What it means when boyfriend breaks his promise to call first before engaging in his leisure activities?

[Anonymous]

[Gent207]

He doesn't respect you or he has serious ADD. But definitely the former considering that, if he loved you why wouldn't he do this one simple thing for you?
I am presuming you just wanted him to check in like send you a quick text saying that he arrived

[OlderAndWiser]

It means he doesn't honor his promises. Does that concern you?

[Asker]

yes it does. i wonder if it’s my fault or is it just the way he is?

[OlderAndWiser]

Why would it be your fault. He either has good character or he doesn't, and all of that was determined before you met him.

[UCrayCray]

It’s possible he forgot.
Does he do this often?

[Effably]

That he earned himself a round of funishments with a serious undertone?

Kind of deoends how frequent of an issue it is to me.

[Anonymous]

He's flaky.