Is this a good way to leave my wife?

[Anonymous]

Okay, I have made a decision and decided that I can't be with my wife anymore. She wants kids and I don't think that I want them. However, the main reason I can't be with her is that her sexual history bothers me way too much. She had sex with 25 guys before me and I lost my virginity to her at 20. I can't take her sexual history anymore, I thought I could handle it but I realized that I just can't handle it. Also, none of the guys she fucked before me were boyfriends so there is that. I just can't take it anymore and I realized that I can't just have sex with just one woman my whole life and I need to go out there and have sex with a bunch of diffrent women. Now I do love my wife but not enough to want to spend the rest of my life with her or even continue this realtionship. I really am only staying with her because she has sex with me at least twice a day. If it wasn't for sex I would have left her by now. I used to be really in love with her and felt that I could work past her sexual history but I dont feel like I can do it anymore. I feel confident enough that I can score with other women and I have even talked with a girl I know from college who I used to make out with before I meet my girlfriend about having sex with each other since she is moving to NYC. Now I haven't told her about the fact that I am going to leave her. We are going to Paris in January for our 5 year wedding anniversarry and I plan on leaving her right after the trip. I have made living arrangements and I plan on telling her we dont have to get divorced right away but I can't be with you anymore. I know she is going to start sobbing uncontrabble so I am going to leave her two thousand dollars so she can go shopping and try to calm her down. I mean she had sobbed uncontroablle before when I suggested giving me a hall pass to let me cheat on my old high school girlfriend. She is a really great person and loves me so much and I feel awful about it but we just aren't meant to be.

[shanshu]

Wow you are a bout to leave who sounds like the perfect wife because of her sexual background and just so you can go screw other women.

Sounds like you are doing the right thing because she does deserve better.

A spending spree isn't going to make her feel better, no matter how much you give her.

You are going to make her feel like shit, I mean the woman besides being a lovely wife also gives you sex twice a day. Most married men would be lucky to get it one a week or month.

She's going to wonder what the hell she has done wrong.

If you do break up with her I'd suggest just saying it's about having kids and leave the rest or you are going to shatter her.

[OlderAndWiser]

1. You made a solemn promise to remain with her forever and now you are saying, "I said it but I really didn't mean it." How does that make you feel about yourself?

2. You knew her history before you got married and you have remained married for five years. This sounds like a convenient excuse so you can blame herself instead of yourself.

3. You are bothered by her history but you want to leave her so you can go do the same thing? You know what that's called, right?

[Anonymous]

Well if you divorced your wife or cheated for this reason you are not a guy I would date if I were single. Sounds like you are to abandon the best thing on your life because you feel the grass is greener on the other side.

[Sparkie460]

Why bother celebrating your 5 year anniversary if you're just going to leave her?

[misogynistic_pig]

No, prostitutes are not for marriage.

[In_Trance]

There is no good way.

[barn_stormer]

don't go to Paris. save the money.