My boyfriend's friends are snobby and quiet when I try to talk to them at parties. My boyfriend ends up ignoring me. Is this a red flag?

[Anonymous]

When I'm with his friends at parties he doesn't usually pay attention to me and just talks to his friends instead. I only have a good social time when we're with church friends or his female friends. Otherwise my boyfriend acts like I'm invisible

[Anonymous]

Oh no that’s a red flag. I’ve had this done to me before by a guy that was an evil mf! I called him out on doing this and his response was disgusting. I did not want to speak to him after that and he got even more upset. A1 gaslighter

[Helotome]

Talk to him about your feelings and see how he responses. Maybe he didn't notice that he is being distance lately

[Luggit]

Sounds like he either has to grow up a little bit more, or he could be a player, or your value to him isn't worth as much as he claims it to be.

[Jim___Blakes]

Only when his friends are around? I think that's not a red flag. But let him know that you get bored while doing that

[Asker]

Does it mean he doesn't value me?

[Jim___Blakes]

If that's the only case when he ignores you, he values you.

If he spend more time with you when his friends are around, his friends would think he has become as asshole. He's ignoring you just to avoid that