We used to talk a good hour a week on the phone, and text some, and really for months now, since maybe sometime in the fall even, the communication has been really bad. I called a few weeks ago and she picked up instantly and insisted to me that she isn't ignoring me (I didn't accuse her of that), but she said it, and has been very busy, her friend has been sick, etc... has said that we can talk the next week a few times or another day and we never actually do... I expect I will hear from her in the next week or so anyway even if I don't reach out again because she teaches an adjunct class and I did a guest lecture on ZOOM for them last time around. I've made it very clear to her that I am interested, and a few times she was receptive to me coming and spending a week together and all that, but it never seems to happen for various reasons. I have suggested to her that our communications has not been great lately, and that doesn't seem to have sunk in.
So if she reaches out I am thinking I'll be like "I am happy to give a talk to the class again, and I know you have had a lot going on, but I do wish we had been communicating more these past several months, and I think it's important as we've talked almost a year to nail down a solid week in late spring/early summer for us to actually spend time together. If it is something you still want to have happen too"
Some background, we met on The League, she's divorced and has two kids (they are only with her some weeks), she's 55, lives in LA when I am in between NY and Philly. I like older women, I can't help it, so yeah, but anyway, I just want a chance to be her boyfriend, which I've made clear to her a few times, and I don't appreciate the flakiness, and I am losing patience.
So if she reaches out I am thinking I'll be like "I am happy to give a talk to the class again, and I know you have had a lot going on, but I do wish we had been communicating more these past several months, and I think it's important as we've talked almost a year to nail down a solid week in late spring/early summer for us to actually spend time together. If it is something you still want to have happen too"
Some background, we met on The League, she's divorced and has two kids (they are only with her some weeks), she's 55, lives in LA when I am in between NY and Philly. I like older women, I can't help it, so yeah, but anyway, I just want a chance to be her boyfriend, which I've made clear to her a few times, and I don't appreciate the flakiness, and I am losing patience.
