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I really need anybody opinion about this. My boyfriend just started his business with his friends n parents. He hired me as his secretary, even i refuse at first because i didn't have experience n its not my study major. I studied art. But he convince me its an easy job n he can teach me. Beside, i was just graduated n unemployeed that time. We thought it would be good to spending time together too.
At first, i got an easy tasks n he handled the hard. So i was fine. But the business was getting busier n my boyfriend worked harder n rarely at office. He just send text for me to did this n that, if i confused he told me to lookin example of letter he filed on cupboard or laptop. This is the problem, my works wasn't perfect n he often had to fix it. But he said its okay, coz he trusted me.
The pressure comes from his friend, of course i was his secretary too. And he can't accept my works n nvr appreciate the right one. He always make a big fuss of my mistakes n complain to my boyfriend, other employee, n my boyfriend's parents. He said my boyfriend should hire the real secretary, not an artist!
My boyfriend was cool at first. So, i wasn't worried. But i think his friend had brainwash him. So someday he asked me "do you need help? It seems the tasks is too much for you, i will hire someone to help. what do u think?" I was really getting offended n said "i dont think its really necessary, i still can handle it." He just nod and silent.
But around a week later, he introduced me to a new girl as junior secretary. My mind was like "what the hell?" Before i asked, he explained that at the meeting, his friend keeps bad mouth about me n his dad gave that idea. He also said its not so bad, she can helped my job.
At first, i got an easy tasks n he handled the hard. So i was fine. But the business was getting busier n my boyfriend worked harder n rarely at office. He just send text for me to did this n that, if i confused he told me to lookin example of letter he filed on cupboard or laptop. This is the problem, my works wasn't perfect n he often had to fix it. But he said its okay, coz he trusted me.
The pressure comes from his friend, of course i was his secretary too. And he can't accept my works n nvr appreciate the right one. He always make a big fuss of my mistakes n complain to my boyfriend, other employee, n my boyfriend's parents. He said my boyfriend should hire the real secretary, not an artist!
My boyfriend was cool at first. So, i wasn't worried. But i think his friend had brainwash him. So someday he asked me "do you need help? It seems the tasks is too much for you, i will hire someone to help. what do u think?" I was really getting offended n said "i dont think its really necessary, i still can handle it." He just nod and silent.
But around a week later, he introduced me to a new girl as junior secretary. My mind was like "what the hell?" Before i asked, he explained that at the meeting, his friend keeps bad mouth about me n his dad gave that idea. He also said its not so bad, she can helped my job.
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Well, who am i to judge? I was just worker, my boyfriend was the owner. So, my heart tried to accept n thinked positive. For a month i helped this junior secretary to adapt of job and task. But when she already dominate it all, i got fired. My boyfriend said he already defend me as he could, but the decision was comin from vote. I think that one friend already brainwash the whole team.
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My mom says to forgive him. He keeps texting me but not much sayin. Just chat good morning, good night, dont forget to eat, etc. He doesn't ask how am i doin? what am i doin now? So i dont reply anything to him, i still angry.
