I feel like my boyfriend doesn't "know" me and doesn't take time to. What should I do?

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I feel like my boyfriend doesn't really understand my personality? I'm a really shy, sensitive girl, but I know myself very well & still take the time to be confident.

My boyfriend will do things like, be on his phone a lot when we're with friends, blow off plans a lot, not really talk to me much, and go on vacations all the time with his friends and not me. He does text me every day. We probably meet once or twice a week but he's cool with that; he's definitely like an "alpha".

I'm really shy so it's hard for me to speak up about things sometimes, but how do I get him to "know" me? Like, after the first month he never really asked anything about my personality. It was like, after the first month, he was done putting in effort and that is how the relationship would be. He seems 100% happy. I kind of feel like we rushed into dating? Like, I usually take a few months to open up to someone bc I'm shy, but he was okay with starting immediately. I brought this up too, and he disagreed, thought we were friends.

I really liked him at beginning, but I'm starting to feel his personality isn't what I thought. I'm not sure what to do? Thanks for help.
I feel like my boyfriend doesn't "know" me and doesn't take time to. What should I do?
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