very grateful
He's holding you accountable for mocking him. You're acting like an entitled brat. Nothing is "ours" unless we're married. The fact that he ended up giving you what he did and you're still not appreciative is very telling on what type of woman you are. You're not entitled to your bfs money. Wake up lol
He’s not obligated or required to share the money with you.
But you both have a valid point. But you also both made mistakes.
Im of the opinion that what you earn and make is yours to keep.
I wouldn’t expect my partner to give me money they won from gambling that’s theirs to keep. They made it and earned it.