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1. staying in shape is healthy for me. So I'll always do it.
2. Wanting to remain attractive to my husband is an additional incentive
i always stay in shape i hate gaining weight i use to be chubby in high school since than i graduated from high school my goal to lose weight i had to go to the gym i lost 45 lbs i had to eat healthy food no junk food.
A marriage is for two and meant to be for the rest of your life. A woman should stay in healthy shape for her husband and he should as well, provided they already do it for themselves. The body changes overtime, but getting fat is a choice
Yeah especially if the husband is still staying in shape, besides it’s not healthy being overweight
Thank you someone gets it
wow you really are young and dumb. they only get back in shape when they're looking for husband number 2 after they get divorced from husband number 1 and after having husband number 1's kid that way when they bag husband number 2 they get knocked up and fat again then divorce husband number 2 get back in shape and bag husband number 3 while having two kids with two different fathers and two times the income err i mean child support
A women should stay in shape for themselves. You shouldn't do it for others My man likes me a little think with some curves not a lot like 15 20 pounds overweight ish
Both people in the relationship should. Unless a drastic life change took place such as pregnancy, physical injury causing temporary sedentary lifestyle etc.
yeah
@deez_nuts
@deez-nuts
@deeznuts
@deeznuts_
Funny fat. Fucking women
Me and my girlfriend always go. On run and work out together. We enjoy pushing one another within limits
if she wants to do it, yeah sure. but if the husband demands that without doing the same for her..
yeah no ☝❌
We all know that everything or whatever we do is for ourselves not for any other one lool there is something called subconscious guys.
No she should do it for her own well being. If a guy wants his wife to stay in shape he needs to marry a personal trainer.
I think so but I think that people should be cautious with weight comments too.
You can do whatever you want if it makes you happy minus what is obvious to me, which is, you're not hurting yourself, others or doing something ridiculously illegal lol.
to a point.
nobody likes an obsesssive gym rat.
nobody likes a pig.
I believe people should stay in shape for themselves and each other.
Yes, both the man and woman should stay in reasonably decent shape for each other, or at least do their best. It has a lot of benefits on many levels.
do you agree a man should hold down a job and make sure the family can eat and be clothed?
I think that any girl should stay in shape because she feels self confident.
Yes. But men should too.
Always be the best version of yourself for your partner.
Yeah she should, but so should the man.
I'm not marrying a man who's fit and then letting himself go becoikg fat and unattractive. No way, he has to workout and take care of himself as well.
Of course she should unless she wants him to leave or cheat. Common sense people!
first of all... I am not an insecure douchebag
second, I do not tend to agree with stupidity, so this one won't be an exception
That’s a bit harsh if your wife let herself go you’d be okay with it sounds like a jerk to me
@NathanDavis is saying facts 💯
have you ever had a girlfriend?
Not an official one I mostly just hookup but i couldn’t stay with a woman who let herself go
that explains all...
Please feel me in mr. clairvoyant
no need... chances are you will hardly ever get close to any marriage or actual relationship
So no refute , I guess you agree with me then
Why would I get married when i can just hookup I have all the best parts of a relationship without the relationship I hope I don’t get married either so thanks
you need not to worry about it, that's right
Just checking do you actually have any thoughts or opinions of your own? Or are you just gonna be a tool this entire time
my first reply was clear enough, and also on point
the fact that you're too dense to get it is a different issue, and an issue of yours, not mine
So that’s a no because you’re first reply was just insults and baseless assumptions
@NathanDavis and from the looks of the poll most people agree with me😂
be sure you're not special at this site... there is many other idiots that would of course agree with you, that is for sure
They’re idiots yet you can’t even articulate an opinion come on buddy do better than that
I clearly did and right away
and then you got all butt-hurt about it... which is understandable
@NathanDavis butthurt? My poll is doing great over a hundred people have participated and most of them agree with me 😁
I meant your life in general...
the poll is just a so-called echo chamber
like I said, douchebags do roam free here at G@G lands, there's always abundance for it
@NathanDavis you don’t even know me dude you’re weird😂
She's free to gain weight and he's free to dumb her for that reason alone if he wants to.
Just as long as he stays in shape for her. It can’t be a double standard either way.
She should stay in shape for herself... husband and family (kids) reap the benefits
Second photo is so attractive 😍😍
Yeah if you wanna bang the Michelin man
I don't know, what if she rolls over me and breaks my dick?
😂😂😂
i think you should stay in shape period... for yourself even more so than for your partner but also for your partner of course.
She should do it if she wants to, not 'for her husband'
Both husband and wife should stay in shape for themselves and one another.
I think one should only expect of others what they expect of them selves. So if one expects their partner to stay in shape they too must Be in and stay in shape. Fair is fair.
Ofcourse not, as long as its ok to cut her lifestyle in proportionate amounts. If gets to get out of shape, I get to spend less on her and what she wants.
Barring some legit health issue, both partners should 100% stay fit.
What about women just the woman
women too. women and men should both stay fit for their partners.
Not for him but for herself. If a man can’t handle a woman’s transition from being pregnant to not pregnant then he needs to get some kind of psychological evaluation because that’s some kid sh! t.
You should never take care of yourself to satisfy someone else. Gosh how tiring and draining that kind of living would be. It should come from within, you doing it for yourself because you want to.
I got news for you your life isn’t just about you
Especially if you’re married
He’s a tard
Then it has to be two, you have to stay in shape too. Motivate them to do it by inviting them to join you, do activities together even with the children. I'm sure you married your SO because you loved them and not just them physically right.
That’s stupid logic. A person doesn’t work out for the benefit of others. Also, we’re talking about a husband and wife. Not two people just randomly having sex. There’s so much more that goes into being a married couple than finding him or her fuckable. Also, the picture you used is a laughable comparison of one extreme vs another and doesn’t depict reality in any way.
Think about what you just said
What I said is the truth kid
I got news for you your life mine or anyone else’s is about themselves
Especially if you’re married
No because he married her knowing that her body would change. If he loves he he should accept her body type as it is. Love isn't about a woman's body. It's about commitment
Ehhh…yes and no.
Everyone should really stay in shape for THEIR own health.
Yes but not for vain reasons. Stay in shape because you want to be healthy and if you’re healthy you’ll live a healthy long life together. (Hopefully)
She should stay in shape for herself and her family... not just her husband.
If she does, so will I. The return of the eight pack
Not for a husband or anyone but themselves. Why would you not want to be healthy is the real question.
Both should try to remain attractive to their partner.
Not just men. Not just women.
There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to be in shape just to please her husband. As long as it is her wish and not being pushed into it.
Who came up with the idea that she was being pushed into it me or you I’ll answer it’s you that’s your mind doing that
@creampirkarl420
For everyone you date or be with make that an expectation of yours, so their is no confusion with your partner. Everyone is different in thier beliefs make yours known, problem solved.
@creampiekarl420 no one did that she was being pushed into anything. I simply said in case, I repeat, in case she is being pushed into it.
Again, I have nothing against a woman wanting to be fit just to please her husband. Is as good of a reason to be fit as any.
Don’t give a shit what you men think. Women should say in shape for herself, not for you.
If you leave her because she’s picked up some pounds well then good riddance to you.
You say that like weight isn’t controllable stop encouraging women to be unhealthy you’re evil
I’m not encouraging that, you apparently cannot read. I said women should stay in shape for herself, NOT for men like you but for THEMSELVES.
Married women
Their lives aren’t just about them so that’s a mute argument
Should be the woman’s choice and if they want to work together keeping fit it’s a good idea
I’ll be honest I love my man but I have gained a lot of weight since meeting him and he still loves me.
That’s nice but it’s not about love
you look like someone I went to high-school with. I can still tell you're beautiful, fat doesn't hide that.
@Kkstarzz96 do I really look fat
@sarahslater3738 then workout
@sarahslater3738 tubs
Omg mean
his whole demeanor about this subject if weird... why do you care if other guys wives are a certain size, just worry about your own wife
is** sorry
@Kkstarzz96 do I look fat tho
Yea you do a vegetable won’t kill you how am I mean for encouraging health
You're not encouraging shit you're judging other people's relationships when you don't even have one
Ooo. Burn!
@Kkstarrzz96 is right.
@Kkstarzz96 im judging people for living in an unhealthy manner while in a relationship
point blank you're judging news flash no one asked
@Kkstarzz96 no one asked sully to save those people either
Sully from monsters Inc?
@Kkstarzz96 No... 😂. Captain Sullenberger.
oh, whoever that is.
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/US_Airways_Flight_1549
They even made a movie about him.
https://m.imdb.com/title/tt3263904/
but surely the movie isn't better than monsters inc
@Kkstarzz96 it literally is he is the hero of Hudson portraying by Tom hanks
Mike wizowski? Do I have a fat belly?
LOL.
Absolutely, assuming that the husband is keeping himself looking good for her too.
Stay in shape for yourself, not for anyone else.
Simples...
No everyone's body is fine just the way it is and people don't need to change themselves just because their partner tells them too
she should try to be the same as first with and ditto
Both should for each other. So they can keep having crazy hot sex for as late in life as they can. Life goals
Who tf thinks like that and why don’t you think the man should stay in shape as well then. You obviously see women as your possessions instead of actual human beings. Pathetic.
The question was about women not men stop trying to flip it
The question was directed at women, not men.
Stop with the whataboutism.
@Agagagagaga thank you I hate when they do that “men do it too men should too” that wasn’t the question
All the women who said no about to be divorced in a few years 🤣
I can say over the 5 years of living with my boyfriend, I've got a very noticeable belly. I used to be very skinny, but my boyfriend is the same, I'm not lazy and he seems to love my soft bits. But that's just me.
If he stays fit for me. I stay for for him.
Its a DEAL.
Yes it’s important to stay in shape, but more importantly healthy. Being realistic that your weight will fluctuate throughout the course of your life of course.
No I don't think so. A woman should stay in shape for herself.
No but should stay in shape for herself
so she could remain healthy
I stay in shape for me. It makes me feel good, he just gets to enjoy it. But this topic, I want him to stay in shape too. It's only fair.
Marriage isn’t about fairness
If he wants me to stay in shape I expect the same from him. Show eachother off when going out.
Husband and wives are not equals
I think it's fair to want your partner to look good
Then you agree with me
I agree with both people staying in shape.
That’s not the topic
Yes but so should the husband stay in shape for his wife.