Do you think the father should have a say in a situation where the mother wants to abort but he wants to keep the baby? (Page 2)

Question

This is one specific scenario out of an infinite amount of ways this can go down. What I am asking is if a mother wants to abort after making plans with the father to have his child then the mother cancels and wants an abortion for whatever reason but the father is still committed and wants to keep the baby. What happens then?

BaldAvenger · Answer

He should have the right to be heard if anything. I mean yeah, your body, your decision and should you choose NOT to have the kid or TO have the kid, at least pretend as if his vote counts. Don't just coldly tell he's assed out.

mostlyitalian · Answer

its more complicated than that. there should be steps taken to where the decision isn't left up to either of them maybe, chances are if theyre aborting a fetus theyre garbage tier humans and breeding more of them isn't great for society.

katiesmuff · Answer

I will stick with woman's choice in every scenario.

Sincerly_KittyCat · Answer

Yes if he is also willing to take care of the child.

Carlit0 · Answer

Sex is to create life, if you don't want a child. wrap it up or go masterbate. Abortion frees the pig men. Dont be a pig man No glove no love discussing can be made while ya bumping and grinding. Respect the woman man

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Use a condom so it does t happen in the first place. No one should have a day in it if it were up to me.

John_Doesnt · Answer

No, because a lot of rapists and abusive men don't deserve a say.

AviatorTom · Answer

He should have a say but ultimately it's her body, her choice.

JVM1939 · Answer

Did she conceive the baby alone? NO! If she needed help to conceive the baby (which she obviously did), then the father should have a say in it.

Anonymous · Answer

only if she wants to find herself at the bottom of a lake wearing a pair of cement shoes. and if he has no say then he shouldn't pay child support for 18 years HIS MONEY HIS CHOICE. and what your puny simple mind is failing to comprehend is it takes 2 yes TWO to make a baby so it's not only her choice it's HIS choice as well

bucketofsmile · Answer

Yes because deciding to have a child should be a husband and wife question. This is true for having sex as well (and potentially start a conception that is both husband's and wife's responsibility).

genericname85 · Answer

Yeah. Either that, or don't have compulsory child support. Cause if it's only get decision, he shouldn't have to pay. But if it's his decision too, then he should get a choice.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

If I were with a woman and got her pregnant and she would abort the baby, I'd dump her immediately. Abortion is murder. I could not be with a murderer.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

This is exactly why there is a commitment at first. I'm starting to think there should be a contract whenever they plan on making one. If the baby is an accident then there is no commitment so therefore the father cannot have a say.

XXblack88 · Answer

I think the father should have more of a say in this situation

crmoore · Answer

It's his offspring, too. If a woman doesn't want to deal with a man having a say in what happens with his child, she shouldn't have had sex with him/risked getting pregnant.

Anonymous · Answer

I think this is the one topic I like to say completely away from...

jasco · Answer

I personally think if the woman want's and the dad doesn't than he shouldn't have to pay for it. Honestly their both at fault

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

If it's "her body, her choice" than why are you destroying the body and taking away every opportunity for a choice that baby girl has?

OddBeMe · Answer

Her body. Just know that 99% of abortions are a pea sized zygote with no brain activity.

Morning_Cereal · Answer

I don't think the father should have more say than the mother but whether or not the fetus has a right or not I'll leave to other people to decide.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

He should have an opinion most definitely but he’s not the one getting pregnant for 9 months and you can’t give people rights to other peoples bodies

nawtee_me · Answer

As a single father that raised two sons yes I think he should. It is not her body her choice when she gave her body away to him having sex.

pixie215 · Answer

its part of him to of course he should have a say

anton_dee · Answer

If tomorrow the lady divorces, he has to pay child support, right? Why not have a say in this then eh?

msc545 · Answer

He should but he won't. Not any more than men have a say in child support when they don't want the baby.

myabe123 · Answer

If they are married/in a relationship. Other wise no. They both knew the risks

Cubus · Answer

Of course he should have. It's both your baby, not only mother's

Slim57 · Answer

He should but he'll never get the say, best case for men is to just avoid these women altogether

Appleby33 · Answer

No body is care for black babies  People is the only keep white babies  Racist white people!!!

Anonymous · Answer

If he has no say, then he shouldn't be required to pay child support.

Anonymous · Answer

When he understands how it’s like to be pregnant for 9 months, then he could decide.

Kurdistan1991 · Answer

A woman is responsible for her own body. Men have no say in this matter.

Anonymous · Answer

If he has no so, then he don’t pay. She want all of it, she can keep it.

Anonymous · Answer

He should have some say but she is the one carrying it so it’s a tough situation

jshm2 · Answer

Only if they are married

driven159 · Answer

She has to carry the baby she has most of the say

Anonymous · Answer

I’m nobody’s incubator

Wise4myage · Answer

I chose B. It should be discussed.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Ugh I’m so over this specific question

yucel_eden · Answer

Yes…I asked this question a few weeks ago too…

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes he should. It's his baby too.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

His wallet his choice.

Eileen753 · Answer

100%.  Nobody should kill humans life.

JohnK123 · Answer

Ofc they should it’s their baby also

tponderingundead · Answer

it's the woman's body, not the man's.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Yes, it’s his baby too

Zygum · Answer

Mother can keep her baby

Aphrodite801 · Answer

😂😂😂😂

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes of course

Zenit93 · Answer

Absolutely

jahaims · Answer

For sure

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