If you said yes:
Would you try to build them up or would you find difficulty in supporting them due to unresolved issues with your parental figures?
If this was your current or past partner:
What was you experience with your partner? Where you able to work through those issues?
If you said no:
Have you found a partner that does meet your needs and does not have any of your parental figures traits or They do have some thier good traits just not the unhealthy ones?