Do you think it's a man responsibility to give his girlfriend money to go out and have fun if she's broke? (Page 2)
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Responsibility? Absolutely not. Can he if he wants? Sure. But depending on the circumstances it could very easily a red flag that she can't manage her finances
No. You're a grown-ass adult. No one has to give you allowance or pocket money like you're seven years old. It's a post-COVID economy out there. Get your fat ass off the couch and go find a job.
No why? Like what´s the point in that. If she´s broke that just shows me that she might not be good at handling money.
Men can do what they want to do, if they do not wish to do something than thats fine. You make your own money and do you with it. If I want to, i will do it but if not and I feel I have a legit reason than I won't do it
A man has no financial responsibility towards his girlfriend. Come back when you're a wife and then we can talk.
🤣 May I presume that you are saying that a wife has the right to demand financial securities from her husband?
@The_Shadow_Dweller most certainly!
Can it work in reverse?
@The_Shadow_Dweller i don't believe that women are obligated to finacially support men. However, a supportive wife will help her husband if he is struggling in this area.
So its one way then.
How many percent of women do you think will not support their husband in this area? And how many who will?
@The_Shadow_Dweller i find women stupidly part with their money way more than men.
@The_Shadow_Dweller not me thiugh. But in the good days of my marriage I had no issue investing in us. It wasn't a mistake. But I know who to spend on.
No not at all. Obviously he needs to pay up if he wants to do something with her company. Otherwise she is responsible for her own luxery.
I don't think it's a responsibility, however, only a kind/nice would giver her some money to do something to lift her spirits.
I use the general rules the banks do with loans.
I'll give her money, if she can prove she doesn't need it.
Uhm.. no.
That's her responsibility. Budget your money, and don't expect to be financed by others.
Duck no… if I wanna go out I’ll take her and pay if she’s broken then she’s either not working or she’s not working hard enough.
No, also I won't date a woman who does that sort of stuff even if she's the one paying for it. When I see long painted nails and styled hair and makeup and all that extra crap on a woman, I avoid her.
It's not his "responsibility", just something nice to do once in a while.
Like everytime she ask do you think he should give her money? Everytime
No he shouldn't. It is his money and he needs to take care of his business before he uses it to pamper you. He needs to enjoy his money first. He should do it if he's your boyfriend, but not every time you ask him unless he's rich.
Yeah after awhile you have to put your foot down, but like you said, not a responsibility per se, but as the 'boyfriend' in the relationship, shouldn't it be, I dunno, kinda common to want to do something cool for your girlfriend that'd maybe make her happy? If that's not what you want, you're possibly with the wrong girl.
@Screamsgutter That's kind of what I meant. He does not need to do just it's something he should do out of love.
Only if she is willing to let him put a collar on her and walk her around on a leash in public... since he is paying for her ownership. If she wants to be an equal in the relationship, then she needs to produce her own income flow.
Nope. If she's broke that's her problem especially when you're not married. You shouldn't be running around partying or buying shit if you're broke to begin with. Get your life togheter first before spending money.
No, but he might want to help her get her hair done, etc., if he wants her to look like she just got her hair done. But it isn’t his responsibility.
The flip side of this would be if it's her responsibility to have sex with the man whenever he wants to?
No. If I am broke, I already found a way to have fun without having to spend a dime, so I would just do that and be happy.
Nope, but there are plenty of guys out there who will do that for you, they think you are whores though by the way and in fairness they are correct.
Depends if you're planning on getting married I wouldn't mind giving money to my girlfriend. But if there is no really true relationship. She also needs to learn to control her spending. And learn to live within a budget
Maybe once in a while like if she hasn't had her hair done in 6 months or so, but otherwise no.
Now i can agree with that
Tacos are awesome by the way