I wouldn’t. Too many psychological reasons. People always say kids are sponges and soak up everything but I think we underestimate the depth that goes. Your actions as a parent teach your kids more than words ever will. They observe and on a subconscious level they learn. How do you handle stress? Do you spiral, avoid till last minute, run to a bottle or substance to soothe, or handle it in a healthy timely manner. Chances are high your child is going to handle situations similar to how you did cause that’s the only behaviour that was modelled to them while their brains/emotional intelligence was developing. romantic partners as a parent also matters. It’s not a coincidence children who witnessed dysfunctional relationships go on to be in their not so healthy dynamics as adults. Red flags can’t be red if it’s the only behaviour you’ve ever known
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Lack of self respect, unhealthy attachment, low self esteem, codependency, being weak and afraid of leaving
Honestly I think staying single is the way to go, from my experiences women don’t respect you or your boundaries but expect royal treatment and not step foot out of their boundaries, if I had kids I’d teach them to never settle for the sole reason of not being alone
We date someone either for short term or long term, plus most relationships we enter nowadays are short term that’s what we’re use to anyways relationship hopping from one to another
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The only explanation that fits here is , that no matter how bad the SO is you are attached and unable to let go , even after the fact very well that you would never allow a similar persinality near your kid.
lack of options. i think as soon as i have a kid i won't care about men anymore. they really are full of shit.
You are not your child, and they won't necessarily follow in your footsteps.
But if they're bad for your kid, you ought to leave em.Maybe they match you hut not whatever kid comes out of your relationship.
I dated somebody who I would not want for my sons. It was pretty messed up.
Anyome I have dated my if I had a child I would be ok with that. But in the off chance maybe because of my attachment issues.
thats a weird question, fo you date based on what others date, and your not exactly a role model either so why involve your child ibto your love life?
attraction is biological. not political
That’s a great and kind provoking point!!!
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