Do ambitious men look to get into a serious relationship with an ambitious woman or not?

[Anonymous]

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I've never known any guy that was looking to get into a serious relationship. If that happens over time then so be it, but generally it either starts because they are having fun and he thinks she hot and he wants to sleep with her, or their are guys that are really extroverted and love to talk all the time and for them in their worlds "it sucks to be alone" and they either deal with their loneliness by finding some woman to hang around with or they start drinking. Sometimes both... Relationships get more serious the longer they last generally and they start out with a sort of we'll see how it goes sort of mentality. They never start with serious intentions and often have caps on how serious a guy will let it get. Like some guys don't ever want to get married. Some would get married eventually but never want kids. Guys tend to limit intensity and commitment from the get go.

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[Asker]

Some guys also do say purge or that they want to get married/and have kids.

[patois]

I've never met a guy that said I'm looking for a woman to get married to and have kids. It's way to early to think about those sorts of commitments to someone you don't know very well. It's more so, if I find the right girl I might marry her and have kids eventually if things go well. We're mot sitting around planning our wedding day from the time we're 12 years old. Women have to prove themselves to us over time for us to be willing to get married and have kids on purpose.

[ProbablyClueless]

I used to, but then I noticed that a lot of ambitious women felt like they needed to keep up with me. And I don't need a feeling of competition in my relationships. That's just not something I would ever be interested in.

[Anonymous]

It depends but mostly yes. You feel pressure by the ambitious guy and you will always feel inferior.

Indeed, this he is not supporting, this is just nagging her. When the woman actually achieves her goals, the boyfriend guy -who is ambitious too- starts pulling her down and suppress her. E. g. if a woman is beautiful or has a skill the guy after he took her will strada to pull her down because he does not like the idea she is better than him and get a fat body. These people are mental

Trust me, this is how it works when ambitious woman + man are in the same field. Better a supportive man rather than a competitive one. Guess what: perfection does not exist.

[Opinion Owner]

I still don’t understand l, they do this to feed their ego but the problem is, when they manage to turn down the woman e. g. getting fat/renouncing to her hobbies then they don’t feel better, this is just an illusion, an ephemera and keep doing it to the kids eventually

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the age-old question of ambition in love! Let's dive in, shall we? Ambitious men, much like anyone else, have diverse tastes when it comes to picking a partner. Some are head over heels for a woman who matches their ambition, dreaming of that power couple status, climbing the ladder of success together. Others might prefer a partner who focuses more on the home front, allowing them to be the star of the ambition show. It really boils down to personal preference and compatibility. What's key is the connection, respect, and admiration for each other's ambitions and goals, whether they're career-oriented or not. Ultimately, it's not just about having ambition; it's about supporting each other’s dreams and aspirations, making each other’s goals your own little projects. So, if you're ambitious and wondering if your match is out there – absolutely, they are! Just make sure you're both cheering each other on, regardless of the arena you shine in. 😊

[jahaims]

Ambitious-having or showing a strong desire and determination to succeed.

Why would anyone want someone that doesn't want to succeed?

[Asker]

Some pipes prefer to not feel like they’re competing or prefer someone to take the seat and have the other encourage and take care of all the other stuff. Many reasons.

[Asker]

Just out of curiosity, what does ambition and success mean for a partner of your choice?

[jahaims]

If that is what the person wants, then they are still succeeding. Ambition and success have a set meaning.

[Asker]

Exactly. So what’s your definition of a successful or ambitious woman?

[jahaims]

A female who is ambitious and successful.

[Anonymous]

Nope
Most men honestly don't care about that

[Asker]

So what do they care about?

[Opinion Owner]

Well that depends on the man about what trait they care and look for in a girl, and being ambitious is rarely on anyone's list
For me? I just want her to be sweet