My boyfriend openly told me to get breast augmentation, what should I do? (Page 3)

[Anonymous]

I understand. I would feel insulted as well. He has no say over your body. Why would you have to undergo a surgery just because he (or anybody that is not yourself!) has a fetish? You can tell him that you'll get breast augmentation if he gets penis augmentation too ;) Otherwise, there won't be no deal.

[keenybmr]

That's fucking immature of him. Wow. You should threaten to leave him if he ever says that again.

[cosmicc]

Never change anything about yourself for anyone unless its for yourself! If he can't get over it then dump him and fund someone who appreciates your breast size.

Me tho.. Id be petty and tell him I like bigger dicks and to get his dick enlarged permanently if he wants me to get bigger boobs.

[rsstanford]

I would leave. If someone can’t like you for you then what’s the point? Never change who you are from a guy who is most likely a season. Never give someone power over you. There are tons of guys who will accept you for who you are. You need to love who you are, and accept that you’re beautiful Just the way you are.

[JZ909]

If you had asked him his opinion, I would say what he said is fair game. I don't believe in criticizing people for their thoughts. If you didn't ask him, well, I have two sisters and I would be worried about them if they were dating a guy like that (and I would hate his guts).

[kashmenon]

Anyone who says change yourself for them is not fit for you. Didn't he look at ur breast size when he "fell in love" with you? Size is important and it is not something that can be asked of a woman to do, this is something that should have been looked into when u were asked out. You can't go and ask him to increase his size correct? Even though that can be done now. I'm sure size is important to you as well. Simple. Im sorry for being blunt. But u did ask the opinion of a guy

[SpaceFungus-07a]

If appearance in so important to him that he's telling you to get surgery, STAY AWAY! He's a superficial jerk. If you're lucky your marriage will last long enough for you to start losing your looks, at which point he'll dump you for a younger woman. But I wouldn't count on that much even.

[Sc0rpy]

That sounds offensive from him, look my friend, when you love someone you accept every detail of him/her, mentally and physically and that is what you should say to him, he may have another point of view so you two should talk about it, in my opinion you should do what you see better for you, and since you said you haven't seen a problem with your size , then you should keep it the same, not to mention breast augmentation has some side problems with some cases, anyway, show him a piece of your mind but without a fight 😁

[BrianKang]

If he's trying to get you to change your body in anyway that you don't want to then he's an asshole. If you want them done that's up to you but he has no right to try to make you do it for his own preference.

Breast size in not important to maintaining a relationship so he's just being selfish. Don't let him change your mind if you don't want it done and if he is super persistent then you deserve someone better who will be happy with you just as you are.

[jamesguy989]

I mean.. I don't really know much about augmentation, I don't know how long it lasts or how expensive it is to upkeep them.. But all I will say is that they look.. Pretty great.

Especially when you're in your 30's and things start to go downhill, which is why I wonder how the upkeep is over decades. If he's willing to pay for it, I don't see a downside to that. If guys had the option to get a bigger dick paid for by their SO, I'm pretty certain 95% of them would.

[Brokenheartedx]

Tell him you’ll get your breasts done around same time he gets a penis enlargement..

Because seriously nobody should change who they are to please someone else.. he wants big tits he either gets the implants done on himself or go gets someone who has big breasts either natural or fake..

[DarthLadyKiller]

Make sure he was not joking and if he was serious, tell him "UP YOURS!"
Ever seen the film Napolean Dynamite when she calls him thinking he sent a breast augmentation salesman to get her? She says, "I don't need herbal enhancers to feel good about myself. And if you are so concerned, why not try taking some yourself?"

[lotv56]

Eww leave him! Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone like that? You are young now and he wants you to get bigger boobs? can you imagine when you are old and you skin becomes saggy, is he going to make you get botox or cheat on you with someone young?

[Astoriana]

If you want to get a boob job, then get one.

But don’t do it to please him. Do it to please yourself. If you’re going to go through all of the pain and suffering of surgery and drainage tubes and possible nerve damage, it should be something that you actually want.

[VegetaSSB]

Well if they like them bigger, He should just break up with you and find someone who fits his taste, or accept you by what you are, don´t do it for this fucking egotistical man, he doesn´t deserve it, and no men would ever deserve this, honestly a B is perfectly fine by me, in fact what does count more about boobs are nipples, because they are the most erogenous zone after the pussy, so fuck him.

[wondluv27]

I wouldn't give a fuck. a dude should love u for your personality whatsoever. go ahead and ask him " if i was too fat or too skinny would u still want a future with me" . A man isn't and shouldn't make his woman feel insulted about her body and shouldn't encourage her to change it. he should tell her that she is perfect. amd if he doesn't see that in you. he isn't worth it

[sawno]

Most sane men would say no to your question by design because they should love or accept the entirety of who you are. The word too implies its to much to handle such as being obese and if your partner changes that drastically from who you fall in love with its logical to walk out. Dont get me wrong by any healthy margin it should not be an issue but if the girl changes a large amount as implied with the word too part of the relationship which involves sexual exclusivity and sexual attraction can no longer be fullfilled.

So yes you should find a man who loves you for who you are, but any truthful person would admit he would walk away when you are no longer the person he fell for.

[wondluv27]

he should have fell for you in the beginning because of your personality not your body. and if your personality didn't change i am pretty sure he still loves you. your boobs didn't get smaller from the day he loved you until now. so what in the world would give him an excuse to want to change something about you!!

[lollipop431]

Even if he's a freak for big boobs, firstly, if he loves you, he should accept all your "flaws" and things that may not be the way he imagines them. Secondly, don't let anyone, EVER, tell you what to do with your body unless you feel the need to do it for yourself.

[rusty1333]

Wow he sounds really shallow. Yes I like nice D breasts but I also love nice smaller a and b Cup breasts. I would never tell any woman she needed augmentation. If it was your request I would support it but not demand you do it. Would be like telling to get a dick implant. I say tell him no, and he gets pussy about then tell him to fuck off and move on!

[veronicalynn]

I would definitely not marry the guy. I would probably end it. He is trying to change you and that's wrong. He knew what was up when y'all got together and it's completely wrong of him to even suggest such a thing. Your perfect just the way you are! Don't ever let anyone tell you your not!

[Mexicoman101]

I wouldn't respond very well to my partner dictating me to get body-altering surgery. You should stand your ground. If he doesn't like your tits, there are people who will.

It can have some importance, but isn't That important to me. I'm personally more into butts, but sometimes a nice rack can compensate for like a flat chest. I think small breasts can look nice too, sometimes it comes down to shape.