What does it mean when someone constantly compares you to others?

[Finchie40]

[DizzyDesii]

I don't know cause im guilty of doing that when they piss me off. I’m like ooo you act just like that last mf

[Finchie40]

That’s not good girl , comparing someone causes a lot of resentments because the person comparing doesn’t see any flaws within themselves , they act like their shit don’t stink and the reality of it, their shit stinks , to me it’s a sign of insecurity and low self esteem in themselves , How would you honestly feel if someone you gave your heart to constantly compared you to other girls , making you feel that you aren’t good enough? You would walk away and tell them to go fuck themselves. What I told my girlfriend last night to Go fuck herself

[DizzyDesii]

No i take it as constructive criticism. Why would i be mad? If im reminding them of their ex, i’d want to fix the issue

[DizzyDesii]

Some people need to be called out for what they’re fcking up on

[Chazmatazz269]

They haven’t established their own preferences and boundaries. If you have, you’ve already outgrown them. Leave, unless you’re ready to foster an adult.

[Emerald55346]

It means that they are at a point where they feel you need improvement in some way or they deserve more