Is it more intimate to sit across from someone or next to someone?

[AnonyWoman4309]

Across

Next to

[Guy13]

Besides her and that will give one a good sense about how the other feels. This "violates" the safe zone.

[TheUniqueOne96]

I think both are intimate, but if I had to pick one, I'd say across, as you're face to face and eye contact is more common and likely.

[Blackcupcake]

both can be