When in a relationship, is it right or wrong to keep thinking/talking about your ex to your partner?

[Anonymous]

[HighValue]

It is bad if it continues for very long, but at first if you talk about the things you disliked about an ex or that led to ending the relationship because specific things were unacceptable to you, that can be good so they will know where you stand on certain issues and what to avoid if they want a successful relationship with you.

[Chris_7565]

It's probably a mistake to bring up your exes.
I was dating one woman who would ask me lots of questions about what things I've done. Most of my answers were all about me and my ex because we were together a long time. Eventually she told me that it upset her that I had already done so much with my ex, and she got very jealous. Even though I wasn't in that old relationship anymore. I learned that new partners don't want to hear about my ex.

[Adele_26]

Depends. If you miss your ex then yes it’s terrible and your partner doesn’t deserve that. If it’s bc certain things trigger you due to your ex leaving a negative impact (I. e. abuse), and you’re letting your partner know, then I would say it’s fine as long as you’re healing those triggers.

[SlothySlob]

To me, that means that you're not yet over him/ her.

[jahaims]

If you won't say/do something in front of your partner that you do/say without them, then it is wrong.

[GreatnessBack]

That's a question for your SO. Some people are ok with it, some are not. You have to talk to him about this.

[Philyouup]

yeah

[EdwinLivingston_]

EXTREMELY WRONG

[Intothevoid666]

Wrong definitly

[EaterPeter]

Mostly wrong

[laihh]

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