What would you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend asked you to choose between them or your best-friends? (Page 2)
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I’d leave them, no healthy partner would ever make you choose between your friends or them. You should be able to have both.
“I’ll help you pack!”
Personally I’d never try break up friends, if I was unhappy with my partner I’d just leave
If my partner made me choose between them or my friends, I'd choose my friends as this partner isn't a very nice person to do that in the first place, it's also kinda narcissistic to even ask you to choose.
my mother once asked me to choose between her and my wife, and it’s been about a year now since we’ve spoken. I don’t respond well to ultimatums.
".. And then she said, it's me or your friends. Pfft."
"What a toxic ex"
" Yeah"
Someone that makes this demand will have to decide what to do, as I will not make a decision. Anyone that does this, will have to decide their next course of action, be it friends or family... as I will never make a choice.
That would depend on the situation. But in many cases I would break up. If you can't accept me having friends... That I have a life outside of her. Then she isn't for me.
But again would depend on teh situation
It depends if the friends is a male or female, if they are toxic.
It depends how serious this relationship is.
a true friend will be happy for me if I meet a great partner who loves me. they will understand and the friendship doesn’t end.
Agreed… if you love your partner you want them to be happy. The only exception would be if your best friend is toxic. I don’t like all my wife’s friends but I don’t let it show because I know her friends are important. I would never ask her to choose but I would express how I felt about the friend if they were toxic.
Anyone that gives me an ultimatum such as that can kindly fuck right off.
I don't care if they're my girlfriend, my friend, family, etc. As soon as they tell me to choose, I will immediately chose anyone that isn't them.
The moment your girlfriend / boyfriend asks you this kind of question, you will realize that this relationship is over. If the real partner knows you from the inside, he/she will not ask these questions.
Friends won't do that, that's why friends will come first
Always choose the person who doesn’t expect you to choose.
If my boyfriend asked me to do that I'd dump him, like any sane human being would.
Who ever licked my ass and pussy better, bought me better meals and birthday presents and had bigger weenies would win. Oh they would have to be a better kisser too.
I dont need him to choose between us but i need him to know how to prioritize when called for... some days they’ll be more important than me and vice versa
But i’d always choose the guy over some friends. He’s who i’m tryna marry and build a family with at the end of the day
And its funny cause it was always my “friends” giving me the ultimatum. Lmao they clearly thought they were more important than they were
I would choose my best friend hands down unless she did something super messed up where it would make sense to not be friends.
Kick them to the curb so fast they would bounce.
Ultimatums are never good for relationships. It's controlling behavior, to say the least. Dodge that bullet and move on with your life.
I will always choose the person who loves me enough to not make me choose. So in this situation, my best friend.
Then he's got to go cuz I'm not dealing with that toxic behavior.
I would be clever enough to find a workaround that kept everyone happy. I never cave in to ultimatums though.
That would be a red flag to me right away. Can't have me choosing between friends, if anything they should encourage me to have friends