Girls, what would you do if your boyfriend wanted you to get breasts implants?

[Tinylove360]

Let's say your boyfriend of two years said he wants you to get breasts implants for his birthday. Would you do it?

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It would be funny if the girl got the implants, cheated on him, then left.

[SkyCastle90]

It's manipulation. He's using his birthday to justify asking/guilting you to make surgical changes to YOUR body. I had an ex (together for 5 years) like this as well; eventually, I wised up and left, but I never agreed to anything with life long changes.

Sadly, I use to be more of people pleaser back in the day, so seeing an upset boyfriend would make me consider crazy shit to make him happy; so If you're in this group right now and on the fence about breast implants, then do research.

Understand that:
1. There are different types of breast implant and surgeries, pick which is best for you and your lifestyle.
2. Some breast implants are irreversible, permanent.
3. Rupture of a silicone-filled breast implant can occur. Some ruptures can go unnoticed until it's too late and your life is in danger. So you'll have to get routine MRI scans every 2 - 3 years for the rest of your life (is he going to pay for that?)
4. It'll affect your ability to breastfeed depending on what type of breast surgery he makes you get. Meaning you might produce less milk for your child due to the surgical procedure altering your nerves and ducts.
5. As you age and your body changes, you may need to get routine touch ups to when needed to avoid complications.
6. Getting mammograms to check for breast cancer will be risky due to possibility of rupture.

Increase breast naturally:
1. At 22 your body isn't done growing, which means you'll change a lot as you get older (cellulite, lower metabolism, etc) leading to naturally bigger breast.
2. There are ways to naturally increase your breast size with food, and supplements.
3. When ready and financially stable, pregnancy can also increase breast size.

[HotPinkDominatrxSlut]

I'm blessed with having natural large tits and my very dark very sexy black husband lives my tits and so do all men. I'd never get fake tits. Fake tits are just nasty. I'm completely 100% all natural beauty and believe in staying all natural. Meaning no makeup, mascara, eyeliner, plastic surgery, fake tits, Botox, any kind of implants, tanning beds, tanning sprays, hair dye or anything fake. I also have natural pure platinum blonde hair longer than I am tall and the bluest brightest lightest eyes, a natural golden tan, perfect slim body beautiful face and beautiful smile all these beautiful features I have I have completely naturally and I'm 4'11". My husband is very dark black and very sexy and over 7' and he loves everything about me and so do all men of all races and they love that I'm completely all natural.

[caring__1]

If he feels he can alter this, can you imagine all the other things he'll want altered in the future? Find someone who appreciates you as you are. I'm sure he doesn't want to be a lump of clay to be molded by you. Unless you've told him you want implants, this is a big red flag. Don't invest too much.

[Zolly99999]

I guess that would be the same as a girlfriend asking me to get a penis enlargement... I'd be offended and then would have a serious talk with them.. if they didn't like me for me then i will move on and not waste each other's time.

[Seinna]

I'd tell him to inpant himself a bigger dick. Not because I'd mean it but to show him how it feels. That's absolutely not acceptable. If we're together then we accept each other (unless it's a bad habit or health problem we can work through) and not try to change that other person. Especially in such a drastic way as through a plastic surgery. If a guy I was with for 2 years seriously suggested something like that without me ever bringing it up myself it would honestly hurt me and be a serious blow to my self esteem... I probably wouldn't stay with him.

[hahahmm]

If you're not married don't even consider it. And even if you were married, a TINY size increase is a way better idea than a big one. Still it's a red flag if a guy thinks you're good enough for a relationship but wants a body alteration (done with surgery).

[Dawnlind92]

It depends whether or not I wanted breast implants in the first place...
If I brought up the fact that I wanted bigger boobs, I would be happy and take the offer as it's a giftIf I didn't want breast implants, and was happy with the size I'm at I would feel somewhat insulted, and just tell him he hurt my feelings... I would also second guess the relationship, as i am not fond of men who are overly superficial. Obviously physical attraction is important to some degree, but a man who expects his girlfriend to be perfect is out to lunch.

[The1Girl]

I'd tell him to take a long walk along the pier.

Changing YOUR body for HIS birthday present? The audacity. No chance. My boyfriend would never ever ask me to do such a thing anyway, but just the thought of someone asking another person to do that pisses me off. So immature!

[20yearsolder]

I'm not a girl but I'd like to add my opinion. This is the every woman that reads this reply. Don't ever do anything your boyfriend or husband wants you to do unless it's something that you want to do. It's your body and if you're comfortable with the way it is. Don't do it

[NotTacocaT6969]

I’d break up with him on the spot or say “only if you get a dick extension.”


It’s not ok to tell someone to change their body with harmful surgery just so your boner can be happy.


If he doesn’t love you EXACTLY the way you are, he’s only going to hurt you in the long-run.


Then you’ll have mutilated yourself and soent thousands of dollars for nothing other than to get used by a horny jerk.

[Prezzi3]

I’m not making a permanent body chance and possibly endangering my health because of
someone temporary. It would be much easier for you to leave than undergo surgery just because he wants someone with not breast. If he doesn’t love you for who you are now, God forbid you get in an accident that permanently scars you. Do you think he would stick around?

[SweetFyter]

I'd tell him, "Sure, right after you get your buns tightened up (I love tight buns on guys) and have your penis enlarged!"

This kind of garbage (guys asking girls to change their bodies) makes me mad. If you wanted big boobs, why did you date ME? Stupid. Just stupid.

[Mess96]

I wouldn’t change for anyone! If they don’t like me and accept me for me then their loss! They can go bug someone else or just stay single. Plus I already have natural big boobs and it causes me problems so I’ve been wanting a breast reduction or lose weight and get the body I’ve always wanted. I’m not for plastic surgery

[CheeseMonster]

Lol I thought it said that the boyfriend wants to get breast implants.

Honestly I wouldn't be a fan of either way. I'm definitely not getting implants myself; I think that will be the case for most people if their SO just springs it like that after 2 years as a birthday present... but again, maybe different for some people. I don't think him getting boobs would be a deal breaker, though it may be for some people.

[SnakeBoop]

he's gone.
DO NOT DATE OTHERS WHO ONLY THINK TO CHANGE YOU FOLKS.
It is MY body, that I will have to live with, regardless if we end up ending the relationship or not.
Plus, I want a reduction XD

[Dinklex3]

? No, lol.
& if he waits 2 years to voice he's not okay with my breast size.. he's not the one for me.
I'd fuss at him then break up.

[VinnyMac]

No man should ever ask this of their girlfriend, her body is hers and to ask such a thing from her is shallow. A woman deserves to be with a man who accepts her for completely who she is, but both inwardly and outwardly.

[TrueConfection]

What will he want you to fix after that?

I'd sooner get his name tattooed on my arm than get implants. At least it wouldn't require surgery to remove when he leaves.

[uwu_princess]

No, I would never do it because I respect my body and I don't want to look like plastic slut (like most girls on ig) 🤷‍♀️. If he wanted it, but I don't - I'd leave him

[dustybiker]

Nobody in a healthy and mature frame of mind would never suggest such a thing.

[dustybiker]

*ever

[KatieB713]

I would tell him to fuck off... then if he was actually serious, I would give him a disappointed look

[t_time]

This is a joke right? I would NEVER let a man tell me what to do with my body. If that's what he wants that's fine but I'm obviously not the girl for him

[annabananna]

A guy should never make a negative comment about a woman’s boobs that he is with. There’s no point and she can’t change it through natural means so all it accomplishes is the girl feeling insecure or hurt.

[Bratsondanielle]

I would pack my suitcases, throw my stuff up on my truck, put it in d and stomp on the right pedal as hard as I could