Would you rather tell your partner you’re having an affair or have them tell you they’re having an affair?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

I would rather be told they are having an affair - because I can replace a bad boyfriend but I can't replace my own actions and history and personality.

[SiberFox]

Strange game, the only winning move is not to play.
"Do not grade evils, for if you do you might be tempted to side with the lesser".