This guy I like has a baby with another women and I think that’s why they got engaged.. they’ve been engaged for like 3 years. How serious is this?

[Anonymous]

I have the Hoyt’s for him. This woman also has 2 children from her ex boyfriend

[Anonymous]

For whatever reason, the bottom line is they're engaged and that won't likely change. The best way to think in this situation is "he's not available", period. Think if you were his finance and someone like you was in the picture, how would you feel? How serious is it? Serious enough to not put yourself in that situation. I wouldn't.

[Drumlin2001]

Stay out of their relationship. It's none of your business.

[LazerBean]

He's clearly not into her and will probably be single again in a few years. But I don't know why you would want a second hand loser.

[Asker]

What makes him a second hand loser? Because his girlfriend doesn’t believe in abortion?

[LazerBean]

It has nothing to do with abortion and everything to do with the fact that he is a hand-me-down from another failed long-term relationship.

[Asker]

So being in a relationship with someone from the past makes one a hand-me-down? Wow.. I’m done.

[Anonymous]

They’re serious enough for you to set your sights elsewhere, in my opinion. It probably isn’t wise to go for him anyway.

[EmmaMary]

At 106 years of age, I'm surprised you're that interested.

[Gaurav2]

😂😂

[EmbraceThePain]

I would say to find another man.

[SnakeBoop]

just move on.

[EmmaMary]

@SnakeBoop

I should think at her "age" that might be slightly difficult! 😂

[Asker]

@EmmaMary you’re a funny one.

[EmmaMary]

@on_cloud_wine

Congratulations, you got that in one! 👍🤣

[TheSpaceGnome]

Cringey.

[Anonymous]

You need to let go.