How can I make him leave his girlfriend before it gets more serious with her, like engagement?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy I've met whos charming and incredible, but has a girlfriend. However this relationship started a month ago, as he told me he has known her for about 6 weeks now. Both of them are quite impulsive as he thinks in proposing to her this soon. However we get along amazingly well and he told me that he doesn't see himself having kids with her, but kind of wants to get married. Also, he would text me every time, apologize when he does wrong and would be very attentive. What should I do? I try to be a good friend and telling the odds of a successful marriage after 6 weeks of knowing each other but I don't know. I really want him for me and I'm sure he feels something about me.

[HollyK21]

I wlll never, ever support or encourage destroying someone else’s relationship for your own gain, because I am absolutely positive you wouldn’t want that done to yourself. You had ample opportunity to confess your attraction and you chose not to for one reason or another. Now you’ve missed your chance, so please accept that rather than do something so incredibly selfish and hurtful. Flirting is one thing, but if he wanted to be with you, then you’d be in her spot right now but you’re not. So my advice is patience. If they break up then go for it, but don’t try sabotaging a relationship, karma never misses and you’d get a big dose.

[Jazzy54]

Imagine you were his fiancée and you found out he was messing around with another woman. You find out he’s been telling her that he doesn’t see himself with you. How would you feel? Just think about it. In the meantime, please don’t meddle in their relationship.

[RealMarek]

Red flag! If he leaves her for you, he can leave you for someone else. He’s impulsive. That’s a bad attribute for a husband and father. Sounds like a hard pass to me.

[NuitBlanche]

Right

[In_Trance]

you can't and you don't want to.
if he does it for you, he'll do it to you

[NotInterestedSorry]

What is wrong with you? Stop trying to break up someone else's relationship just because you want him for yourself

[Anonymous]

why would you even want someone who was probably willing to cheat on his girlfriend in the first place with you? gross. he's just not into you... leave him be. this is not a very attractive trait you have.