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When is it okay give your girlfriend/boyfriend and ultimatum? (Page 2)
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Hopefully it never comes to that but if it is making you unhappy because of their actions and there is no recourse, that is the right time.
Never. Only the extremely insecure do this.
So telling telling your boyfriend if he doesn’t go to rehab and get clean you are leaving is insecure?
in my opinion yes. If you would like me to elaborate just respond elaborate please.
yeah. get a boob job or im leaving u. is what i'd say if my girlfriend had small boobs.
You should just break up and say nothing.
@annabananna true
whenever you are willing to end the relationship over an Issue...
Once you get to that point the relationship is already strained and going downwards, it's almost over.
When dude keeps leaving me alone with baby at home, so he can go party do coke and comes home yelling at me and baby.
I tell him I’m leaving
If the reoccurring of what causes arguments isn't solved
When you are dating a hostage negotiator in a Die Hard film?
If they've got a bad addiction to something negative
Never. That’s a quick path down breaking up
Never. Ultimatums are a form of manipulation
Really? so for example if your significant was addicted, telling them that if the don't get help and seek treatment for their addiction, you will no longer be a part of their life is manipulative?
yes. If you can’t live with an addict, don’t stay in the relationship to start. Explain to them your reasons and give them the opportunity to find you after they change.
we won't be together unless you change... isn't that an ultimatum though?
That is an ultimatum. that's not what I said. What I said was "I am not going to be in a relationship with an addict. The relationship is currently 'over'. Should you decide to change your life, you're welcome to reach back out to me when you're clean. I may be single, i may not be."
That's still an ultimatum though , don't do A unless you do B.
No, it isn't. It's saying "I'm doing A.".
and you can't join me unless you do B...
No, there's no expectation you can join me if you do B. I may have moved on.
When it actually is true.. maybe
İf he talks with girls
When it affects you, duh.
When all other options have been exuausted.
When you want to break up.
When you're ready to handle the response.
I think I rather just leave
While you're still dating.
It just depends on the situation
When you're ready to lose them
Thanks for like!
Only when you mean it.
When you plan to end the relationship anyway.
when they cheat on you of course.
When you literally have to.
When you're at the end of your tether
When she does something wrong.
Never
So if your partner keeps cheating, or is drinking too much or on drugs you wouldn't give them an ultimatum?
They already chose
So you still think it wouldn’t be okay?
If i am given an ultimatum, i leave, so i would never give one, i would give my disapointment
Way to avoid the question.
I gave my answer, it may not be the one you wanted, i said never
Lol 😂 that wasn’t an answer, you just said what you wanted to. If you didn’t want to answer the question you could have just said so
Never