Boyfriend distance?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend are long distance but only like 2 hours but neither one of us has a car. Lately my boyfriend hasn’t been talking to me like at all, I will talk to him at the beginning of the day something but it’s always a reason he’s got to get off the phone and says he’ll call back but never does. He says the distance is getting to him and he isn’t sure of what he wants anymore. Also he says he keeps thinking about an issue that we had at the beginning of our relationship and wondering why I’m just now changing and that is another reason he doesn’t know what he wants. Anyways my question is, do you think he’s being honest or it’s something else? And If you do think he’s being honest do you think it’s fixable and if so how do I fix it.

[Anonymous]

I do think he’s being honest in this case, because LDRs just aren’t meant for everyone, especially if there’s no silver lining. Usually the idea behind this arrangement is that it is temporary, and there’s plans (not intentions) to meet, move closer together, or see each other at the very least 1-2x a month. But in you guys’ case where you don't have cars, then other modes of transportation can’t get pretty expensive depending on the frequency in which you are visiting and any need for hotels, along with activities you plan to do together, like movies where even that is about $20 a ticket. On top of these things, the general perks of having a non-LDR relationship start to weigh on a person as well. Lack of touch, or spending real time together, it’s very very hard, sometimes even depressing. With all of this being said, maybe an LDR just isn’t suited for him, and this outcome is something you had to consider before entering the relationship. I’m sorry, I know this all sounds bleak but that’s just how it goes sometimes.

[Iron_Man]

It’s simple getting a real early start take a bus at like 6 AM in the morning get to your boyfriend house do things in the area have lunch then take a bus back to your hometown that would be a great start off connection. Whatever you do absolutely no foreplay oral or sex that’s a disrespectful relationship killer

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he's sharing his concerns with you honestly. Can you move closer to each other or in together?

[Guy13]

That’s difficult…how you going to manage that…?