Ok ok. I know I’m a bad person before you even know the situation. The quick version, i met a man (13 years older then myself) almost 2 years ago. We became best friends very fast due to our personality’s meshing so well. About 4 months into our friendship he told me he had feelings for me, i had the same and an affair began. He attempted to leave her once but ultimately didn’t. He says he stays for his kids as he grew up in a broken home. We have tired to end things many times throughout the year and 4 months we have been sleeping together but we both get depressed and are so attached we always run back. He is very unhappy and openly admits that their relationship has gone down and that they have grown apart and become different people. He doesn’t want to destroy his home but won’t let me go. Our love for one another is so deep it’s crazy, neither of us have experienced anything like it. We both believe we are twin flames and that we have a connection that is rare and special. Problem, he won’t make the move to leave. I have tried to live without him and it makes me miserable, it does the same to him. What do i do? Please help.

Girl stop. You are completely out of pocket.

Hookup, next lifetime, when the coast is clear.

This post just got worse and worse.

Your the mistress he will never leave her.

he's not your soulmate. leave him alone.

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Girl stop. You are completely out of pocket.

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Hookup, next lifetime, when the coast is clear.

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He will just leave you too.

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This post just got worse and worse.

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You should stop and get help.

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Your the mistress he will never leave her.

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  How could you ever trust a man who would cheat with you.
  
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nice job being a whore

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move on, please.

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That poor wife.

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he's not your soulmate. leave him alone.

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Just move on and chill him

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You leave him alone.

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  I have tired, never works he always comes back
  
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  Doesn't matter. You can ignore him.
  
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  I wish it was that easy
  
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  It is. Do you want to be the reason that he gets a divorce and his kids have to go through that? If he's cheating on his wife, what makes you think that he won't cheat on you?
  
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dumb troller

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You are mentally ill

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U in deep shit...

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Never gonna happen

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What?

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Please don't

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What?

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just fuck, nevermind

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Shame on you!!!

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Just dream

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