Recent fight with bestfriend and what to do?

[Anonymous]

We are bestfriends for 6 years now. Ever since We started college, We have been fighting a lot over small things. Mostly it's het making issues over nothing. She changed a lot after getting into a relationship. They fight a lot too.

Last month she was suddenly upset at me coz I went to pool with my other friends. She said that she was coming to my home but didn't come cause previous day I said I won't be going Anywhere due to exams.

Now I know that I went to pool next day coz it was close to my house and she fought with me over this. (She didn't tell me that she was coming over by the way, only mentioned it during argument) We had argument over texts. It's been a month now and We haven't talked ever since.

I think We both changed a lot. We haven't talked for this long and I sometimes think about her. I don't even know what is going wrong anymore. The fights are becoming frequent.

What should I do?

[DJB72]

Same as any relationship. Communication.

Talk - face to face, not text.

Go for a meal where you can chat quietly and make time for each other and the friendship.

I've known my best friend 31 years but I've got friends I was at kindergarten with 45 years ago. My childhood "best" friend is still someone I can count on despite being ten thousand miles away.

[Danny718718]

If you both don't give a little bit and bend over backwards to change your ways you two are always going to fight. But you have to realize you are to Total different people so arguments are always going to be there. But sometimes you have to pick and choose your battles if you want to make it work

[Changiis07]

Give it some time and when you both are ready and willing communicate about talk about it. But it's not healthy to be arguing all the time and to end a 6 year friendship so hope you guys can work things out

[exitseven]

People sometimes change by the time they ae old enough to go to college. I was on the outs with just about everyone I knew about that age. Somehow I patched things up with most of them and am still friends with the ones that are still alive.

[AlexM007]

Make amends

[In_Trance]

stop fighting