My boyfriend openly told me to get breast augmentation, what should I do? (Page 3)

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I need your opinion. I have never felt any less of a woman just because of my breasts size (34B) until my boyfriend openly tells me that he’s trying to influence me to have breast augmentation because he likes them bigger. I didn’t know how to react then but I really feel insulted. He wants to spend the rest of his life with me and even talks about marriage and future together but the fact that he told me that, I was taken aback. He’s even willing to pay for it just so I’d consider getting augmentation.

Ladies, what would you feel if you were on my shoes?
Men, is size really important?

Abhi901 · Answer

For a lusty man, it's urgently necessary to have bigger breasts. A person in love with you would never judge your body. I guess that is enough from my side. Rest can be understood.

Malita55 · Answer

Sounds like he is already unrightfully unsatisfied with someone and will most likely keep trying to change you. Chances are, you guys will break up. And if you do, you don’t want to have fake breasts if that’s something you never even wanted

castigohd · Answer

Well for me it is important (the size), but still if you weren't born with them big boobs, YOU SHOULD NOT mess with it, unless YOU feel like you really have to /if it makes you unhappy not having big breasts.

Otherwise don't mess with it. I'm not trying to be a pessimist but if something goes wrong who would you blame? What if he gets tires of it after while? You'll have to go through removal procedure and stuff.

My final opinion is just DON'T!

melanieeeB · Answer

The hell. I would tell him to get a new girlfriend, who the hell does he think he is, go get someone who accepts you for who you are and loves you regardless of how your body looks like

ChaseParker · Answer

Leave the bastard. He doesn't accept you as you are.

clampfan101 · Answer

If your breast size matters to him, he shouldn’t matter to you. Tell him no, and then tell us how he responds.

damoM · Answer

Honey you need a new boyfriend. Just because he talks about marriage doesn't mean he's the right one for you.

Pauls_say · Answer

Yours are ample a perfect size. If he wants porn star breast tell him good bye and get a new boyfriend. at least you found out about it before you married the douche.

Blonde401 · Answer

He should love you for you and you should love yourself enough to tell him to get lost if he won’t move on from this issue.

theharlequin · Answer

That’s a terrible thing for him to say to you. No one who is genuinely interested in you would ask you to change something like that.

SodaInACardboardBox · Answer

No. You don't have to change yourself just to be liked by someone else. If you don't want breast augmentation don't do it. If he doesn't like your body because you have b cups then why bother talking about marriage.

CarpetDenim · Answer

I wouldn’t do it, and if he continued to press me I’d have to leave him because he’s showing me that he cares more about my body than he does about my comfort

jeremythedrummer · Answer

Seriously. If anything id discourage body mods like such. Natural is best, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and he should look past physical qualities in you before deciding to spend a lifetime with you.

smajy · Answer

Dump him. Hoi reserve better than a guy who judges you for your size. You should feel loved in all the ways possible. I actually learned to love my small boobs due to my (now ex-) boyfriend.

deathofabachelor · Answer

If I were you i would dump him because he should love everything about you and he shouldn't want to change anything about you. Tell him how you feel and tell him that you love yourself and you're okay with your breasts the way they are and if he can't respect that then he's not worth it.

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

Well big boobs is always a bonus yes but I wouldn't make an offer like that to the girl I love and want to marry. Is this a sugar daddy type relationship? is he rich?

sbarthwal479 · Answer

Well, in my case size was the most prior thing but after i met this girl everything changed, she like as flat chested as a guy tbh but from the day 1 i have never felt unsatisfied with her goods she's the one i love so whatever she has is exactly what i need i often tell her to do something about her chest but she laugh me off saying you should get implants if you like em so much lmao 😂

Jbuff39 · Answer

Hell no it's not important people have different tastes that's all I personally prefer smaller some guys like big whatever he's trying to mold u into his ideal if he can't love u as you are screw him there is someone out there that will

JesusWalks · Answer

I wouldn't care what anyone told you God made your breasts right so why would you change them unless he is God you gotta live with your breasts are you gettin married it does say to have your bodies obey one another but thats when your married dont make decisions you'll regret later you can't undo it, well you could but at that point you what am i sayin God gives us freedom of choice.

pleasestopthis · Answer

I'd feel pissed and shocked and I'd break up with him right then and there. I would feel insulted if some jerk came and told me to get an expensive and risky surgery just because he "likes them bigger".

cherryspositive · Answer

I feel like my boyfriend wishes my boobs were bigger too. He often tries to “motterboat” them, and it just turns out awkward because my boobs aren’t big enough for that. I know guys out there that would love my boobs sexually and prefer them to be smaller - this isn’t him, even tho he doesn’t say it, we just click in other ways that’s why I stay with him.

Meninist · Answer

Ask him how he would feel if you told him his penis could be a little bigger.

torken · Answer

what an asshole.  is he going to hang around after you get old and saggy? or will he leave to go be that creepy middle aged man chasing 20 year olds? dont put up with that, B's are great

steveguitar · Answer

Isn't that bitch slap territory? Orget so angry and turn into the hill then pick up a car and throw it at him

Tohhru · Answer

Introduce him to bigger dick pills so he'll know how you feel

InfoBot · Answer

Tell him that he needs a penis extension but should probably wash it before he goes for a consultation because it smells like rotting ass.

lolidontgetit · Answer

Do what you truly want to. Not to be a negative Nancy, but if you break up, all you have left is yourself. Will you be okay having the boobs? Will it remind you of him?

worldscolide · Answer

Not really important though I see it being the same as shaming someone cause they are short or have a small penis. All incredibly wrong.. I'd tell him how you feel about it

Cuteusernamehere · Answer

If YOUR not happy with them then I'd let him pay for it. And then dump him 😂

SarahsSummer · Answer

If "He wants to spend the rest of his life with me" but only if your boobs are bigger, He doesn't REALLY want to spend the rest of his life with YOU.

sam3324 · Answer

Leave him, don't change yourself to make someone else happy no matter who they are. If you do give in to his demands where does it stop, before you know it you won't be you anymore you'll be someone else

mike12b · Answer

I don't think it matters what he thinks it's his opinion, how much do you want it done. You have to do things for you not to make someone else happy if he loves you truly he will be ok with you and love you for who you are not what you look like.

Obfuscate · Answer

at the minimum, i would explain why that was a stupid thing to say...

Anonymous · Answer

Do what YOU want to do with your body, after all it is your body and not his. If he can't accept that it's his problem. If he loves you that much he'll support your decision.

Anonymous · Answer

A Real Man Accepts Your Boobs For What They Are, Natural & Regardless Of Size...
Fake Boobs Are A Huge Turn Off, They Look Fake, Feel Fake, They Are Just That, Fake...
I Love Small Boobs, B, A, AA, AAA, Flat Chested, SIZE DOES NOT MATTER...
DON’T DO IT...

PinkandSparkles · Answer

I wouldn't let anyone else influence my decisions. If it's something you want and he's willing to pay for it then by all means. Do it for you though.

silverqueen · Answer

What an ass. Lol tell him to get a dick enlargement surgery first.

SOOCute · Answer

I would feel the exact same as you. If he doesn't love you for who you are, then I don't think he really loves you. You do you girl!!

supersteve33 · Answer

Quality over quantity. I would rather have great shape than just size. I have been with girls who are A cup all the was to DD and I prefer smaller and better shaped than big

acooke-13 · Answer

I would tell him how rude he is, and say that if he doesn't like my boobs how they are, leave.

struggleslice · Answer

I would dump him. If he's trying to push his ideals onto you now then he clearly won't be satisfied in the future.

houstongirl26 · Answer

I would never change anything about my body for a man. The fact that he'd even make that comment would be enough for me to end it with him

heeeeeresJOHNNY · Answer

As long as they aren't smacking your heels they are fine hun. Im sure they are beautiful. Fuck your boyfriend

Canuck37 · Answer

Tell him that he should get penis augmentation, because you like it bigger. Be willing to pay for it so that he'd consider doing it.

Glue-Sniffer · Answer

Openly dump him. Also get the money for the procedure before u dump him and spend it on bras instead.

brellca1502 · Answer

If you are satisfied with the way your body looks, then you should never make any changes just because someone else told you so.

Freddy9 · Answer

It's a matter of preference, I'd rather go with a natural girl, even if her tits are as small as a lemon

Smilestri · Answer

IF HE really loves u he should accept u as is.. don’t do it... today it’s this tomorrow it will be something else...

Repa33 · Answer

Screw him. Tell him to start buying penis enlargement pills. You could suffer from back pain, infection, scarring, deformities and more

Syrian_survivor · Answer

He's not the right guy, he doesn't love you for who you are Red flag, dump him right away I loved my ex even though she was a bit overwieght, i loved her personality

devilman666 · Answer

In my opinion, size isn't important. Personally I actually prefer smaller breasts, I think C cup is the best.

RasmusAiken · Answer

Tell him it's something you might consider doing some day (married) but for now you are very comfortable with your 34B's (great, by the way IMO).

HornetS · Answer

If you want to, go ahead, but don't feel pressured. If that's a deal breaker, he doesn't really love you.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah, I wouldn't be dating someone who'd ask me to get surgery if I were you. However, then again, I am not you.

MatthewJ42 · Answer

Have you had children yet? Having a kid will wreck havoc on your tits... Wait until after you have kids to get the boob job.

BoySittingOnTheMoon · Answer

If I was you, I would dump him without hesitation. If he truly loves you, he wouldn't say this to you.

EastCoastChick · Answer

Should %100 be your choice, it’s a lot of money to waste if you don’t really want implants.

Shelina77 · Answer

Evenif he talks future with you, changing you in general isn't a form of love. If he truly loves you, he loves you as the person you are.

maarky · Answer

That's really disrespectful it he doesn't like them oh well 🤷🏽‍♀️if you love you boob size then why change what you like 🤦🏽‍♀️

CandacePerry · Answer

Dump he just sounds like a jerk that don't cares about you. Do not play mind games.

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