My girlfriend and I tend to get violent during out fights- what should I do?

Anonymous

My girlfriend and I had the biggest of fights last week about going out and seeing people. We ended up hitting each-other and she grabbed my phone out of my hand and threw it in the bin. I fished my phone out of the trash-can and left to go and stay at my friend's place in town, because I was so angry. Then my girlfriend blew up my phone and obviously I wouldn't pick up because I didn't want to talk to her. She got her housemate to blow up my phone too and I blocked her. She then tracked my location on snapchat and drove in the middle of the night to where I was staying and insisted on seeing me. She just wouldn't let me have my own peace after the fight.

This happens regularly when she gets particularly angry. Another time, she began hitting me and I didn't hit back, but she shoved me into the road so I shoved her back. These men across the road saw me shove her back and they beat me up.

What should I do? I love my girlfriend but this is getting too much.

My girlfriend and I tend to get violent during out fights- what should I do?
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