How do I make her feel bad for kind of ignoring and not really giving a care even though I do for her?

[Anonymous]

she's a friend and I've started to like her a lot, but I feel she doesn't reciprocate the same emotion even though that's a lot to ask, she takes so long to respond to texts sometime hours, days I'm pissed off even as a friend, and I think I should give up my infatuation with her and move on?

[SueShe]

You want to make her feel bad?

Then you are not a friend because friends want to make others feel good and not feel bad. You should realize that if you have feelings, those are seldom reciprocated. My suggestion to you is to forget about a person that you want to make feel bad because she does not act the way YOU want her to act.

I also take days to answer because 99% of those messages that I received are have not been requested by me. They are annoying more than anything else.

You may care for her in a way but not enough to allow her to answer at her pace. Did it ever cross your mind that she is busy or perhaps, like me, she does not feel like answering messages that she did not request in the first place?

You should move on and find someone that shares your views. Good luck.

[Asker]

thanks, it makes a lot of sense what you're talking about but it isn't like i want her to suffer it's just that i've tried to get over the fact that she takes a while to respond but it never gets easier to just wait hours for a response, even in the times we've hanged out it's been a lot of fun for both of us and then again i feel dejected

i'm sorry like u said i'm perhaps looking a bit too deep into a relationship that's not really there

[SueShe]

You know, not everyone is a fast responder. I take my time because I have a lot on my mind and that answering is perhaps not on the top of my priority list.

You could ask her if she would prefer that you don't text her so often. Perhaps she will get the message.

[slatyb]

By asking this question you are telling us that she is right to avoid you. She doesn’t return your feelings. Get over it, find someone else.

[Guy13]

You should speak to her. You can’t fofcc CC e someone to love yiu

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

which of course proves there's no such thing as "just friends"

GIRLS, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS JUST FRIENDS, GET THE FUCK OVER IT

[Asker]

so u mean i should just give up and focus on myself?

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Yeah

[Asker]

how would you say i should get over it, like what stuff should i do?

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

Drop her

[Asker]

yeah but like how? what activities do u suggest to help move on?

[MiseriaCantareAFI]

find someone else

[Anonymous]

Try talking to her first, and see if that helps.

[Asker]

i'm scared i'm gonna lose whatever friendship i have if i confess

[Opinion Owner]

You must never be afraid to tell a girl how you feel.

[Asker]

well I would meet her almost her almost everyday because of classes, so if the moment arrives and she rejects it's going to be very awkward later on, that's why my guy i don't know what to do

[Opinion Owner]

Then remain silent if you're to afraid to talk to her.