My boyfriend openly told me to get breast augmentation, what should I do? (Page 2)

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I need your opinion. I have never felt any less of a woman just because of my breasts size (34B) until my boyfriend openly tells me that he’s trying to influence me to have breast augmentation because he likes them bigger. I didn’t know how to react then but I really feel insulted. He wants to spend the rest of his life with me and even talks about marriage and future together but the fact that he told me that, I was taken aback. He’s even willing to pay for it just so I’d consider getting augmentation.

Ladies, what would you feel if you were on my shoes?
Men, is size really important?

9teen · Answer

Very immature and really a bad idea. It will harm your health and might cause breastcancer + your nipples will most likely become insensitive.
At least he says what he has on his mind. Tell him what's on your mind. If he still thinks like a douche and doesn't reconsider your feelings, hit his insecurity as well and have no shame for that because it will end bad anyway.

yucychan · Answer

Tell him if he goes for a penis enlargement operation and also develop hot abs in the process, you will then maybe consider going for breast augmentation. Its only fair, if he expects you to have a hot body, then he should work on himself first.

MusicMayhem · Answer

He's a dickhead. Leave him. You don't change for anyone but yourself. If he doesn't like your boobs he can go without them and find someone else.

ANK360 · Answer

dump him up , if he really loves you then he would never said that but infact he love your body most from what i can see so leave or say you dont want to get it done and then see the reaction if he is okay fine if not fuck dump him up , Remember Girls should never go physical with any guy until you want to live with him forever !

AmtgardJean · Answer

If breast size is that important to him tell him to get a Turkey breast I stead of chicken.
If you are not the one wanting the augmentation don't do it. There can be many problems that arise from BA surgery. Size should never be that important in an actual relationship.
This is coming from someone who much prefers bcup breasts but my fiance has DD cup.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

It's not important in a relationship. He should love you for who you are, not you physical appearance, your body will naturally change over the years, especially of you have a family. I actually think its rather disgraceful for him to tell you that. If it's something you had thought about then it's your choice. Don't do it for him. And you should tell him how things made you feel, he owes you an apology

Solias · Answer

There are more natural ways to bump you up a cup size or 2, Google it and try a few and see if you get results as if you do get implants breastfeeding is out of the question, also you'll jump up a cup size or two by get pregnant and because you're lactating, and it is possible to keep them big if you don't stop lactating

Ayer93 · Answer

Wtf... Natural is always the best. If I know a girl has augmented her boobs I get turned off. If anything boobs can easily look too big to me. I just like them perky. Anyways... if you're with a partner that doesn't like you for the way you look naturally, you're not with the right partner. I'd leave right away if my partner told me she wanted me to enlarge my dick through some surgery.

ghostqueen · Answer

I'd get a new boyfriend. That's like a girl saying she'll pay for her guy to be circumcised or have some kind of penis enlargement surgery. It's tacky and rude in my opinion.

Lala1996 · Answer

Well question is do you want it? Or does he?
Big difference.
I had mines done I was a 34 A... yours don’t sound small either.
Do you want it? YOU NOT HIM.
This is your body. Remember once it’s done you have to get them done again every 10-15 years so healthy reasons.
I’m sure if he loves you he will accept the way you are.

I hope this helps darling

LITTLEPSYCHOISMOODY · Answer

If he really love you he should be ok for who and what you are and not change you just cause he wanted bigger boobs duh I'll get very insulted and B is a nice size he should just take you for who you are and if he wants someone with big boobs well if I was his girlfriend I would definitely tell him to go find a cow 😑 but it still depends on you 😁 but seriously I'll get very insulted

beast25179 · Answer

The only thing I can say is that if he thinks your breasts are not good enough maybe you should tell him is dick ain't good enough give him a dose of his own medicine

ThePragmaticRomantic · Answer

Wow mega-fucktard.  And no, size really isn't important to the vast majority of men. And generally most guys find false boobs far worse than anything else. (they feel and look wrong).

JimRSmith · Answer

You shouldn't do it just because he wants you to.  If he sounded you out about it, and you said no, that really ought to be the end of the matter.

MasterAdvice · Answer

But think about it. It's like he will do it for you and he'll expect you to stay. What if the time comes you want to break up? Anyways, he clearly is not satisfied with your boobs. He likes you conditionally because he could not embrace your imperfections.

Greatcat · Answer

Eh I would feel insulted if a girl told me I needed to be physically augmented so badly they would pay for it. I don't know what you should do, I like big breasted women too, but 34b is nothing to complain about. I can see him suggesting it, but pushing for it? Anger is justified

adamski24 · Answer

Tell him to pipe down and walk out the door.
He is a rude fuckwit, he has no respect for you.
I love small and tiny boob's myself so much more than the big and huge ones that just look wrong to me.
If he really loved you he would love you just the way you are.

007James007 · Answer

Every guy is different! I personally dont like fake boobs, only to look at. They feel hard and very unnatural. I like As Bs and Cs maaaaaaybe Ds but only few women can pull that off. I like smallers actually. For me its the shape that counts not the size. I do not like saggy boobs at all. But thats me. i love smaller perky ones omg😍

Vix8991 · Answer

IM SO NOT SORRY TO SAY THIS, BUT YOUR BOYFRIEND doesn't DESERVE YOU, HE ain't SHIT. LITERALLY-LIKE IF UT WAS SOOKD AT THE MARKET HORSESHIT AND GARBAGE WOULD COST WAYYYYY MORE THAN HIM.
YOU DONT HAVE TO CHANGE ANYTHING! HE SHOULD LOVE YOU FOR WHO ARE!!! IF YOU DONT WANT IT THEN DONT GET IT!!

StripClubBonerBoy · Answer

Thats a decision you should make not him. It’s common for a man to love some big cans, hell... I live big cans but you can be just as sexy with small cans. Only do it if it is something you want cause they are expensive and are a long term arrangement. You decide to have them taken out you will never look like you once have.

brooks683 · Answer

It's ridiculous to think you be should expected to surgically alter your body to make anyone happy. If he's pushing it, I think you should have a conversation and set that boundary. If he respects it, great. If not you should give some serious thought about whether or not this is who you want to be committed to. But have a conversation first. Some guys are pigs, and others simply don't realize how foolishly insensitive they are at times.

bubble_tea · Answer

I'd tell him my improvement requests too. Let's see who can come up with more.

zaza111 · Answer

I would tell him, sure babe, I will do it, but only after you had increased your penis size, and your brain size, you know I like big things too. Forget about him!

Jangotat · Answer

You said 34B? From what I can tell that's great size. The one time I got into SI Swimsuit the hottest models were that size.
I'd tend tend to prefer the smaller side of visible personally, but I haven't spent time with boobs so maybe that'll change.
Beyond wanting you to be healthy, your body is really none of his business. His only thoughts she be to appreciate it.

I'd say he's out of line, red flag.

Anonymous · Answer

“Honey I’m not complaining about your size don’t complain about mine.” That’s what I would tell him 😂, no but seriously it’s your body!

he has no control over your body and he shouldn’t be that shallow, that’s his problem but he shouldn’t try to make u do something u don’t want to do. If u two r going to get married I think u two need to talk this through, or any other issues

Anonymous · Answer

and if one day he'll say : i like longer legs, let's make a surgery, again you'll listen? i think you should do only what you want and not listen to him. . In my relationship i am the one that want a breast augmentation, and he says no, that after we'll have 2 kids, i'll see if i need one or not.. and if i'll need it then, he won't say no anymore...

Babsie1984 · Answer

34 isn’t your breast size, there’s a letter missing off that!
And secondly, if you want breast augmentation done, get it!! But I’m sure your breasts are fine as they are and you sure as hell shouldn’t be getting anything done to please a man

HeyMikie · Answer

I personally prefer smaller breasts. That having been said, just remember that breast augmentation surgery comes with all of the risks that come with any type of surgery. That includes infection, internal bleeding, scarring, permanent disfigurement and even death (though very rare with this type of surgery). If he absolutely has to have a girlfriend with larger breasts, then maybe he is not looking for a girlfriend but is actually looking for a trophy. Just Sayin'.

Gedaria · Answer

Firstly. It's ok for people to give their opinion but it is you who has to live with them. a lot of women find over sized breasts very uncomfortable putting a lot of stress on the back. Personally I would say go ahead but I like smaller breasts so I am a little biased!!!

Mi2mi2a · Answer

Wether he is a boob man or not, that just shows how shallow he is. I would dump him if I was in your place

thefriendlychilly · Answer

I know most men likes to have girlfriends with big breast, its evolutionary hereditary preferences (larger breast means more milk for baby) however the way i see it is that even before marriage your boyfriend can't love you of how you are and wants to change you as how he likes. Im afraid you will have a rough journey ahead of you walking with this guy

TadCurious · Answer

I think that's really wrong for him to say that and pressure you to surgically modify your body when there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

DamnCurtis · Answer

Firstly and I think everyone will agree, what you want matters above all.
If he is civil and rational with his desires and you truly don’t mind, sure go ahead.
I’m personally against that kinda stuff. Just know it’s an important decision and don’t let it be influenced by the idea of you guys being together forever.
Just because you don’t do it now doesn’t mean you can’t do it later in life.

nakhrewali · Answer

No. Don't ever get surgery for a man. He's not the one that will have to deal with being cut open and have silicone shit in his breasts and scarring and deal with the after pain and care, that's all you. Tell him to f off and lay off the porn.

killjoy2017 · Answer

Tell him you will get implants when he has surgery to make his penis larger. Size doesn't matter and 34 B is just fine. You are you he isn't marrying your breasts, but their owner. I find the fact that he even suggested it to you disgusting.

Amejonne18 · Answer

Don't do it if this guy don't like you as you are then he's not worth it. Body modifications is something personal and nobody should have any impact on that. If he doesn't accept you you should just leave him

deric_97 · Answer

I'm a man. Leave him. But it's just my opinion. Leave him for good. Because he don't accept you as you are.

Masculion · Answer

Simply put: Your boyfriend is a shallow jackass. Everyone is free to be attracted to whatever they are (despite a growing opinion that they get to choose what people find attractive..)

winterfox10 · Answer

For him, size does matter, that's not the case for all guys though. Whether or not you get implants, he does love you though, so I don't know how big of a deal this actually is for him.

Moonchild714 · Answer

Dump his ass!!! He should love you as you are!!! Tell to use his money and get a penis enlargement!!! See how he likes it... But seriously, you don't need someone like that!!!

JhoniBoy · Answer

Do NOT do it!
Why did he get with you in the first place if he doesn’t like your body?
Tell him there’s the door if you don’t like my chichis they way they are GTFO!
DO NOT GO UNDER PLASTIC SURGERY for anyone but yourself.
I wouldn’t want to spend the rest of my life with someone who wants to physically change a body part of mine just because they don’t like it leave him before you regret it woman

CaptFluffy · Answer

Ask him for a bigger dick and see how he feels about it

sexystephen77 · Answer

Don't worry about getting that your breasts are probably perfect I'll be happy with a woman that has that size so don't do it you don't need to have that natural is better and if he thinks that the don't be with him come hook up with me I'll make you a very happy woman

lilaqua · Answer

Just say no. Fuck him. A haircut is one thing but surgery is massive. You're also the one that has to go through the process and live with it, he just gets the "fun" side.

mynameisLyn · Answer

You don't to change yourself. If he really loves you, he will accept you, everything about you. Dump him if he's serious, it seems he's one of the small minded BOYS.

imwithstupid · Answer

I don't think you need to take it too personally or be insulted at all. While the pain of the surgery is a great sacrifice, you shouldn't feel any more insulted than a guy who's girl asked him to keep his beard clean. It's just what she likes. Physical attraction IS an important part of the relationship. If you make this great sacrifice for him, he should be really appreciative though.

ShineDJJ · Answer

If my girlfriend had a smaller cup size than what I was attracted to, I would overlook it since that's of no importance in a relationship. No truly functional human being would want you to alter your body for their own satisfaction.

Angel_123 · Answer

he's not really your boyfriend if he doesn't love you for you a guy u call a boyfriend should be supportive caring not pick our your flaws or get your boobs done he should love you for you. that is what is true love he just lusts you. :/ x

sawno · Answer

Shape is important but i would likely love a girl with 34b, i think you should be with a guy who loves yoiu for who you are then to change yourself permanently for someone who will probably leave you at some point.

Username678 · Answer

I hope your trolling is cause that is just plain disrespectful. Next we will ask you to go blonde and get butt implants etc etc until you won’t be able to recognise yourself

BigChris · Answer

i can't say i have thought his because my girlfriends have all been quite large, however id say that size is important up until a B, anything smaller is kinda odd in my opinion, and anything larger than a D is often awkward to manage/hold

derek63 · Answer

Then he doesn't love you You are the girl he fell in love with so what's changed that he now wants big boobs Tell him to love you as you are or get out

Logorithim · Answer

Just tell him you aren't doing it because you are not comfortable with it. A boyfrind should not ask his girlfriend to do that.

Borat_Sagidiev · Answer

Tell him you want hims to get bigger chrum because that a what you want and like. You have man that sound a like complete asshole.

Chanel1981 · Answer

Tell him perhaps they will give you a group deal on breast augmentation and a penile enlargement! Asshole

linds34 · Answer

I'd be offended, I'd rather date someone who doesn't think I need surgery to look good enough for them.

Anonymous · Answer

You shouldn’t alter your own body for somebody else’s approval!!! If he really loves you enough to spend the rest of your life with you he will have to deal. It will probably teach him a thing or two about respect, too. It is entirely your decision.

PianoTrees · Answer

Tell him if he likes them bigger then he will be happier with someone else. Walk out dramatically and never talk to him again. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life, you're better without!

Iamanintrovert · Answer

Dump him. If he do marry you only in case of augmentation he is getting married to boobies not you. In future he may lose interest in it what will you do. If you choose to stay with him, I would probably say the situation is out of control and you will get your reward.

SumerJain · Answer

For me Size doesn't matter.
If the boy loves you very much then he should doesn't have any problem with you or your body figure. Because love is blind and it do not see any flaws in the person with whom he/she loves the most. Love is Love. Then it doesn't matter whether the person you have any flaw. At last it is your decision because it your body. I think God makes us perfect only as per our requirements and need, why to change our god gift body figure for others need and satisfaction

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