My boyfriend openly told me to get breast augmentation, what should I do?

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I need your opinion. I have never felt any less of a woman just because of my breasts size (34B) until my boyfriend openly tells me that he’s trying to influence me to have breast augmentation because he likes them bigger. I didn’t know how to react then but I really feel insulted. He wants to spend the rest of his life with me and even talks about marriage and future together but the fact that he told me that, I was taken aback. He’s even willing to pay for it just so I’d consider getting augmentation.

Ladies, what would you feel if you were on my shoes?
Men, is size really important?

Ladies, what would you feel if you were on my shoes?
Men, is size really important?

newbie2015 · Accepted Answer

I dont think there is anything wrong with discussing it. Some men like big boobs. Some men like big butts. Some men like blondes and others brunettes.

BUT there are other things to consider.

A) this is a life time of surgeries. Good augmentation typically lasts about 10 years. Then you have to do them again or get them removed. Its like hair extensions. Its a life long investment.
B) if you like your small breasts now they will never go back to this... i considered a procedure. Went to consult. The doctor told me my small cs were perfect and refused to touch them. He said he'd just be ruining them.
C) how do YOU feel about your boobs? Because something may happen. You may break up. Heck he could die... the next man you date may not like fake breasts. I find it 50/50. Hige turn on for half and huge turn off for half. So in the end you may be stuck alone with those boobs. Will they give you confidence? Will they look good on your frame? Will you feel better about you? Because the only constant in this scenatio are your boobs that are stuck on you and you. He is a variable that could change.

So i don't think its horrible he mentioned it IF he doesn't harp on it and continues to tell you he loves you regardless of your decision. But in the end it really is YOURS. Not his. But maybe he's noticed you dont wear certain clothing or appear confident? Maybe he's not a villain is what im saying. Now, if you decide no, express this and he STILL pushes for this, then teah, he's a dick. But i think it is not super weird to push for something that turns one on. How many times has a girl encouraged a guy to get a tatoo? Its when suggestion turns into pressure where the line is crossed.

lumos · Accepted Answer

Tell him to get a dick augmentation and then break up with him.
Sorry, but this is a really big deal breaker for me. Telling your partner that they should go under the knife to fit your own physical preferences is disgusting and the height of selfishness. He was fully aware of your breast size when you became a couple. If he truly does think it's *so* important for his girlfriend to have bigger boobs, he could have turned you down and never gotten into a relationship with you. To demand that you spend thousands of dollars on a procedure that could permanently damage or affect your body is disgusting.
I would never, ever want to be with someone who isn't perfectly happy with me just the way I am. I have small boobs too, and if my boyfriend ever even suggested that I should look into getting a breast augmentation, I'd fling him the fuck out and make sure that he goes head first.

Fitness-Fanatic · Accepted Answer

Google the dangers of breast augmentation. Show him all the things that can go wrong during and after surgery , the long-term side effects, as well as true life horror stories of people who've had breast augmentation, and regretted it. Then ask him if he still wants you to go through with the surgery. If the answer is yes, I'd seriously question his love for you.

A guy who loves you would never want you to put your life or health at risk for the sake of unnecessary cosmetic surgery

If you go ahead with the surgery , you have to live with the consequences if the surgery goes wrong. Then where will he be?

Lynzerilee · Accepted Answer

Dump his ass. I think it's already dishonest that he got with you knowing he doesn't like your breast size and not really attracted to you. He has the right to his own preferences but not bring another person or expect them to artficially meet them. I bet he can never be satisfied with anything and he'll always try to change something in you, the older you'll get the more pressure you will feel as you know he doesn't love you because of you. Don't go there, you're beautiful as you are and it's priceless.

Levin · Accepted Answer

If he wants bigger boobs, he should find someone else. Honestly, this sounds direct and overextending my remit, but I've dealt with people who try and change me like that. Without exception, they always turned out to be not the right person for me or just non-committal (particularly emotionally) in the first place. Self value always trumps any other concerns. If you respect yourself, you immediately say, fuck off, go and find someone else. That should nip it in the bud fairly quickly. One shouldn't expect much in life. But one should certainly expect a partner that gives a shit about you and doesn't hurt you, as much as you do for them.

Just personally and incidentally. Don't like breast implants. They look awful and they probably feel it. And what kind of partner would expect their woman to go under the knife for something so cosmetic? I don't care about boob size. Small is sometimes even preferable. But I love boobs in all their range and variation. That's what makes them so wonderful.

ThisDudeHere · Accepted Answer

The way I see it, size should only come as a bonus. It's bordering on shallow once it becomes a prerequisite.

As for your guy - ask yourself- will he really stop at just breasts? And is it good for you to remain with someone who values superficial looks to this extent? Think about it - not only do augmented boobs look fake, they will also become really ugly as you age.
In the distant future, your looks will fade and you're still going to be with a man who wasn't satisfied with what you naturally had, so how much do you think he's going to tolerate age fading your looks away?

I'd reckon not a lot. This will only cause problems much later down the road.

abc3643 · Answer

GET A NEW BOYFRIEND!

Let me explain why...
In marriage, these are the critical basic vows:
"For sickness and in health
For richer, for poorer,
'Til death do us part."

So, suppose you got breast cancer and had to get a double mastectomy...

If he wants you to get breast implants now, do you think he's the kind of guy that's going to stick around after a double mastectomy. Nope. He'll leave you ASAP.

He needs to go.
Furthermore, send him this exact post and tell him this is the reason why you are dumping him.

MrOracle · Answer

There's something you need to have augmented or replaced - and it isn't your boobs...

SigmundFreud · Answer

There's a lot to consider.

Is he bad, or even not average, for being honest about it? No. He's being honest, so be grateful. Most guys want them bigger, even if they say they don't.

My wife plans to get implants and I encourage it bc it's hot as hell.

BUT: you should never do something to your body like that if YOU aren't interested, motivated, and find it truly beautiful YOURSELF. What if he leaves you? Will the next man, or YOU, be happy with the changes?

I commend your SO for honesty, as I am that way myself. in my opinion being honest with women (and vise versa) in every domain regarding what you expect, want and need, will only improve the rlp. It's the surprises that come later than you never set an honest foundation for that can end you.

Tl:dr - don't think too much on it. It's not personal. The next man likely won't be different. Only get them if YOU think it's beautiful and a good idea for the long term. If you can't find consensus, prob move on.

GingerGuy · Answer

I'd never want you to do it. I'd be hurt as well if I were you. Talk to him and tell him how you feel and how it made you feel. That's pretty insensitive, but he may not realize it. He should accept and love you as you are if he truly loves you. It makes me question that honestly. Breast size does not matter ultimately. If I like you, it doesn't matter what size you are.

Anonymous · Answer

DON'T DO IT: It's irreversible, ugly, and overall unnatural/perverted. You'll hate it in the long-term, and I guarantee you that you will regret it. Also, you shouldn't have to change your physical appearance for the sexual pleasure of your partner. It has no benefit on anything except for his eyes. The fact that he even brings it up suggests something about his personality, the fact that he has to give his girlfriend bigger breasts is honestly kind of sad and should not even be considered. If he is someone really important to you then I'd advise changing his onlook on women.

Boromir · Answer

As a man: no, size is not important. It’s also a taste thing, so many people, so many preferences. He _can_ have his preferences, and if you would have suggested this yourself because you would like it he could have told you that he likes the idea very much and supports you wholeheartedly. What he does is however not correct, he should not force it upon you. If you are esteem- and body-wise fine with your 34B he should be happy for you and stop thinking about his own optical pleasure. It’s you who’s waking around with them all day. I would consider it a bit a red flag honestly...

Anonymous · Answer

I am 34AA babe. If someone loves you then he should love you for who you are, not what do you look like... Your boyfriend should make you feel better, make you feel prettier and so on. When I was in a relationship, I finally felt more comfortable and confident with my body and small boobs. Before I was so shy with what I look like, I thought no one will wants me but my boyfriend (current ex) convinced me that this doesn't matter, that I have small boobs. He still loved me and always told me how sexy I look.

If he wants you with bigger boobs then he doesn't really want You... And I think this is not how love should look like...

Agent · Answer

I believe this is a matter of interpretation. Let's point out the facts:
He demonstrated genuine interest in spending the rest of his life with you.
He isn't just dumping you and going for someone with bigger boobs/using that money on some hooker with big boobs.

There's no malice. If you felt insulted you can let him know though.

If my girlfriend told me to work out & drink protein shakes (instead of dumping me) because she likes guys that look buffer than I currently look, or if she wanted me to take some magical pill to permanently increase my dick size, I'd be cool with it. Fuck, if she even offers to pay for all the material required to do the previously mentioned I'd be even happier--that's real commitment right there. Best girlfriend.

SammyGurl · Answer

He's way over the line of decency, that's just plain rude and disrespectful. If he cannot accept you the way you are then he just plain doesn't deserve you and he needs to be told that in no uncertain terms! I'm a, small 34 B myself, my husband thinks they're the best thing he's ever been allowed to play with! Really, he loves my size, he's commented on it many times. The other day he told me that he kind of hoped that I didn't get bigger in the breast department from being pregnant. If you listen to some girls that are heavily endowed, they often come right out and vocalize that they're a bit envious of girls our size, especially when it comes to being active and experiencing pain from their weight. If your guy can't understand you don't want to be changed into his Barbie doll ideal then tell him to go find his "Ideal Woman" elsewhere!

loveisbeautiful · Answer

What you should do, is tell him to make sure the door hits him in the ass on the way out, that 's what you should do. No one should ever tell someone how they think they should look because they simply don't have the right to do so. Plus if one really stops to think about it, there's a chance that even if you oblige his request that he's just going to keep finding things wrong until you look like he thinks you should.

So, the best thing to do is tell him "no" you will not do that and if he can't take you as you are then maybe you both should reconsider being in a relationship together.

littlebutswole · Answer

Break up with him. If you wanted one, and he just supported that, it would be different. (but you totally don't need one anyway all sizes are ok and 34B is very normal) He should love you for who you are. Maybe he likes bigger, but if you are the one he won't care. And if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, he needs to accept all of you the way it is now. Especially because he's going to have to watch you age and if he cares this much about something as shallow as boobs, he won't love the aging you (which would still be beautiful anyway if he was really in love) and he could push for more procedures.

And if you are opposed to it and he keeps on pushing for it and it insults you, that is selfish, because he wants you to satisfy his own desires at the expense of your feelings and self esteem. I say break up with him.

Jgirl532 · Answer

You need to get out of that relationship. I am quite well versed in the signs of domestic abuse, and I 'm not saying that this is what is happening here, but there are some key aspects of this that you need to understand.

First, and most importantly, your justification for staying with him is frightening. You are justifying his actions, which were completely wrong and intrusive, with the fact that he wants to get married and have a future with you. That he loves you. This isn't healthy, and this certainly isn't love. In many cases of abuse in relationships, the victims justify similar actions in the exact same way. That's why I see such an alarming parallel, your justification.

Second, this is borderline emotional abuse. He should never say something so hurtful to you.

But I'm really appauled at his control over your body. I think that is one of the most unhealthy aspects of it. He is trying to control what you do with your body just for his enjoyment.

DianaCrimson · Answer

B cup is something perfect. Im having natural DD breasts (thank god perky and passing the pencil test :D) and even that it looks amazing its soooo not worth it. I like the B size because it looks more firm and perky in the long run and won't stretch your shirt like a DD would leaving every person being able to look at your boobs through the holes between the buttons... Not to mention the back pain you will get if you have bigger boobs. Just be yourself. I would never marry a person who can't accept me for who i am and wants to change me.

Cyber_Ghost · Answer

Don't F'ing do it. There is nothing worse than a woman with fake tits. I would rather have a woman with very small tits than a woman with fake tits. I have been with several small breasted woman and every last one of them were sexy af. If your boyfriend has some kind of fetish with large tits, then perhaps he needs to go find a woman with large tits, instead of trying to put you under the knife to get something that most men dislike. And trust me, this retard boyfriend of yours... he won't be around forever. Chances are your next boyfriend isn't going to be a big fan of your fake tits. Tell your boyfriend to F-off.

ItsAimee · Answer

Fuck him! If you are happy the way you are, then leave his ass and find a man who respects your body for what it is!

But if you had genuinely contemplated breast augmentation before you even met your boyfriend then I would take him up on his offer.

My natural size was similar to yours. I was a 32B and I had a breast augmentation to take me up to a 32DD and it was the best decision I ever made in my life. I feel more confident, I feel sexier, and all my girlfriends say that my mood had improved since I had my boobs done.

Ask yourself if you are happy with your body or not?
Ask yourself if you'll be happy without that particular man as your boyfriend?

Think about it very carefully before you make a decision.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

For 50% of men, size is not important. For 25% of men, smaller is better. If he has the same idea that you are supposed to change yourself to please him, your future as his wife seems rather bleak. He is supposed to love you as you are.

Have you considered asking him to get a penile implant?

420Rachel · Answer

Tell him you want him to get surgery to have a bigger dick and see what he says lol. All boobs are beautiful in my opinion. And fake boobs just suck. They don't bounce, they're not soft, they're not real. I love my boobs and I would never get them augmented. As long as YOU'RE happy with your body that's what matters

0112358 · Answer

Size isn’t important to me though I do have a preference for smaller breasts.

If he’s under the impression all men would think you would look better he’s wrong. As many men prefer small as prefer large. The average porn star has 34b breasts.

I wouldn’t consider it unless you’re actually going to get married. At that point you could consider it. There’s nothing objectively better or universally preferred about larger breasts. But if you do decide to spend your life with someone who you aren’t super compatible with who happens to have a big kink to large... well then you could decide if it’s worth it to you

FMJ_Guy · Answer

You were born with perfect breasts!! 34 B, and 'B' is for Beautiful!! Tell him to go to hell!!
If he can't love YOU, for WHO, you are, then he is the WRONG GUY!!!
I would NEVER, EVER pressure a woman to change her body, surgically!!
If you really love, and care for someone, you love WHO they are, not their breasts, or penis, or whatever!!!

StarieNight · Answer

Your boyfriend needs to shut the heck up and accept you for who you are. Isn't unconditional love the whole point of a relationship? Even though, I don't think this kind of stuff is real but trust me when I tell you this. Do not get a breasts augmentation!!! Having big boobs isn't all that special anyway! I can speak from experience because I am a busty woman my mine tits give me problems all the time.

Junior42 · Answer

It is really important to some guys like if my girlfriend asked me to get a bigger dick surgery I would do it for her because she likes it big but in your situation it's up to you how you feel if you're willing to go through the surgery in the pain of getting the operation. And if you love him enough to do it for me size is kind of important but not really at the same time because I thought I would want a big titty girl but I ended up liking girls who have small boobs you don't get to choose who you fall in love with let's put it that way I like girls with big boobs that's my preference I'm a boob man but I did end up dating and liking girls who have small boobs so

ragequeen · Answer

This sounds like a joke because it`s so ridiculous. I had a million questions just reading the part about the marriage. He does not love you if he wants you to change, okay? I mean come on. Breasts don`t do anything for your personality, and rarely anything for your appearance. If he strictly wants bigger tits he should have considered that long before he met you.

Andre__ · Answer

It should not be important and such a thing you should only do if yourself have phycological issues about your breasts. If you are happy the way you are don't change a thing. He can speak his preference the same as you can about men, but he should never influence you make any such alterations to your body. You are right to feel insulted by the proposition.

Anonymous · Answer

I’d be insulted and angry too! This is very controlling and superficial. All surgery comes with risks - risks to you, not him! In fact if a guy told me to do that I would definitely NOT do it. If you do he will find more and more things to complain about and eventually have you going crazy trying to please him until eventually you will just wear out trying. Is this someone you want a life with? Your partner should have your back and support you, not tell you that you aren’t good enough. And by the way, they grow.. I was a B at about 20, a C at about 25, a D at about 30, and a DD at 34 just before I fell pregnant with my first.
When I was a B, I mentioned to my boyfriend at the time that I was small and he replied that he likes them how they were and “any more than a handful is a waste”.

arnoldtroyer · Answer

Is size important to you? (In his case)
Consider it.

If he actually loves you, size doesn't matter. If it's all about the physical and he thinks that "you" would be better "if" you did this or that, he doesn't appreciate YOU.
IF YOU feel augmentation would be a benefit to YOU, then go with it regardless of his opinion. If you are fine with yourself as you are, then don't do it.
Straight up. I love ample breasts but it's NOT the basis of a relationship.
Curb, here comes what's his face because he's being kicked your way.
Find someone who wants to spend the rest of his life with you and not just your potential fake breasts.

If he wants them so much, suggest he get the surgery.

AlphaGhost · Answer

I would say don't do it for one fucker that can dump you in matter of seconds but its your choice and decision to make but as Medicine student I can confirm that its painful and if you got kid, it will wreck havoc on you+ fake boobs are kind of ornamental thing and if he played with them. It can cause intense pain and boobs rupture too... so take your time and talk to doc about disadvantages.

Yoder023 · Answer

TWO IMPORTANT THINGS:

1 - It's your decision.

2 - Get ready for the breakup. May not happen now, or maybe even years; but I promise you if he wants you to change and is pushy about it (obviously is since he offers to pay for it), it's not meant to be.

simplecountrygirl · Answer

My boyfriend has told me I should get implants. But I just tell him to suck it up because he should like me as I am. Now when he says it it is just to annoy me lol. It bothers me, but that's why he does it now. If he can't just accept you then he isn't worth it

DarkPhoenix86 · Answer

Oh helllll nah, that's f**ked up. If you approached him about it and he offered to pay that's great, but for him to tell you to change you body because he wants it different or doesn't like how it is then that's messed up. He can love you for how you are or leave. I'm frankly shocked that he would say that, that's rude asf.

Hidden_P · Answer

It’s your body and your tits. Personally, if you’ve been happy I would stick with your current size.

I have really big boobs and although people drool... good god it hurts your back. Plus, it’s expensive and they can go wrong (PIP scandal, they can reject, etc)

Turn around to him randomly and ask him for surgery. See how he reacts. Bet he says no.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

a lot of guys want big boobs.

if you want to hurt him back, tell him you Wish he could get a dick enlargement, but they dont work and so you will just have to make do with his dick "the way it is".

TBH, i was a Large A cup... til i got prego.. i am a large C now... I love how i look and guys pay more attn to me now. My self esteem did go up a lot not being small any more.

Charlie4077 · Answer

Never ever do something to your body just to make another person happy. Especially a major surgery. Unless you want your breasts to be bigger, then I say stay as you are. And frankly he should just consider himself lucky you didn't tell him to pack his stuff. That's one of the most selfish, inconsiderate things your could ever say/do to someone you claim to love.

chunkycheeks · Answer

I would be hurt. My man a while back told me he wishes I had a bigger ass.. And that hurt my feelings because I can't do anything about that. He doesn't like fake asses, he likes natural big asses and my whole family has big asses so he wishes I did too instead of my huge boobs 😒 its not like I dont have an ass either, its just not like everyone else in my family.
If he ever offered to pay for me to have a bigger ass.. I think I would flip out. That's not nice at all.

slatyb · Answer

That's a HUGE ask, and I would advise against it. They will get larger naturally as you age. "HE wants to spend the rest of his life with me and even talks about marriage and future together" What do YOU want? Don't marry a guy because it seems easier to go along than to break up and start over looking for someone new.

MR-Mr-mr · Answer

I've dated the extremes, girl's with breasts so big they look painful to walk with, and a girl with tits so small she was just shy of being flat chested. It's never been a huge issue with me, I do have preference, but it's never been a big enough issue to influence who I date.

I see nothing wrong with him asking if you'll get an enhancement, I think it's unhealthy if in your relationship you can't be totally honest about what you want, even extreme things.

However, asking and demanding are two different things entirely. If he ask's, then think about what you want, and give him your honest answer, and even if your hurt be glad he's comfortable enough in the relationship to ask you anything.
If he demands, then tell him to go fuck himself and break up with him.(Optional- kick him in the nuts on your way out.)

mrs-turner97 · Answer

I would say fuck you I’m not some thing you can change just cause you don’t like it if you can’t take my boobs how they are well then buddy you don’t need the rest of me neither and then don’t even show him your boobs anymore for awhile if he complained about them

adoriakim · Answer

I get it if the guy like you to have long hair or want you dress more girly sometime. The makeup is also okay but then that's where I draw the line. One thing I want you to ask your 'not asking for too much' boyfriend, he wants to marry you what if (I would never want thing like this happen to any women but) you get breast cancer or you burn you're elf in accident. he doesn't feel like the type who will be their in sickness and health. I would suggest you to not risk your life on him

rihannanavy · Answer

Ummmm no! I'm altering my body for someone who isn't my husband. Even that, I wouldn't change them because of what you like. Big boobs cause back pain. I can barely handle my C cups. He's nit permanent but your body is. Move past this subject with him

eor324 · Answer

How long have you two been together? Please only do it if YOU honestly want to. I had a breast augmentation about 5 years ago but my husband did not suggest it and I would be extremely hurt if he had. I had a very obvious difference between my breasts from my scoliosis, and I wanted to fix it to feel better about myself. I don't think I would be able to get over the feeling of not feeling good enough if I was in your situation. I know it's got to hurt, I'm so sorry.

Miristheiss · Answer

I'm sorry this is happening. B sized breasts are wonderful. Don't feel self conscience one bit. I can't imagine telling someone to get an operation. Anyway, fake breasts usually look weird unnatural and they don't feel as soft any more. I wish you weren't in this spot. I'd actually be disappointed if my girl was wanting to have her breasts operated on. I hope you don't consider getting cut on just for a guy.

Anonymous · Answer

I understand. I would feel insulted as well. He has no say over your body. Why would you have to undergo a surgery just because he (or anybody that is not yourself!) has a fetish? You can tell him that you'll get breast augmentation if he gets penis augmentation too ;) Otherwise, there won't be no deal.

Mexicoman101 · Answer

I wouldn't respond very well to my partner dictating me to get body-altering surgery. You should stand your ground. If he doesn't like your tits, there are people who will.

It can have some importance, but isn't That important to me. I'm personally more into butts, but sometimes a nice rack can compensate for like a flat chest. I think small breasts can look nice too, sometimes it comes down to shape.

keenybmr · Answer

That's fucking immature of him. Wow. You should threaten to leave him if he ever says that again.

cosmicc · Answer

Never change anything about yourself for anyone unless its for yourself! If he can't get over it then dump him and fund someone who appreciates your breast size.

Me tho.. Id be petty and tell him I like bigger dicks and to get his dick enlarged permanently if he wants me to get bigger boobs.

rsstanford · Answer

I would leave. If someone can’t like you for you then what’s the point? Never change who you are from a guy who is most likely a season. Never give someone power over you. There are tons of guys who will accept you for who you are. You need to love who you are, and accept that you’re beautiful Just the way you are.

JZ909 · Answer

If you had asked him his opinion, I would say what he said is fair game. I don't believe in criticizing people for their thoughts. If you didn't ask him, well, I have two sisters and I would be worried about them if they were dating a guy like that (and I would hate his guts).

kashmenon · Answer

Anyone who says change yourself for them is not fit for you. Didn't he look at ur breast size when he "fell in love" with you? Size is important and it is not something that can be asked of a woman to do, this is something that should have been looked into when u were asked out. You can't go and ask him to increase his size correct? Even though that can be done now. I'm sure size is important to you as well. Simple. Im sorry for being blunt. But u did ask the opinion of a guy

SpaceFungus-07a · Answer

If appearance in so important to him that he's telling you to get surgery, STAY AWAY! He's a superficial jerk. If you're lucky your marriage will last long enough for you to start losing your looks, at which point he'll dump you for a younger woman. But I wouldn't count on that much even.

Sc0rpy · Answer

That sounds offensive from him, look my friend, when you love someone you accept every detail of him/her, mentally and physically and that is what you should say to him, he may have another point of view so you two should talk about it, in my opinion you should do what you see better for you, and since you said you haven't seen a problem with your size , then you should keep it the same, not to mention breast augmentation has some side problems with some cases, anyway, show him a piece of your mind but without a fight 😁

BrianKang · Answer

If he's trying to get you to change your body in anyway that you don't want to then he's an asshole. If you want them done that's up to you but he has no right to try to make you do it for his own preference.

Breast size in not important to maintaining a relationship so he's just being selfish. Don't let him change your mind if you don't want it done and if he is super persistent then you deserve someone better who will be happy with you just as you are.

jamesguy989 · Answer

I mean.. I don't really know much about augmentation, I don't know how long it lasts or how expensive it is to upkeep them.. But all I will say is that they look.. Pretty great.

Especially when you're in your 30's and things start to go downhill, which is why I wonder how the upkeep is over decades. If he's willing to pay for it, I don't see a downside to that. If guys had the option to get a bigger dick paid for by their SO, I'm pretty certain 95% of them would.

Brokenheartedx · Answer

Tell him you’ll get your breasts done around same time he gets a penis enlargement..

Because seriously nobody should change who they are to please someone else.. he wants big tits he either gets the implants done on himself or go gets someone who has big breasts either natural or fake..

DarthLadyKiller · Answer

Make sure he was not joking and if he was serious, tell him "UP YOURS!"
Ever seen the film Napolean Dynamite when she calls him thinking he sent a breast augmentation salesman to get her? She says, "I don't need herbal enhancers to feel good about myself. And if you are so concerned, why not try taking some yourself?"

lotv56 · Answer

Eww leave him! Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone like that? You are young now and he wants you to get bigger boobs? can you imagine when you are old and you skin becomes saggy, is he going to make you get botox or cheat on you with someone young?

Astoriana · Answer

If you want to get a boob job, then get one.

But don’t do it to please him. Do it to please yourself. If you’re going to go through all of the pain and suffering of surgery and drainage tubes and possible nerve damage, it should be something that you actually want.

VegetaSSB · Answer

Well if they like them bigger, He should just break up with you and find someone who fits his taste, or accept you by what you are, don´t do it for this fucking egotistical man, he doesn´t deserve it, and no men would ever deserve this, honestly a B is perfectly fine by me, in fact what does count more about boobs are nipples, because they are the most erogenous zone after the pussy, so fuck him.

wondluv27 · Answer

I wouldn't give a fuck. a dude should love u for your personality whatsoever. go ahead and ask him " if i was too fat or too skinny would u still want a future with me" . A man isn't and shouldn't make his woman feel insulted about her body and shouldn't encourage her to change it. he should tell her that she is perfect. amd if he doesn't see that in you. he isn't worth it

lollipop431 · Answer

Even if he's a freak for big boobs, firstly, if he loves you, he should accept all your "flaws" and things that may not be the way he imagines them. Secondly, don't let anyone, EVER, tell you what to do with your body unless you feel the need to do it for yourself.

rusty1333 · Answer

Wow he sounds really shallow. Yes I like nice D breasts but I also love nice smaller a and b Cup breasts. I would never tell any woman she needed augmentation. If it was your request I would support it but not demand you do it. Would be like telling to get a dick implant. I say tell him no, and he gets pussy about then tell him to fuck off and move on!

veronicalynn · Answer

I would definitely not marry the guy. I would probably end it. He is trying to change you and that's wrong. He knew what was up when y'all got together and it's completely wrong of him to even suggest such a thing. Your perfect just the way you are! Don't ever let anyone tell you your not!

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