What is your love language? Is your love language what you least received in your childhood? (Page 2)

[Calixar]

You should read the book this originally comes from. Your primary love language can change.

[Massageman]

Mine is "acts of service", then "Physical touch", then "words of affirmation".
My wife is "words of affirmation" tied with "quality time".

[captain_voidwalker]

This is all the biggest bunch of horse shit I've ever read. You want to speak the language of love then check the picture.

[Gringothegango]

I would say : Quality time and speaking truly with the heart.

[Lyndsielee666]

Well it’s definitely not physical touch because I was abused 😬

[Anonymous]

I do acts of service, words of affirmation and physical touch myself and like to receive words of affirmation and physical touch. I have been touch deprived my entire life and am physically sensitive

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

No. My primary love languages are physical touch and quality time.

My parents were outright obnoxious about affection and muscling their way into my life.

[crossdressingrihno]

Touch and quality time are both very important to me in a relationship

[Heartache0405]

I don’t have a love language. I’m emotionally and physically unavailable

[annabananna]

Mine would be them all but mostly acts of service. Now that I think about it I didn’t get that much as a child so yeah.

[rabbitzzz]

While all is important 4 is the most for me. I can't feel loved by stranger. I had all the time in the world. To spend together.

[anton_dee]

Tbh I didn't receive any of them in excess. Extremely few situations I got support from fam. But no hard feelings. They may have had their reasons and I have forgotten and forgiven...

[JuanVelasco2]

I give gifts, only to people who really matter to me, I mean, my grandmother and my aunt.

[Jay3344]

I don’t understand this, all of these are parts of love, why limit yourself?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Some people communicate or show love differently, and some like to receive love differently than others.
For example, someone might not feel loved if they receive gifts, they would feel more loved if they are spending time with that person instead. That is a love language… It isn’t about limiting yourself to these parts of love, it’s about what makes them feel comfortable and what they prefer.

[Shark_61695]

I hate receiving gifts and of these, gifts seems to be the only type I recieved in childhood.

[Anonymous]

quality time is very high for me however my idea of quality time is physical activity ie. Athletic challenges or something that generally takes focus away from me. Still trying to figure out that one.

[Anonymous]

Mine is physical touch. Quality time was probably the one I received the least of due to my family working like crazy just to survive.

[Anonymous]

The closest thing to love I had in my childhood was my mom buying me ice cream after pretending she didn’t know her boyfriends were fucking me. Ice cream still makes me sick.

[Zygum]

My love language

[TallAnon]

I never got these love language things, is it what you want to receive or what you give?