I broke a 🚭 promise to my girlfriend. How to comfort her?

[Anonymous]

2 years ago I promised her that I won't smoke cig again but smoked at my friend's wedding party. Today I told her that and she got really mad.

For about an hour I apologised and tried to solve. But now she started saying she want to end this relationship.. kinda dramas..

How to react and what to do? 🥲

[Apple1996]

That's some shit she's trying to break up with you over that. It's your choice if you want to smoke or not. Don't let her control you like obviously smoking is bad but we all gotta make our own choices for ourselves and not cause someone else wants you to.

[Asker]

That's right thanks a lot

[Anonymous]

It's not just about that cigarette. She needs to tell you know what the real issues are.

[Asker]

She told I broke a promise and i don't value her

[Opinion Owner]

did you ever break other promises than this?

[Asker]

No. Just this one

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

If she wants to end the relationship for a cigarette, then you are better off without her.
My wife and I have both relapsed with smoking, drinking, and heavier stuff, and although we had fights about it we never considered breaking up for that.

[Asker]

Thank you man. Yeah but she always says that during fight

[TheReturnOfTheK1ng]

A real man never apologizes to a woman.

[Asker]

What if mistake is ours?

[Shamalien]

One cig? She wanted to end it bfor this methinks

[Asker]

Yeah 🤦

[Anonymous]

Never apologize.
Ever.

[Asker]

But what if mistake is on our side?

[Opinion Owner]

Does not matter.
Never ever apologize.
Women see it as weak.

[Asker]

Oh thank you