Do middle class men want long term serious girlfriends/wives with ambition?

[Anonymous]

A lot of guys say no but honestly in my experience I think they do…

[BlackJeep]

I have a good career, no mortgage so being with someone who has ambition isn't important and I would prefer someone who likes to stay home and take care of my house.

[Anonymous]

As I'm a middle class man I can say yeah it is definitely in my required criteria along with a good sense of humour, moral compass and a personality

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing…can you explain further on why…

[Anonymous]

It not about being ambitious it's about responsibility of being in a relationship... After u fulfill ur responsibilities u can go for ur ambition..

[Asker]

What do responsibilities in a relationship mean to you…what are they specifically…

[Opinion Owner]

Most relationships fail today bcoz people enter relationships for fun
Besides fun there are responsibilities like being there for ur partner always, taking care of kids, cooking, cleaning etc ( for women )

If u prioritise ur ambition before ur relationship then u should not be in a relationship I may sound misogynistic here but put it in this way... What if many men abandoned their wife and kid to follow their passion and ambition

So here when women do it it's called against women empowerment, misogyny etc when men do it it's called being selfish

For the success of a relationship one person should be alpha ( breadwinner, making money dominant etc ) and the other one should be beta ( relationship focused and taking care of house )
Alpha needs beta and vice versa.. a alpha male and alpha female don't need each other and their character and attitude will turn each other off so how would they love each other? They won't

( I'm using the terms alpha and
beta to make u understand)

But there is another solution for this and it's called female led relationship ( FLR )

Ambitious women can look for men who are submissive and ok with in being in a female led relationship and they are relationship focused

But the problem with FLR is most women want a man who is higher value than them and they expect a partnership with their superior that's not gonna happen

So in FLR men should not have any male ego, patriarchy etc meanwhile women should be ok with being with a beta male

[Opinion Owner]

U may bring up things like equality
Let me give u and example

I'm ambitious and currently I want to move out of city A to a place B
If I get into a relationship with a woman who is also ambitious but her career is successfully going on in city A

I have to go to B
She wants to stay in A
Either one of us has to sacrifice for the relationship

I don't believe in long distance relationships bcoz there is nothing to gain from long distance relationships

[Asker]

You do realise than in reality there are billions and billions of career driven women with good pay checks who are settled down ad married with kids right?

[Asker]

And their partners also have good professional careers. It’s not uncommon in the slightest, more the norm.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I know women can be successful in career and ambitious with families I never told women should stay in kitchen of something like that

I'm telling one partner can be ambitious and other partner can be relationship oriented it can be either male or female

[Asker]

I’m just saying I don’t think those are the only choices, depends on the couples values.