Spouse leaves you to be with friends when you sick?

[Anonymous]

Been married for 5 years and anytime am pregnant my first trimester is so difficult for me that I become weak and can't do anything for myself but during those times my husband would always leave me home not call to check on me and would always come home at night all this with the excuse that he can't stand it when am in pain. Am I been too demanding if I want him around? Because of that I always have to contact my mum to assist me or somtimes a neighbor.

[Anonymous]

Dang girl so sorry you have to go through this ALONE. To me... he's not worth it, but I guess to save face and to not be alone and single you gotta deal with how he treats you. Or you can always kick him to curb because you deserve so much more... and better than that

[Asker]

Thanks you. I really do deserve better but to save face as u said.

[Opinion Owner]

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[mandyfire98]

He is being incredibly selfish.

[Asker]

Thought so too

[TenkRealist]

No, that's not right. Talk to him. Tell him how you feel.

[Asker]

Tried that's when he said he did could not stand it if am in pain that's why he leaves, and that it's affecting him emotionally too.