My boyfriend openly told me to get breast augmentation, what should I do? (Page 4)

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I need your opinion. I have never felt any less of a woman just because of my breasts size (34B) until my boyfriend openly tells me that he’s trying to influence me to have breast augmentation because he likes them bigger. I didn’t know how to react then but I really feel insulted. He wants to spend the rest of his life with me and even talks about marriage and future together but the fact that he told me that, I was taken aback. He’s even willing to pay for it just so I’d consider getting augmentation.

Ladies, what would you feel if you were on my shoes?
Men, is size really important?

Pink2000 · Answer

Then he should’ve got someone with bigger tittis. If he can’t accept you as you are then you don’t need him.

scooogy · Answer

Ask him if he heard of a new guy being interested in you

TheFlak38 · Answer

So he wants to spend the rest of his life with you and you feel insulted because he was honest with you. Right. I think the guy deserves better. You should break up.

Mrblueballs42 · Answer

Tell the idiot to shut up. Sorry but its your body and your happy with what you got. Besides getting them bigger affects the womans back or can be very uncomfortable if they keak or fail.

Dre_808 · Answer

If that's something you want to do for yourself. I don't think you should do something like that unless you want it for yourself. Since you will be the one who has to be in pain and live with it.

jdrrichmond · Answer

It's not important and I'd tell him to go pound sand. How long have you been together? He's asking you to change your body (which is shitty) and it's surgery.

doogo · Answer

Not really, If he likes fake tits tell him to move on. The thing is about getting bigger tits is in most cases they have to be redone every certain amount of years. To costly for fakes

sidvt · Answer

No be urself if anyone loves truly they accept their own partner as they are

HamAndCheese · Answer

He kinda sounds like an asshole, and I'd ditch him. This is a bad sign.

lovebird007 · Answer

Well if they fit in his hand then they should be big enough, you should not get your breast Augmentated because when you become pregnant with his child your breasts will get bigger by 2-4 sizes naturally because they will fill with mothers milk...

SnowWhite13 · Answer

I’d dump a man over that. You want a girl with bigger boobs? Cool. Go find one.

BeowulfTheMighty · Answer

I've never particularly cared about breast size. I care a little bit more about the fact that I've got breasts infront of me. Side note - You say you're size 34, 34 what?

monkeynutts · Answer

Don't do it, tell him to get cock augmentation first, tell him he needs pearling.

EQisKEY · Answer

If he's paying, who cares, you'll love what it does for your subconscious confidence whether you admit it or not and he'll be happier than you've ever seen him... sounds like a win-win with the right perspective

lurikatia · Answer

Mmm if he want bigger breast... Then he get to have larger dick too To be fair Or bigger muscles

InTimoreDei · Answer

There's nothing wrong with 34B. Any bigger would look so out of proportion...  He should take a hike.

Dukesy90 · Answer

As long as their in good shape and your nipples are nice you should be fine. Most guys I know have that opinion.

gwail · Answer

If he is willing to pay for it get it. Then dump him.

jessica998877 · Answer

Make ur own decisions... do what u want... don’t make that kind of decision because of him

Berethor · Answer

You should reconsider if you really want to be with a guy like that.

LiamSaw · Answer

A 34B is perfect and fake boobs are gross... this guy doesn't love you, he sounds like a bit of a selfish jerk.

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Well, I like big boobs, but only when they're natural. I'm sure you look lovely just as you are. You should tell him you think his "gentleman sausage" is too small. Simples...

ReasonCalm · Answer

No stay natural! Why would you let someone poke your boobies and put all kinds of crazy stuff in there... Especially if it's not your own decision! Tell him to buy you some push up bras haha.

jazgnagey1 · Answer

Yes as a girl with big breast i can honestly say it is really important to them. Ever guy I've ever been with has used them as a pillow a stress ball etc

B8527 · Answer

What!!! Don't let him influence your like that. If he wants a big boobed girl he should find one, but if he's serious about you, then he should appreciate you as you are.

chameleon3081 · Answer

It's not about what he wants, it's about what you want. If you are happy with your breasts, then he needs to accept every part of you, without the augmentation.

Jisoo_lover5683 · Answer

Doesn’t sound like someone I’d want to spend the rest of my life with. If he loved you, he wouldn’t care. Breasts are beautiful no matter how itty bitty.

rain_maker112 · Answer

He wanna break up. Can ft. Say the words so he hurt you instead

gps181 · Answer

I think he (or any person for that matter) has every right to ask. It's up to you get them augmented. If both of you can't reach an amicable decision then I guess you're not compatible. Communication is key.

rapfan107 · Answer

Tell him you'll do it if he has a penis enlargement sergury and a lobotomy

GodHatesKaitlin · Answer

Don't do that. I would be upset if my girlfriend asked me the same thing too.

kreativekilla · Answer

U should probably get Breast Augmentations then! Lol! I mean that is, if u are trying to keep him happy! Haha

Sir_Diamond_Nipples · Answer

You do what you want with your body. You can take his opinion into consideration if you like. But at the end of the day it's your body. Your choice.

WhereAmI · Answer

Sounds like you need a new boyfriend. He apparently wants to trade up to something better whether your the upgrade or someone else.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him he needs dick augmentations as you walk out the door and never come back

vald9inches · Answer

refuse he is an asshole and doesn't like you for who you are naturally. Any Man with experience hates fake breasts with a passion!!

TheWombRaider · Answer

Fuck if i see this fucking post 1 more time... Then tell him he needs a fucking bigger dick ur the chick own that shit...

Anonymous · Answer

Get the breast augmentation. Stop being such a selfish whore. Your boyfriend loves big titties and yours are tiny and unattractive. If he will spend the rest of his life with you tgen you should defo make it worthed for him.

BillyB4 · Answer

I think you should tell him to piss off for saying that. I think telling someone they need surgery is just extremely rude and insensitive

EclipseTheWolf200 · Answer

Don’t do it for him. If YOU want that then sure, you do you, but if he tells you to then only do it if you want, don’t do it to make him happy.

pinayfit · Answer

Do not ever get into a relationship where you have to stop being who you are to be half of a couple.

Rajat8979 · Answer

It's your decision completely. But I would suggest against it.
If you're comfortable with em, donot go for the implants or stuff.
He might like them bigger but that doesn't mean he shall ask you get Breast augmentation.

MrMilti · Answer

Tell him, if he wants bigger breasts, he should get them himself and throw him out.

Diellon · Answer

It's not important at all... if he says that he doesn't truly appreciate and accept who you are if he really loves you semd wants to spend the rest of his life with you why would he want to change someone he loves

old-guys-rule · Answer

Tell him you'll get bigger breasts when he gets a bigger dick.

CountrySoul · Answer

I dont feel breat size is all that important. I like them big and small, but actually have a preference for smaller breast.

Next time he brings it up perhaps you should jokingly suggest he gets a pump to make himself bigger.

caprogers · Answer

Dump him and find someone who appreciates you the way you are.

ABhishekhh · Answer

For men size is really important. If i were you i would have done it as all men fall for breast.

Dallsimo · Answer

Size doesn't matter! Its the look of it that matters! And also that the woman is comfortable with her breast! ;)

ThatWeirdDude · Answer

That's not a good sign, if he wants you to change your physical appearance just for his satisfaction then I would end it right then and there

Yellowstar · Answer

My ex asked me this too i know how you feel, notice I said ex there

Ghostskull · Answer

I think everybody else are right. If your boyfriend really loves you he should accept you just the way you are and how you look. If he can't do that then he doesn't deserve you.

Anonymous · Answer

You should consider whether it's wise dating such a superficial person. I don't think it's wise. He might get even worse once you get older.

That2kKid21 · Answer

No, I don't think it's important. He's a dick for asking that. I don't know anything about him, so it's up to you, but based off what you typed, I would leave him.

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Yo why do males alwaysss think they can suggest something so disgusting to a women? Dump that jerk

adamjanovic · Answer

If he wants you to get it so bad tell him he has to pay for it.

Merely · Answer

I hate boob jobs. I rather have small natural breasts than fake big ones.

jessicarosen · Answer

He might not be worth it. It was completely rude, especially if he does not apologize.

doomguy1994 · Answer

I would keep your natural tats.. Over time the fake ones have problems.. Up to you

WillyIXX · Answer

Find a new b/f. If your happy with your body, guess what... it's your body. Not his.

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