My boyfriend is graduating college soon and wants to get a job in another city?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is graduating college soon and will have the opportunity to go to another city for a job which he wants to. He has been offered a job in my city but I don’t think he wants to stay here. I have no option but to stay here as I have 2 years left at college. I feel kinda sad that he won’t take the job here. If he moves do you think our relationship will fall apart?

[Daniela1982]

Depends on where the job is and how often you can get together. If it is closer than farther it might not be so bad, like within a couple hours drive. If it is across the country that would be a challenge as you would have to most likely fly. I have known a couple of girls who went steady throughout high school and when it came time to go to college they went their separate ways. When you are in an across country college you tend to date people you see quite often. That's just the con of a long distance relationship. They can always fall for someone else. But honestly, if they don't have that chance to see what's out there now, they are more apt to maybe cheat and do it later. If you are in a really great relationship you might survive it intact.

[Wise4myage]

That's likely to happen. So just do your best to stay in touch, but don't be against the idea of dating other guys.

[Iron_Man]

Yes I do think so