Should I kiss the guy I like on lips onn the last days of school he knows I like him but he likes another girl?

[Anonymous]

So I'm really in love with this guy I'm 13 and he is also 13 i have been liking him since the beginning of school year I did everything for him to like me. I told my bestfriend that i liked this guy but she stabbed me in the back and started liking him and dated him. the guy I like he knew I liked him but he never approached me then they broke up and me and my crush we became friends but then he said he didn't wanna be friends because he likes another girl now and he thinks that I will ruin his relationship I got really mad because he got me used to him.. it was really embarassing for me but everyday my feelings for him are getting deeper... he would always look at me and look away when I looked... but now he stopped liking that girl and we became friends again but again he said he didn't wanna be friends because of other reasons... he said I was really desperate and now he likes another girl again. yesterday it was 8th grade formal dance and everyone said I looked really pretty... he looked at me many times but never approached me... but then I saw him hugging the girl he likes and was with her most of the time i got really jealous so i just left the school early because i couldn't take it. after 3 days its the last day of school and I just want to experience my first kiss with him.. i mean guys he doesn't hate me or anything we are cool with each other but I just want to kiss him and hug him tight for the last time.

[caring__1]

You've already made your feelings very clear to him, and his actions show he isn't interested in reciprocating. Don't catch him unaware and kiss him on the lips. It will end up being awkward for both of you. There's nothing wrong with saying to a guy, "I've never kissed anyone and I'm curious as to what it feels like. Would you be willing to help me have that experience?" If you do this, though, it's just about experiencing a kiss, so don't develop feelings.

[Asker]

you don't get me. My friends say he likes me but he doesn't want anyone to know... I know he doesn't like me but I also know that he is afraid that he'll like me because i always catch him looking... he doesn't like me but he wants me to be there for him like chase him. he is really shy tho.

[caring__1]

As long as he continues chasing other girls, don't invest more than friendship in him. He's barely started adolescence. He has a lot of growing to do, so don't expect him to understand relationships. All he'll be doing at this stage is exploring and discovering. He may enjoy the energy of the chase, but he doesn't know what to do with that energy. Expecting him to know how to have a healthy relationship is like expecting a baby to walk, talk and feed itself.

[Asker]

so what should I do should I go for the kiss?

[caring__1]

Find someone else to share that first kiss. He realizes he'd be opening a can of worms if he gives it to you. You'll probably regret it if you do it. You'll be forcing something on him against his wishes, causing him embarrassment, and that might lead him to shy away from you forever. A first kiss is to be savored, not regretted.

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[Smallboobsgotohell]

No make him drunk first then touch his dick slowly carresingly

[Asker]

bro were ONLY 13

[Dinosaursandanime65]

For the sake of equality, probably not. But…. For the sake of memes, APPROVED

[Anonymous]

Go ahead. He might still hit it. And you might get to be his side piece. You never know.

[Iron_Man]

Heck no you’re too young just give him a hug

[Asker]

but what if I want to have my first kiss with him? were in 8th grade and as far as i know he already had a first kiss in elementary school.

[Iron_Man]

A first kiss turns eventually Into sex you’re just basically a child just turning into a teenager your way way ahead of your time some people don’t have their first kiss into their late 20s why rush things

[baserunner611]

Story of my life, unfortunately join the club

[Wise4myage]

Look for other guys to date.

[kobeni]

No. That simple.

[In_Trance]

Go for it