They would be a individual person/circumstantial decisionBecause just living with parents isn't such an issue... There could be many legit reasons for that.. To judge someone just by the fact they live with their parents without knowing the person or their story/reasons is closeminded... What if they're their parent's caregiver.. What if they're helping their parents financially? And even if it helps "them" financially, bad things happen to good people.. I still have my home of 18 years, but it's been a struggle after a sick hubby for 13 years and then his death... So if I lost my home and moved in with someone, that means I'm a degenerate? I get to know a person before I make assumptions about them or their character or circumstances...
Nobody is saying if you live with your parents that you are a degenerate. Just wanted to make that clear.
Well, don't.. and didn't say you were.. but others do use that to judge people or talk shit...
@Brainsbeforebeauty Not really the question I wanted to ask anyway. So check the update LOL
@exitseven I love it when someone tries to public shame someone and it back fires horrible on them thanks to science. And Why thank you I only do when people get silly on me or call them a Faecal Encephalopathy.
@coachTanthony sorry people got rude to me over a very similar question. I'm the shit talker mentioned above fyi.
@exitseven yeah I like it👍
Where in the world can I find a female with that mentality.
I am 31 what you said in the part helping parents.
Dad got sick from covid working in the hospital. He survived, now he depends on oxygen. Mom is disabled shoulder replacement. I am self employed for 5 years doing lawn care and landscaping jobs. My brother living with us as well. We split bills.
I've asked a question before will female date a guy being self employed and helping his parents. The results are no answer.
Before 2020 yes everything was normal. Like i could even gotten a apartment and bang a female so on but decided to be with my parents home because we laugh 😂 a lot. We enjoy beautiful moments. You never know waking up you will never see them. Well 2021 we all prayed for my dad to come home. He was hospitalized for 3 months he felt it was the end for him. Until we were able to see him, he gain strength. Now he is at home laughing and grabs the oxygen at full blast to recover.
Is usually hard trying to date someone once you tell them. They feel like they will carry a luggage. Compare when if y'all have been dating for awhile and all sudden one of our family is on crisis. Your partner will support you.
@WowwGirl Why do you always think everything is about you? You think you the only female or person I've heard try to shame someone that still lives with their parents🤔 you keep saying I'm trying to publicly shame you. Funny didn't mention you at all cuz wasn't thinking of you at all. But don't you try to publicly shame men🤔 again you're accusing others of behavior you're guilty of... 🤷
I think people judge this too much. NOW... this all depends.
Scenario 1:
If a man is living at home with his parents, doesn't work, has no aspirations or goals and doesn't have any bills... then you SHOULD NOT date that man.
Scenario 2:
If a man is living at home, has a career, goals and aspirations and is working towards moving out... you SHOULD date that man.
Personally... I am scenario 2. I lived with my parents until I was 28 years old. You might be asking... WHY? Because my vision was bigger than those around me. Let me explain. When I finished college, I had $60,000 in student loan debt. I used my time with my parents to:
1. Pay off all my student loan debt.
2. Invest money for the future.
3. Create side businesses for more income.
4. Buy 2 cars (I purchased 2 cars and they are paid for). The logic for this is because when I was younger... my 1st car used to break down once a week... so I told myself I would have 2 cars in case 1 ever broke down, I wouldn't have to rely on anyone else for a ride.
5. Buy a house and save a year's worth of mortgage.
At age 28, I accomplished all my goals, because I lived at home with my parents. Yes, I got clowned for it. Yes, women didn't want to date me. Yes, people kept asking me when I was going to move out.
However, due to my decision to stay at home that long, I am the only person out of all my friends who has their student loans fully paid, a house, 2 cars and businesses. Especially the house thing... since all my friends live in apartments.
It would depend on why. I dated a woman who moved back in with her parents after a breakup. I also dated a 19 year old who still lived at home. I also had my parents living with me for a while. Lease was in my name, I paid the majority of the bills which were all in my name, but my mother and her 4th husband lived there. From the outside it looked like I lived with my parents though. Especially as they had the master bedroom because I wamted to have the basement bedrooms (I worked nights and wanted the dark and quiet). So I certainly looked like I was a 30 something loser who lived in momys basement but I worked two jobs and rode a motorcycle to save cash.
There are a lot of cultures where moving out of your home if you are not yet married is considered strange. There are a lot of parents from many cultures in the world who would take offense to their unmarried children moving out and paying someone else rent when they can at least give their parents some money to support the house. I come from such a culture so no I would not turn down somebody just because they live with their parents.
My ex-husband, when he wasn't commuting back and forth between London and Paris as an options trader, lived with his parents. When he got married he left his home country and we lived in my mom's house because her idea I was like why pay someone else rental you could give me money. She lives elsewhere withher S/O and we lived in my childhood home.
Now we live in a completely different country and we pay rent it and our own respective places because we now are divorced.
Previously, we didn't have the means to do so and that's what's so wonderful about cultures that don't have this North American mentality of when you're 18 you better get out of my house because we had that support early on so that we could build a really strong foundation to be independent.
Now a deadbeat is a deadbeat whether they live in their own drinky-drink apartment and are always late on their rent or what is there a deadbeat with their parents. It really just depends on the person's character, their drive and ambition; not necessarily that they live at home.
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It’s not our place to judge others because there’s no telling what their situation is. If they drive, work, go to school or doing something with their life period, then we can build together. I accept people however they are because if tables were turned on me I would want them to accept me to while they live with their parents. I am married going on 11 years now. I came from a very abusive background and home. I was batting identity theft and much more a few years ago. I got my very first truck on my own just last year. It will take years to build my life back up. I’m currently about to move into our new home until our house gets done being built. I’m currently in two college at the moment. I’m saying all of this to say there’s no telling what hard times a person can fall on if they are living with their parents. many people in their 20’s moved back home because of the pandemic and other stressors. I’m currently 27 and life don’t really get started until you get 30 lol you just getting your shit together in your 20’s and you will be straight in your 30’s lol
someone with a good sense here! thank you
Agree here💯
I think there are many circumstances in life that would call for living with your parents. So yes I agree. Thanks for the comments.
@DianaWest I got married at 18 years old and our anniversary date is approaching which makes it 10 years we been married. I’m almost 28 years old. So it’s almost 11 years since we married 😂😂
i guess it depends on their age and circumstances. i still live with my parents and am 22, but because university is not a cheap ride even with the "generous" scholarships they offer. i don't really see the point of wasting money on a shabby apartment you rent just to be "independent" when you can move out of your parents' home at 30 once you've settled into a good career, started a nice pension for yourself, AND have some additional savings put aside to start a family, have babies, etc. i would save my money to buy a house, not a shabby one-bedroom apartment. if a man is ambitious, has a decent paying job, treats me well and does not have the personality of cardboard, i don't see an issue if he lives with his parents. maybe he is saving for a beautiful house, future family, etc. so long as i know the reasons. now, if he is lazy and has 0 ambition, goals or hopes for the future, that is entirely different. i am stubborn and driven. no matter how hard i find something, i will continue it until i succeed (and only if i care about an am passionate about that particular thing). i need a man to also have passion and drive (for a few things in his life, at minimum). if his plan is to live on mommy's couch till he is 50, that won't do. i think once a person is 40 and they still don't have their own place, that becomes concerning.
When I met my current partner he still lived with this parents and so did I (With my mom), mind you we where both at around 24 years old, also because in our town appartments are very expensive... Once our relationship got into a good and stable point we immediately rented an appartment and we're still living here.
So my point is, I don't think it's an issue living with parents, the real issue would be if he refuses to MOVE OUT !!! Because that's when I would defentily draw a line and tell him NOPE, we gotta live our own life or I will move on.
I respect my partners parents and all, but I wouldn't join them in their house and have a happily ever after... NOPE NO
This gives me hope 😁
@HawkPerception Aw trust me, if it worked for us it will work for you as well. Just don't ever get scared to make your dreams come true :)
100% agree with you on all points you've made. I live in Ontario, so living expenses are pretty damn high too. I still live with my parents, but definitely want to move out asap as soon as I have the means to. I just need to figure my life out haha.
I'd never want my partner to move in with me at my parents house. That would be uncomfortable for both of us 😂
@HawkPerception Exactly, trust me it's never too late, you can always do it. It's hard at the beginning but you will figure it out and you will even sat WHY DIDN'T I DO IT EARLIER lol
Appreciate it 🙏
Not everyone who lives with their parents mooches off of them. Did you know in other cultures this is normal? I still live with my parents but with the way I treat them and speak to them you would think I was the one taking care of them. I don't know why America is so anti parents to be honest. I pay them rent, pay my own bills, pay for the groceries every now and then, and I don't see anything wrong with that. If a woman doesn't want me because of that then good riddance. I can help weave out all the fake and unwanted people away from my life even easier.
I still live with my parents, but I definitely don't want to continue living with them for much longer. I've wanted out of this bird nest for a while, but I would rather not move out with a job where I barely make a living. I am trying to figure my shit out in life.
As for a girl, I have never cared whether they live with their parents ot not. I would expect them to desire to move out with me eventually if things became really serious, but overall when there's a will to make things work, there's a way. If you truly love the person, living with their parents temporarily should never be an issue.
Being someone who still lives with parents, I would hope people would consider seriously dating me. I am saving up for my own place and I do pay them rent. Living with parents doesn't change a person's personality, its just their living situation at the moment. For me I just can't afford to move out by myself at the moment.
There is 'still living with parents'. And then there is where the roles flipped and the son or daughter has become the caretaker. I don't think most women are able to make that distinction though. What are you supposed to do, put your parent in a home? Fuck that. Your parents deserve better than that. Old people get weaker and sicker as they age and they get to a point where they cannot be completely independent.
I hate how so many people throw their parents away when they get old. The people who sacrificed everything for the kid and the kids now grown, shove them out of sight and out of mind. When the parent now needs help to function, they outsource the duty to a 'home'.
I have seen it too often, it makes me sad. Sometimes parents are too sick and need constant care, well then there is no choice. But many people are quick to put a parent in a home rather than just let them live with them.
It's sad how we treat older people these days.
Why not? Living with your parents no longer has the stigma associated with it, in fact it's regarded as smart. My brother and his now wife lived at home until they were 30 and 28 respectively and it allowed them to purchase a nice house in 2016 that they are still living in. My dumbass moved out when I was 24, spent 11 years pissing my money away on rent and tried for years to buy a house and I was barely able to afford a shitty townhouse that I bought 2 years ago that is still falling apart to this day.
It would depend if it's because the parent is elder & it's to take of them that's understandable.
If it's for any other reason no.
What if it's just a mutual agreement with their parents though? They could live on their own but chose to live with their parents because they can live together fine, no issues and it just meant more spare cash by doing so for him and his parents as he pays half the bills, they pay half.
Yes both answers are legit
It totally depends on the circumstances. If they just basically permanently lived there, didn't work, didn't contribute... no absolutely not.
If they had come on some hard times and moved back in while they got on their feet (and were actually working on it), in school, or generally helping their parents? Sure. I have no issue with that.
Just as long as they're not SO close they'd try and move me in with them and their parents. Because that would be too weird for me.
Yeah why not? As long as they’re not financially depending on their parents.
what if he sort of is but only a small portion?
sure its temporary, but it might be awhile. i just wouldn't be so quick to judge though. you might be turning down some good dudes unnecessarily over something like this and you don't really know their situation
@Still-alive Yeah for sure! It's all about intention! I'm just not a fan of guys who live with their parents, don't have a job or intend to get one, and depend financially on their parents. I knew a guy who was in his 30s doing this, and taking money off his single mum every time..
If he’s trying to get his life together and just needs a place to crash until he’s got investment money, I’m down for it. If he’s literally just living and mama bear is doing everything else, boy bye.
Would and have, with cost of living around here it’s pretty normal for people to still be at home in the mid 20s
But it’s definitely a bonus to be dating a girl that is on her own
Depends where you are in life really. If you’re still in college or freshly out of college I see no shame in saving up money by living with your parents. I actually think it’s pretty smart. The only reason why I wouldn’t get involved with that person is if they were still extremely dependent on their parents and have trouble making important life choices on their own.
If he were brought up in a culture where that’s common then maybe but if they are a Westerner like me where it’s not so common then no. In Western culture living with your parents usually means you’re too lazy to have your own life or you’re stuck financially and probably not ready for a relationship.
Nope. Parents complicate things and have unrealistic expectations for me and my partner. Them living in the same household as them just makes those concerns more frequent and immediate. I don’t want to have dinner with them all and get questions about marriage or kids, and explain why that won’t be happening. Not a fun conversation to have.
Nope, since I do not look at young girls as serious relationship material. The only woman I would have a serious relationship with is someone my age or up to 5 years older. If they are not financially secure at that point in their lives then they are not relationship material.
Depends on what stage of life we are both at and the reasons why he's living with them. If he is their caregiver or something like that then I'd understand, but if its a matter of him being super attached to his parents then probably not. If its a cultural thing then that depends on if he would be able to move out after marriage or not cause personally i wouldn't wanna stay with my in laws.
Yes. Maybe she doesn’t have enough money saved up to move out and she doesn’t want to be homeless so she is living with her parents, there can be other reasons why like she could have enough money but can’t find a great home 🤷♂️ I wanted to move out and get my own place but I don’t have the money for it so yeah
yeah I mean maybe.
Only if they’re in school or working. I’m in College, work on the family ranch, and help take care of my grandparents. I’m not a NEET (Not in Education, Employment, or Training), and I don’t wanna be with one either. I have a friend who goes to the same college as me but she hasn’t even chosen a major and has no idea what she wants to do in life, and I don’t understand it.
Yes, I would. Living with parents is common where I live, it doesn't mean one is a parasite sucking blood from parents, it's more about convenience and we still pay our share of home expenses. We work, do stuff around the house and pay bills.
If you however mean to date a deadbeat guy that's all day lazing around while his mom feeds him and cleans his room, then hell no.
Depends why they there.
If they got a solid plan to get on with they life yeah
Yes because their circumstances might have prevented getting their own place they may have been made redundant, or needed to retrain so can't afford to have their own place.
I lived with my parents until I was 32 years old saving up for a house and had my house now for 2 years living alone. I personally don't mind because in the long run she could live with me and I understand how expensive it is having your own place.
that's wonderful, but i would save my money to buy a house after i get married. i expect the guy to pitch in a couple bucks as well, cause no way in hell am i bringing in anyone to live in my house that only i spent money on. are you okay with bringing in a woman to live in a house that only you paid for? seems like the gold diggers will be attached to you like glue.
@DianaWest Yes I'm fine with that and lol I'm on guard for gold diggers. You make a good point. Getting to know a woman carefully for along time before living together is crucial in my opinion.
@coachTanthony The reality might be that the guy on the right is paying the bills. That guy has the sort of skin a Union Framer or Carpenter has, he's probably a grandfather himself. The two on the left are the Pinnacle of Fucking Boomer and probably reverse Mortgaged their old home, Rented it out, and are now leeching off their son.
Nope. I need to know there can make it on their own.
What if it's just a mutual agreement with their parents though? They could live on their own but chose to live with their parents because they can live together fine, no issues and it just meant more spare cash by doing so for him and his parents as he pays half the bills, they pay half.
@Krewvinator I'm pretty sure that falls under "someone unable a to take care of themselves". And I'm not shaming or saying I agree with that. Just that I'd imagine most women think that way. Because I think most people would say " why live at home if you CAN afford to live on your own". Because most women probably look at as if. " how can he take care of me if he can't even take card of himself. And this is what I don't like about today's woman. Most have been brought up with this attitude that a guys only value is what he can provide for me. Not saying it isn't important it is. But it's like during the great recession. Many good guy lost lucrative jobs that they still haven't been able to replace income wise. Does that make them less of a man now? How bout if a woman marries and he gets a serious form of cancer. Does she leave him now that it'll probably decimate their finances.
People when they marry and whatnot seldom mean forever anymore.
@ChiTown33 I mean in this scenario you can take care of yourself, you choose to live with the parents and they chose you to live with them so everyone has cash freed up but they could support themselves. Like complete optional living.
@ChiTown33 it sucks but a lot of people nowadays care only about themselves, are extremely shallow and extremely selfish, women AND men and this is very unfortunate. men are no angels let me tell you. do you date chubby women? would you marry one? why not? is a woman's value her looks only? if a man wants a bombshell of a woman, he should expect to interact with a lot of women with high standards (money wise, and maybe even looks wise)
that being said, i don't think living on your own necessarily means you've made it in life. i would be much more impressed by a man, regardless fo whether or not he lived with his parents, if he had a good university education and on the path to a well paying job or career (i. e. at least 50,000-60,000 a year). even if he is not making this salary at the beginning, at least i know that he has drive and potential, and a good education. i only expect from men what i myself can offer. if my salary is 60,000, then i expect a prospective partner to make at least 50 thousand. some people who live on their own are proud of themselves for "making it in the real world," when in reality they only have a GED, are flipping burgers for minimum wage and living in a one-bedroom apartment that smells like cat piss. maybe the person living with their parents has a bachelors degree, a masters, and an entry-level job that could eventually increase their salary from 60,000 to 70,000 or even 80,000. also, maybe that person who still lives with their parents at 25 is saving their money for a house, future babies/family, or a trip around Europe. i would personally find this person to be much more accomplished than a person who "can make it on their own" on a few dollars above minimum wage in a one-bedroom apartment that they share with their friend or significant other.
@DianaWest You're right! A qoman's size and shape shouldn't matter that much to a guy. Her PERSONALITY is what really matters. It's not our fault if most thin and physically attractive women tend to have the best personalities as well ( much like women with men).
And you're right a lot of people arebunbelieablt selfish I agree wholeheartedly which is why I've all but quit dating.
And you're right the more schooling you have statistically the more you'll make at every stage of life. It's too bad Mark Zuckerberg, Larry Ellison, Sheldon Adelson, and Bill Gates didn't see their education through the end. Imagine how successful they MIGHT have been.
I just hope you let every guy up front know your minimal expectations. You deserve that guy with a degree I'd hate to see some future potential billionaire hold you down.
@ChiTown33 lol. nice try. as if the average person is going to turn up like Bill Gates. the average person who drops out of high school or college is flipping burgers for minimum wage. and it's great, as i am thin and attractive, but find it amusing when men claim women who are thin and attractive have much better personalities than chubby women. how do you know? you have a lot fo dating experience with chubby women? that's just an excuse to hide how shallow you are. you don't want women to expect rich men, then you should not expect a thin and beautiful woman.
@DianaWest nice try hun. It's funny that someone still wet behind the ears would cite "experience". When I mentioned Bill Gates etc. I wasn't talking about typical I was talking about drive and character. But it doesn't surprise me you didn't get it. Your generation doesn't even know what it is. Andbi'm not running down education. As cookie cutter and plain join as it is it can earn you a decent income. So long as someone is willing to hire you. So long as the economy remains good. What I was talking about is character. A man with a good job will always be able to take care of his family so long as HD has that job. A guy with character will always find a way to take care of his family. That's the difference.
And as far as hefty not so aesthetically pleasing women go. Why is it so hard for you to believe there are attractive thin women with personalities. You knowbi think ot's funny. I think your gender has used the " I didn't want to go out with him because I didn't like his personality" excuse do long. You get angry when it's used back by guys. I'll date a hefty chicken. But if I see a thin woman with a better personify why choose the other with a bad personality? Much like you said with your what was it minimal 50k income for a guy deLbreaker. Girl with a little extra mass is going to just have to work a little harder to earn me.
@ChiTown33 talking about character now? i don't recall seeing that word anywhere in your previous response. Just something about how successful Bill Gates was even though he dropped out of college. Was i supposed to interpret that as you talking about his character? and you are 45. you should lower your expectations for women unless you are as rich as Bill Gates. as for discriminating my generation, i recall seeing your generation fucking like rabbits and getting high while sneaking out at midnight from mommy and daddy's house. don't pretend you were perfect 20 years ago. every individual is different, it does not matter what generation they belong to. back in the day, milking a cow may have been enough to get you through college. nowadays, we have to slave away at 3 minimum wage jobs just to survive, pay for our education, and still have to pay back 100,000 college debt. if you read my previous response, i did say that i admire people with drive, passions, and ambition, not lethargic people with no goals in life. I think it is also fair to expect to partner up with someone who is your equal. is it too much to ask for? if i become a lawyer, i certainly would not want to marry a janitor. maybe if a really loved him i would make an exception. but generally speaking, people are in relationships with their equals. and if i was making 90k a year, my minimum salary for a partner would be 50k. i would not want to marry a gold digger after all.
@DianaWest OK. No, I just described character or lack of it in my initial post. But as I said if you don't know what that is I wouldn't expect you to recognize it. I just laugh at you because at your young age you of course know everything already.
I could tell you I have no college degree and a 7 figure net worth but that's not the message I'm trying to send. Success isn't a a certain degree or dollar amount. I use the word character because it's pretty encompassing. I just laugh at your notion of what success is that's all and it shows why you women have such trouble finding good guys. You don't even understand what it is you're looking for.
@ChiTown33 lol, you're a millionaire. yeah right. every guy on gag is apparently a millionaire or billionaire. that's why they spend so much of their free time getting into arguments with paupers on the internet. you don't know anything about my character or work ethic, so don't comment on it.
@DianaWest and this is why you'll never be one. Your stupid a** doesn't realize mathematically how easy it is. I said I have a 7 figure net worth I didn't say I was a millionaire. Why? Because when you get to a million you realize how little it is really. It's a finite number just like any other number. And I'm just over a million. Not multi millions. Why would I brag about that? It's just 1 million. You do realize how common it is for someone to have a million net worth right? About 7%. Of households. 1 million isn't e enough considered rich anymore.
But good job dispelling any notion you were a gold digger by honing in on just that one bit of info I shared on my last post. Of all things it was my net worth lol. You really should stop posting you're burying yourself hun.
@ChiTown33 9,000,000. let's count the 0s to make it simple for you. six 0s and a 9, yes? 9 million equals millionaire. i was supposed to now guess that you have 1.2 million dollars? and "burying myself." lol. i don't really give a damn about your opinion. just here to pass time when i am bored. success is not just money or education, but it is a part of it. success is also how happy you are, how ambitious you are, how honest you are and whether you actually work hard for your money, how healthy you are, etc. i knew that already, didn't need you to explain something that a 6 year old understands. with your million net worth and all, i hope you marry a woman who is making minimum wage. since you are so virtuous and care so much about the other aspects of success. most people (men and women) think like me. they want their equals, not a person who is doing the bare minimum. if i was doing the bare minimum, the bare minimum is what i would expect from a partner. nothing wrong with someone who does the bare minimum, but it is not someone i see as a life partner. did that strike a nerve with you? just like you think thin, beautiful women have better personalities than chubby women, i think men who are earning above minimum wage also have better personalities. i know you think you know it all, but just because you are middle aged does not make it so. bye now. i have someone else to argue with.
@DianaWest we you're young. Maybe you'll learn. That's all we can hope for. Not just for you. But the people around you's sake.😁
Love is love. I wouldn’t not be with someone for a reason as stupid as that
Why what's wrong with that? In South Asia, we believe in a joint family and we still do live with our parents unless we've separate job locations. It doesn't mean we are a burden to them rather we do take care of our parents in their old age. We earn and we spend and let them depend on our spending if they want.
We've some responsibilities to our parents, right?
It would depend on why. Like are they taking care of their parent. Or is it a mutual living arrangement ( like their dad died and her mother's living on a fixed income so it benefits both them). Or something horrific put b them in an early debt and they're digging themselves out of it (obviously this is very case by case).
It depends on why. My wife and I both moved back in with our parents because we were saving money to buy a house.
At my age most likely not. But it would all depend on why he is living with his parents.
Yes, why not? And I know that this question is not for people that are 16. :D But if I would be let's say ten years older I wouldn't still see there any problem to get in serious relationship with some girl that lives with their parents.
Depends.
They’re Asian and live in Asia? That’s the norm. Yes.
They’re Westerners? Lazy? Unmotivated? Nope. Bye.
im newly 18 so yeah i don’t mind, how could i when i still do😂. but I would want them to have the same drive I do to save up and move out soon
Yes absolutely, I’m not going to determine if someone’s dating material or not just because they still live with their parents.
It's a reminder that, the stigma of living with your parents, has always looked worse in men than in women
I mean, from what I've heard others say, it doesn't sound like a good idea, but who tf knows. Depends on the situation and the person, really
Yes I would because they'd have tons of disposable income. With our combined leeching off of the older generation, we'd be unstoppable.
LOL.
well
i would
because im 15
but if i were older
i definitely would not
Yes. I don’t see a problem with it. Age also plays into that. If someone is over 25 and they don’t have a place of their own, that’s a red flag in my opinion unless they have a good reason.
Yes I would of I liked them. She just couldn't be out here waiting for me to say come through i got you. Lol she'll be waiting a long time. I need someone who can contribute.
Most women live with their parents into their 30s if they don't move in with a guy. Then rest have a bunch of roommates which is just like them living with family.
Sure. My girlfriend did and tbh i think it was a good thing. She had her family to keep her in line. Better than being away at college being wild woman.
Depending, I’m in university and I’ve dated girls that still live at home because they are also in university but if I was like 30 hell no I wouldn’t date a girl that still lived at home
why not? why should she waste her money on buying a one-bedroom apartment to live alone, only to waste more money when she eventually gets married and wants to buy a house? i think people should not waste their money and save it instead so when they're married they are well off.
Because I would like to date a women that doesn’t live with her parents I don’t think that’s too much to ask 😂
Well I’m still in college, so no I don’t see a problem with that lmao. After a while, yeah. They aren’t going to be coming to my place all the time, so they better have their own place.
I could, cause I'm from India where living with family is not just common but encouraged.
Depends on the circumstances as to why they do. If it's pure laziness then no.
You should look into why they are still with their parents. Sometimes staying at home is a good move.
For example I work but I still don't earn enough money to move out, basically because the product isn't really completed.
Since also I don't have a partner, staying at home as a temporal solution is the sane thing to do. I wash my pants, I keep my room impeccable, and I buy and cook my own food.
Considering I am a guy who still live with his parents, I of course wouldn't be bothered if my girl live with her parents as well.
If serious means spending the night, having s*x, and cuddling then NO. The parents could walk in and mess up the whole mood.
I'm arab, so it's weird if he's not living with his parents
Egypt
Yes I would. I live with my parents so it would be hypocritical for me to say something about it
Yes, but there would need to be legitimate plans to move out eventually with consistent work being done to get to that. But it also depends on the reason as to why they still live with their parents.
Yes because I’m still young and they would be too. It’d be nice to move out together
Yes, because in the Netherlands it is impossible to get a house because left wing idiots are letting everyone in to this country
Depends why they do so and if they are planning to keep doing so. It's an "I dunno about that bro" moment.
yea, 50% of people under 30 live with their parents. the dating pool of women is too small if you don't date them
Yes I would. Maybe just by being in a serious relationship with them, they may change for the better.
It is not a problem to date any one if living with parents, rather better to get guidance from parents
It depends entirely on their circumstances.
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