I think not. Just in general the first time does something is when it leaves the cartoon version of their speculations to the gritty realism of memory. The contrast can shock people out of doing something a second time or it can have no impact on them whatsoever. So i say if someone cheats a second time they are a cheater for life.
Granted, that doesn't mean I think its appropriate to give them a second chance. Whoever they cheat on its understandable that relationship be over. Indeed, I would even say necissary, as ending a relationship should be something that is etched into their memory as a good reason not to cheat. But if she tells the men in her future that she cheated once and won't again, it's possible to believe her.
I don't believe that (my philosophy revolves around the possibility that people can change, however slim), but I also don't want to venture the risk. I'd rather wish her a nice life and part ways. She might change or she might not but she'll have to discover that for herself with someone else besides me.
First of all, I believe what's said about girls should also be said about guys to be fair.
You know what, I did always think once a cheater always a cheater, but this is really beginning to make me question. Nothing always has a simple answer, maybe his/her partner cheated on them first or maybe they're in the relationship for something else but really love another person.
To be honest, I really don't care if he/she would or would not cheat again. Once is enough to end the relationship then and there. If someone doesn't know how to value you, value yourself and leave.
Two things I'll say on this, No to your question but yes once a cheater always a cheater... simply not doing something ever again, doesn't make you not be one. Just like if someone murdered someone, just cause they never do it again doesn't mean they are no longer a murderer.
Always a cheater, no guarantees that she or he will or won't do it again.
Not necessarily. I wouldn't say guaranteed because there can be different circumstances. I also think people can change as they mature. Young people do stupid things.
My problem with this question is, it says "she". Both men and women can cheat.
Agree. Even if she doesn't I don't think any many looking for a long term relationship or marriage should ever take a chance on her. The guy she cheated on should have left and no one else should ever date her long term.
Hook up and leave... guys can seek that out with her but never for an LTR.
It's true for anyone really. I don't cheat and won't. I've been. Cheated on and it not only fucking hurts but it also puts you at risk for STDs so I'd never do that to someone and wouldn't tolerate it either
I donât think itâs true. I have cheated in the past when I wasnât in a bad relationship it just wasnât the right one for me. I didnât feel guilty. Now older and married and would never cheat on my husband.
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Rule #1: She will cheat. Bank on it.
Rule #2: When she cheats, it'll be your fault. No matter how good you treat her, there will be things you don't do for her, and she'll focus on those things until she craves them from someone else.
Rule #3: Finding out will be your fault, too.
Rule #4: If you take any steps to prevent her from cheating, you'll be a controlling asshole who refuses to let her live her life like an adult.
No, I don't think it's true. At least not universally. People can and do change. I can understand skepticism that people might have. This doesn't mean that people are permanently hardwired for it though.
If you have children with this person, then you should stay for their sakes. Because the court is bias toward women and you won't stand a chance. withbsaid and out of the way relationships are built on Trust. You got to Trust her more than you live her. If you feel as though you can't trust this person then Get out of the relationship. However if you have children I suggest you stay in it for their sakes
The only people that believe cheaters wonât cheat again are cheaters because there cheating Honestly there might be some character growth over time but itâs not likely.
Not only women but boys too. If they cheat once. It takes months of growth for them to learn how to have proper boundaries. Without months of practicing, learning. It will happen again
Not necessarily. Sure it can happen. But I have to believe that cheaters, men or women, can change since I cheated on my teenage years and I consider myself a loyal man today.
No. Just because someone has done something before doesnât mean and/or guarantee they will do it again.
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Almost all women have the grass is greener syndrome and will do some level of cheating at some point in life. They are only as loyal as long as it suits them.
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