I don't feel that heart-throbbing sensation with my boyfriend. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Hello. I have a boyfriend and we've been dating for 2.5 years. He's my first official boyfriend, even though I have experience in several unofficial relationships in the past. And in those relationships, I have heart-throbbing sensations where you feel butterflies for no reason, feelings like flying up in the sky just by talking with him, things like that. I love my current boyfriend and do think he's for the long-term. He's super nice and gentle, even though he's not that handsome or physically attractive. He's literally my best friend and lover at the same time. However, sometimes I do miss the excitement and the adrenaline. I feel like I don't feel like that with him, even though he makes me laugh everyday. I wouldn't let him go just because of this reason, but I'm also confused of what I should do. Bcs I often fantasize about being in a romantic love story with someone with the excitement and everything, even though I'm already in a relationship. It's like I'm not satisfied or something. I don't know. What do you think?

[Pinay_ako]

Butterflies are normal in the height and beginning of a relationship. It’s the excitement and thrill of getting to know this wonderful amazing person and the feeling is mutual! What you’re feeling rn is boredom. Don’t expect butterflies 🦋 always in a relationship. If he’s a nice a guy which sounds like he is as you describe but he’s not the problem. You need to be fair with him and tell him how you feel… don’t keep him coz you think you’re confused… it’s unfair. Let him know!

[Emiliamazing]

I think you must start with talking about the feelings you hope for with him. He might be frightened, but you both must mean focused and calm and care for each other. If you’re looking for the butterfly feelings, perhaps they faded because of routine or the comfort of just having someone. Perhaps a new adventure together might help

[Carolus]

Try me, you be breathing heavy, getting your nipples hard and colitis swelling every time you think of me.

[Guy13]

Deal with it. Give it time. What do you expect…ohhh, I see 16

[Rockstarrrrr]

It's not really fun without that spark... I think you can even get it with a crush lol... I don't think this is a win

[Anonymous]

Well that happens regularly, that people fall out of love. Love isn't about having those butterfly feelings in the stomach every day you are together.

[Anonymous]

why would you date someone you are not attracted too, physically

[Smallboobsgotohell]

Try anal sex