Girlfriend gets angry and violent when I do nothing wrong and I try run for my life and that makes her get worse what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[SecretsofKB]

You need to call the police. Domestic violence goes both ways, and the police are much more perceptive of that now than they used to be.

They can and will arrest her and charge her with domestic violence and provide you with the resources to leave this relationship safely.

[Lee121]

First of all I’m sorry to hear that your girlfriend gets violent with you.
That seems very odd so you are saying she gets angry and violent for no reason at all?
Usually people get angry for a reason like someone provoking them or someone not treating them right for example not listening to your partner, being dishonest etc. what causes her to just be violent and angry? Usually anger comes out of frustration.
And also if she is violent why are you with her for?
You should break it off and tell her that it is over and move on with your life. You are clearly not working and in your 30s maybe time to look at your relationship except that it didn’t work and tell her it’s over. There are always two sides to every story that’s all, and we do not have your girlfriend here to explain what’s happened and if you have acted in any domestic way toward her, that’s the way it usually is in these toxic relationships.
Take care of yourself and good luck

[Asker]

I’ve always acted with total respect and love towards her. She has beaten me many times and cheated on me

[Asker]

You shouldn’t blame the victim you know? I am innocent

[Asker]

Violence and cheating are serious matters that cause unbelievable hurt

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

First, recognise that you're in an abusive relationship.

Second, realise you don't deserve to be abused.

Third, leave her immediately in such a way that she can't further harm you in retaliation.

Finally, don't go back or re-engage communications with her after you've left.

[boggboss]

Break up with her your in your 30s mate how do u not know what to do

[Agape93]

Call the police, and ask for an emergency restraining order. Then move somewhere safe immediately after, block her on everything and do not talk to her. When able, go to the court, ask for a proper restraining order.

Stay safe dude.

[abcdef-z]

Put boundaries to yourself. You deserve to be treated well and received love from your partner. Put yourself first as priority. Don’t stay in hope that she will change

[Honesttguy]

If you like that then stay like good puppy. If not make different decisions.

[Anonymous]

Y’all trolling the fuck out this site dude. You den played with this thousands of times under different accounts

[ChiPaPa]

Dump her ass. Change your phone number, block her on all social media, change your locks, etc.

[Asker]

She says she doesn’t mean it and just gets upset sometimes and says sorry after she hits me

[ChiPaPa]

Big deal. Her actions speak higher than anything she can say.